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December 5th 1987
« on: Dec 5th, 2007, 7:42pm » |
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I lost my Dad.
I'm not whining but it never seems to get any easier  He was a good Man! Unfortunately he only made it to 50 years old. He taught me everything I know.
Love ya Pops!
Sometimes I think having lost someone is the only bad thing about the Holidays, no matter how long ago it was or what time of year. I guess if we keep people alive in our hearts, they will live forever but this time of year is always the toughest.
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #1 on: Dec 5th, 2007, 7:48pm » |
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #2 on: Dec 5th, 2007, 7:49pm » |
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yes Jim, it is tought but you can be sure that every christmas He is right by your side. They are still alive as long as we keep them in our hearts.
You are always with me everytime I think of you.
Johnny (brother) 8 years old, Feb 26, 1982
Abuelita Juana (Granny) 72 years old, Nov 12, 1997
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #3 on: Dec 5th, 2007, 7:50pm » |
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Yup, it sucks. This will be a somber xmas for the JeffB clan.
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #4 on: Dec 5th, 2007, 7:59pm » |
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Lost my old man following the 1st Sox World Series win.
November 4th, 2004
Old George was only 74. God I miss him.
My heart goes out to all of you.
-Dennis-
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #5 on: Dec 5th, 2007, 8:03pm » |
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Lost my Dad Dec. 31, 1988 at 7:30pm with me and my Mom at his side. Cancer .
Sorry Jim and everyone else here who has lost a loved one.
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #6 on: Dec 5th, 2007, 9:34pm » |
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December 12th 1970...58
Geeze that's a long time ago but it doesn't seem that way.
A nice little tribute to your dad, Jim.
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #7 on: Dec 5th, 2007, 9:36pm » |
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #8 on: Dec 5th, 2007, 9:56pm » |
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August 30, 1985 - 59 years old - Rest In Peace mom
November 18, 2006 - 81 years old - Rest well Dad
It's hard to get old and watch your family die off.
It's hardest of all at this time of year.
Bless you all in your sorrow and memories.
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #9 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 2:09am » |
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Lost my father on January 28, 2003, at the age of 82.
A fine man, a veteran of WWII (Army Air Corps), my mother's companion for over fifty years, and--my Dad.
I think about him every day.
Best wishes,
George
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #10 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 3:03am » |
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Jim... 
I lost my dad back in April 18, 1997. We were very close and the sorrow still hits me time to time. But this year, more than any other since his death, he has been appearing to my thoughts, looking happy and smiley and I take that as a good sign.
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #11 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 3:35am » |
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I am sorry for everyone who has lost loved ones.
It never does get easier. My mom and I have always had a hard time at Christmas and other holidays since my dad died. This year is going to be harder because my grandma passed away a couple of months ago.
Birthdays are hardest for me - my dad and I shared the same one. I was born on his thirtieth birthday - that was cool. My grandma's birthday was on Christmas day.
Somehow we manage though. We keep their memories alive and then they are always with us. That is most important, at least to me.
So here is to my dad who died on April 26, 2003 at the age of fifty from a massive heart attack. And to my grandma who died on August 25, 2007 from cancer. I love you and miss you both. 
And here is to everyone else, for those who have moved and are no longer with us and to those left behind.
Hugs to all.
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #12 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 4:02am » |
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I lost my dad August 7, 1983 @ 4:30 am est.
I lost my mom March 1, 1995 @ 7:30 pm est
Two fine people who I miss so very much.
with warm regards,
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #13 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 7:31am » |
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When they are in your hearts, they are with you at every moment of everyday.
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #14 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 7:42am » |
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Scott, that was beautiful, just beautiful. 
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #15 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 7:46am » |
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #16 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 8:52am » |
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #17 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 8:56am » |
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My dad died July 4, 2006, and he would be 85 on December 16, 2007. I miss you dad, I pray you're in a better place. I love you!
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #18 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 9:05am » |
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When i was 14 I lost my dad may 3rd 1997 age 43,
then 3weeks later i lost the best friend i will ever have age 14!
Tams dad died 20th nov 2005
So dearly loved, so sadly missed
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #19 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 9:24am » |
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on Dec 5th, 2007, 7:42pm, jimmers wrote:
Yes, Jimmers, it's a hard loss.....bless your heart!
April 6, 2001....I lost my Daddy. I was lucky...he was a wonderful Pop and I got to have him for a long time. I will love him forever and miss him until the day I die.
My heart goes out to all of you....
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #20 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 6:39pm » |
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Mama-May 2, 1976, Age 38 1 week before Mother's day (of a self-inflicted gunshot wound).
Grandaddy- Jan 22, 1985
Daddy-March 6, 1989
Grandmother, June 24, 1984
Debbie, my best friend, March 11, 2004
And now, since I have some memories resurfacing that I don't care to deal with, think I will find my solace in this fifith of very rare Middleton that I just bought.
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #21 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 8:29pm » |
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God Bless all of our lost loved ones. I think by taking them, He already has 
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #23 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 10:51pm » |
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Well you all supported me through that hard year in 2005 June 20th of that year I lost my Dad "Bud McGovern" and then lost my Mom "Doris McGovern" on November 11th four and a half months later. Its been two years and though I am happy they are together... it feels like yesterday and I am bluer than blue this year.
I also went to my friends mothers wake last night it will be a tough one for them...
lookin at my mortality wondering when does it get fun again...
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Re: December 5th 1987
« Reply #24 on: Dec 6th, 2007, 11:09pm » |
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As I've gone through my spiritual walk after my mom passed, I came to realize that death is not an ending, it's just a beginning. It's not something to be feared or dreaded, but something that is so out of this world, so beyond our comprehension, that there is no explanation for it.
I do not fear death anymore but will embrace it when it's time for me to go and I'm sure I'll see/feel my mom and relatives again. I hope everyone can find peace in that.
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