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Title: My granddaughter died! Post by Elaine on Oct 24th, 2002, 7:56pm My granddaughter Mrgan Elaine Kennedy died, she was in a car wreck after she was born she had brain damage, Megan died in her sleep. I don't understnad any of it but its not mine to know ...as hard as I try this hurt is more than I can stand!!! This is the second grandchild I have lost. My daughter sure can use your prayers. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Jim R on Oct 24th, 2002, 8:01pm OMG, Elaine. I am SO SORRY! I don't know what to say. Oh Elaine, I wish I could give you a big hug and just hold you. I am so sorry. My sympathies... God has a plan - we don't know what it is.... My best and condolences to everyone in your family, dear. I wish there was something else I could do... Jim R |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by emilysmommy on Oct 24th, 2002, 8:01pm Hi Elaine. I don't believe we've "met", but you & your daughters family will be in my prayers! I couldn't imagine losing a child :(. Michelle |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by BobG on Oct 24th, 2002, 8:01pm I am so sorry for your loss. I just cannot imagine what it would be like to loose a child or grandchild. Prayers and sympathy are being sent to your family. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Melissa on Oct 24th, 2002, 8:05pm Elaine, I'm sorry, I don't know what to say, other than....I'm sorry :( :( :( :'( my heart goes out to you and your family... mel |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Peppermint on Oct 24th, 2002, 8:15pm Elaine... I am so so very sorry for your loss. :( Please let your daughter know...you are all in my prayers....condolences to you and your family in this time of profound loss. Peppermint :'( |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by eyes_afire on Oct 24th, 2002, 8:18pm I am so sorry Elaine, I don't know what words to say. We are here for you. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Mastifflvr28 on Oct 24th, 2002, 8:25pm Elaine, Only words I can think of, I'm so so sorry. Your family is definately in my thoughts, :( Mast |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Ree on Oct 24th, 2002, 8:30pm I am so sorry Elaine... seems you've been getting more sadness than one person deserves in a life time. Please call on me if you need anything I love you... ree |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Ted on Oct 24th, 2002, 8:45pm The Stanley Brothers - Angel Band The latest sun is sinking fast, my race is nearly run My strongest trials now are past, my triumph is begun O come Angel Band, come & around me stand O bear me away on your snowy wings to my immortal home O bear me away on your snowy wings to my immortal home I know I'm near the holy ranks of friends & kindred dear I've brushed the dew on Jordan's banks, the crossing must be near I've almost gained my Heavenly home, my spirit loudly sings The Holy ones, behold they come, I hear the noise of wings O bear my longing heart to Him who bled & died for me Whose blood now cleanses from all sin & gives me victory Elaine, Morgan Elaine Kennedy's triumph has begun with the Angel Band standing around her now. When you and your family think of her gone, think of her more, as the song says, taken to her immortal home on snowy wings. My love and deep sympathy are forever with you and your family. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Elizabeth on Oct 24th, 2002, 8:46pm Elaine, my condolences to you and your family..... |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by domm on Oct 24th, 2002, 8:59pm Elaine - I am very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. domm |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Not4Hire on Oct 24th, 2002, 9:17pm .....my family has you and yours in our prayers....the loss of a child is especially hard...... Please be strong and know you have our support in all things..... best... Steve, Martha and the kids...... |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Lori on Oct 24th, 2002, 9:23pm I'm so sorry that you and your family must suffer so. I will say a prayer for you and yours. Lori |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Elaine on Oct 24th, 2002, 11:09pm I can't sleep. My Granddaughter was 26 months old her name was Megan Elaine Kennedy, she is at Click Funeral Home in Lenior City Tn I wil be leaving tomorrow about noon the sevice will be Saturday.The baby was in a car wreck when she was three months old she has lived with braindameage all this time she could not hear see or walk. I sit here and think I am 48 years old I have lived my life, and it was a good one. Why take babies I don't understnad they should be able to live and not hurt. This is my second grandbaby I have lost. I am not sure if me or my family can take any more. I know right now breathing is hard. I wannt to tear this whole room apart ! I don't understnad a damn thing tonight!!! Why oh God why???Tear me up kill me but not my family not babies ! |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Linda_Howell on Oct 24th, 2002, 11:26pm Elaine, You are one of the strongest women I know and that strength is going to be tested now. OMG! I just don't have any words to say how sorry I am right now. I love you and I'm saying all my prayers for you and your family. Linda |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Karla on Oct 24th, 2002, 11:32pm Elaine, Ted and I are praying for your family. We are sorry for your loss and pain. We love you. Karla |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Edna on Oct 24th, 2002, 11:39pm Elaine, I am at a loss as to what to say. Losing a cherished love one is hard enough and to have it happen this way makes it even harder to understand. God needed an extra special angel at his side to help take care of someone, and that is why he chose your sweet granddaughter. Please extend my condolences to your entire family Elaine. And an extra special prayer will be said here for all of you in your time of need. May God bless and keep you in your time of grief, Love EDNA |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by ShariRae on Oct 24th, 2002, 11:40pm No words seem to be able to say how truly broken my heart is for you...Please know you & your family are in my thoughts and prayers... You are loved Shari |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Riccardo on Oct 25th, 2002, 12:44am I have not words!!! I am really sorry, Elaine. But it's not just enough! My prayers are with you and your family. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Charlie on Oct 25th, 2002, 1:24am This kind of thing makes me mad. No one said that life was going to be easy but ours is to wonder why it must so often be so hard. I wish we could prop you up better. Check in here though. We'll be waiting. Charlie |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by echo on Oct 25th, 2002, 8:30am Simple words cannot express what I'm am wanting to say. Sorry to read of your loss. Thoughts are with you and your family. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Margi on Oct 25th, 2002, 9:27am Elaine, I'm so sorry i wasn't around last night and i know my cheesy email i dashed off to you wasn't much. Please know that we are all standing strong beside you thru this sorrow your family now faces. Lean on us however you need to and print out Ted's post. Carry that one around with you - he's said so well what is in the rest of our hearts right now. As I told you last night, we can't argue with God's plan. We just have to go on. Hang in there, TS - I know you can. :'( |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by StanTheMan on Oct 25th, 2002, 9:49am Elaine, Can't add much to what's already been said... I'm so terribly sorry. May God comfort you and your family during this very difficult time. Prayers.... Stan :'( |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Jayne on Oct 25th, 2002, 9:57am Elaine...I just tried to call you on a number I had in my book. I wanted to give you a shoulder my dear. If you could PM your new # so I can call you if you would like that. I wish I could give you a huge hug right now. I am thinking about you. Love Jayne |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by stevek on Oct 25th, 2002, 10:17am Elaine, I'm so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers. Take care, SteveK |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by BonnieW on Oct 25th, 2002, 10:27am My dear Elaine, I am so sorry to hear about your granddaughter. It is difficult to understand life sometimes. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers. Be strong and be sure to look after yourself. Hugs and kisses, Bonnie and Warren |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by oringkid on Oct 25th, 2002, 11:14am Elaine, I cannot say what is in my heart. I am so sorry for you and your families loss. Sherry |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Slammy on Oct 25th, 2002, 11:59am Elaine, My love and sympathy goes out to you and your family. Words cannot express the hope and wishes I have for you and your family....Though through it all, I know you have the strength hold them all together! :-* Slammy 8) |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Cathi on Oct 25th, 2002, 12:12pm Elaine- I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It seems that you have been coping with so much-now one more huge trial. There are no words I can convey. Please know that you are in my thoughts. Cathi |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by NotH20 on Oct 25th, 2002, 12:41pm Elaine, It seems that God has bigger and better plans for your granddaughter.....he needs a set of "little" wings to assist him in His great plan. Know that she will not go without until you see her again. Your family is in our thoughts prayers..... If you need anything call on us - we are there for you always.... Mia & Barb |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Svenn on Oct 25th, 2002, 12:49pm I am SO SORRY! I don't know what to say. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by kim on Oct 25th, 2002, 3:03pm Elaine, Over and over sometimes I tell myself in tough times that God has a plan, or in thought i "turn it over to god" and sometimes it has helped me connect. Sometimes it has failed and anger and pain takes over - there does not seem to be any rhyme or reason - no anchor to grip when you are sinking and so desperate for it. There are people who I have lost and cannot articulate to you the meaning these people have to me. But I believe that you know....Sadness and loss will always be there. But I truly pray that one day you will be able to meet this youngin in your heart and the two of you will share a smile and believe in the hope of the morrow. It comes in it's own time. It rises out of every part of YOU Elaine. And it is Fine. So, I send you a wish and a prayer....our loved ones that pass are not gone - they are simply are waiting to offer a warm embrace from a place we do not know..........but only when we are ready. After all is said and done, there are many hands holding yours. :) Hold on. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by SwordAssembly on Oct 25th, 2002, 3:11pm :( I am so sorry Elaine, You and family will remain in my humble prayers. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by cher on Oct 25th, 2002, 4:13pm elaine, i can`t believe what i`m seeing here, i`m so sorry sugar for this loss, i will pray for you and for family for strength and love and hope. love you cher x |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by cbolony on Oct 25th, 2002, 4:37pm Elaine I am very sorry for your loss Charles |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by 2late on Oct 25th, 2002, 5:53pm Elaine, i'm so sorry to hear this, words can't describe,we're here for ya :' ............2late |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Tim_w on Oct 26th, 2002, 6:44am Elaine my family will keep you and yours in our prayers |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by firebrix on Oct 26th, 2002, 2:19pm Very sad to hear your news, Elaine. The death of a child is very hard to come to terms with. "What the caterpillar calls the End of the World, The Master calls a butterfly" Thinking of you and wishing you peace firebrix |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Linda T on Oct 26th, 2002, 3:48pm Dear Elaine: I'm so sorry that you have to suffer this kind of loss. I can't image what losing a child must be like. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Linda T. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by suzy617 on Oct 26th, 2002, 5:33pm You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by talitha on Oct 26th, 2002, 7:52pm Elaine, Gods' grace and peace to you and your family. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Dan H on Oct 29th, 2002, 10:12am Elaine, Words are just never enough to fill the emptiness that you feel. I am so very sorry for you and your daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you. .......Dan H |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Sweet_Landings on Oct 29th, 2002, 10:29am Elaine, Words seem such a petty and trivial thing at times like these... my deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences to you and your family... God bless you and hold you close in this time of sorrow. |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by Jabeen on Oct 29th, 2002, 3:42pm As many others have said, I haven't met you either-however I did lose a child. There is nothing worse in life-but when I lost my son, my parents took it very hard. As a parent, you never want your children to hurt like that. I do not have grandchildren yet, but I can't imagine having to go through that. My son is 26 today-my children are the center of my universe..I pray to God they never have to experience that loss. They will be in my prayers...so sorry. Jabeen |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by oringkid on Oct 30th, 2002, 4:56pm Elaine, I would have just emailed you with this but I haven't received any replies from my previous emails to you...so I am going to risk this. When I said previously that I could not say what is in my heart it was because I was afraid that you would take it wrong or that someone else would take it wrong. I know that you believe in God. I believe in other things, but in this case perhaps they go together. First, understand that I have a mentally retarded and physically handicapped daughter. But, she functions fairly well and understands alot. Her problems reside in reading, writing, math, time etc. Mostly abstracts. She cannot run or climb but otherwise is mostly able to fend for herself. Here is what I felt when I read your post, and because I know you believe in God I will put it in that format. You said that she had been in an accident that left her brain damaged. I feel that God felt that she could not contribute what she needed to, being in that state, therefore, he has taken her back to "start over". Perhaps her life, had she lived, would have been terrible. I think that her life now will be better. I hope you understand what I am trying to say and that it is meant to comfort you. I know it is hard. But your love will not have gone unnoticed. Sherry |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by burrow on Oct 30th, 2002, 7:53pm My prayers are with you and your family Elaine. Let me know if I can do anything for you. |
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Title: Thank you all! Post by Elaine on Oct 30th, 2002, 8:04pm You have all been very kind. My Family is dealing with it as best we can...its something that never goes away. Our first granddaughter died seven years ago hurts just as much today as then. WE just replace the lost with good thoughts of them both. Our faith in God is what gets us through. Any child dieing is hard to take, it doesn't matter who child it is. My family just have to believe that Gods knows what is best and someday we will all be together. I try to answer all my email I am sorry if I missed anyone. We would like to say a special thanks to Deb and Bill Loveoy, Michelle and Jane, Jackie. The flowers were beautiful. Jonny and Barbara G and Jayne and Jackie and Margi Thanks for the call. Thank each and everyone of you for such lovely post and emails and your kind words. Drk your letter was especially nice Thank You. We will never be ok with this type of lost but we will get through it. In timt The pain will be replaced with happy thoughts. Thanks to all from the Hollomans |
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Title: Re: My granddaughter died! Post by catlind on Oct 31st, 2002, 7:22am Elaine, I am so very sad to hear this news. I'm sorry I'm late in replying, things have been crazy for me. Please know my thoughts and sympathies are with you and your family. Your life has been far to hard a road for any person to have to travel. If you need anything let me know. My sincerest condolences to you and your family. Cat |
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