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« on: Oct 18th, 2007, 7:09pm »
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Well, I've had enough of this one.  We've been putting up with shit from this guy for far too long and he's finally crossed the line.
 
I will ask each and every one of you that if you EVER see any resemblance of this person back on this board that you send me the link to the post so I can take care of it.
 
I usually don't post personal emails on this public board but it's my website and I will not stand for personal attacks on me and my family!!!!  You don't fuck with the webmaster of a website and expect to get away with this kind of bullshit!!
 
-----Original Message-----  
From: DJ  
Sent: Oct 15, 2007 11:53 PM  
To: sozialarbeiter1@earthlink.net  
Subject: Welcome back!

 
So I see you have found your way back?  You are from Queens this month, huh?  Which gender are you going to pick?
 
 
From: J.A. Sckorohod, LMSW [mailto:sozialarbeiter1@earthlink.net]  
Sent: Wednesday, October 17, 2007 10:06 AM
To: Deej@clusterheadaches.com
Subject: Fw: Re: Welcome back!-Send Response to Different email Address
IP Address: 74.34.221.13
 
 
I am having problems with my Earthlink mail.  If you are going to respond, please send your response to LMSW75@aol.com.
 
From: "J.A. Sckorohod, LMSW"  
Sent: Oct 17, 2007 9:55 AM  
To: DJ  
Subject: Re: Welcome back!  
 
Dear DJ,
Let me tell you something:  I find that there are many good posts on the website that can be helpful for those with CH.  As for myself, having had chronic CH for 14 years, tried every medicine in the book (I will not try mushrooms or LSD or other hallucinogenics) and underwent DBS surgery two years ago in Kiel, Germany (which, unfortunately, did not work), I think that I have a right to be a member of the OUCH board.  I have never personally attacked anyone nor used obscene language in my posts, yet I am forced to use different names to get back on because you continually remove me from the board.  I do not recommend bizarre treatments for CH nor the use of illegal drugs-and I find it interesting that the use of illegal drugs is encouraged by certain members without any valid scientific proof that they work and the fact that some of the members of that alternative treatment committee are from Harvard does not impress me-remember Timothy Leary?  
It appears that the most common objections to some of my posts have to do with my condemnation of racism, most recently against "illegal" Hispanics.  Just yesterday your friend Jonny posted several links which were nothing more than racist rants and he posted one, no doubt because he didn't read it, that totally disproved the allegations that Governor Schwarzenegger signed legislation forbidding the use of "mom" and "dad" in public schools and allowed male and female students to use either male or female toilet, even if a member of the opposite sex were in it at the time-all totally false, just as the rantings about Hispanics being responsible for some fictional "crime wave" taking place in LA as well as the nonsense about 95% of outstanding homicide warrents were for Hispanics.  Despite this nonsense that is published on the site, I do not see you, as the site administrator, taking any action against these false, racist rants.  
A number of people who have had the DBS surgery have been driven off the board because of the vicious attacks made against them-if you don't know, only one person has died after the operation, in Belgium 4 years ago and the cause of her death is not known-yet you allow to be published inaccurate posts about the surgery and, repeating myself, people have been driven off the board just because they had the surgery and wanted to share their experience.  These people who had the operation made a very difficult choice and in my book are heros, but on the board they are either liars or idiots.
Your friend Jonny is one of the worst offenders when it comes to inaccuracy, racist posts and use of obscene language.  I am sure that if I posted some of the things that he did I would be thrown off the site.  I don't understand you.  The fact that you established and administered the website tells me that you want to help people who have our horrible condition, yet you allow unsubtantiated information to be published as fact, allow personal attacks upon people who have done nothing more than share their experience with certain forms of treatment, particularly DBS surgery and allow blatently racist postings.  You now have a young child-do you want him to grow up to be a racist?  I wonder how Antonio and Chuck, two very decent people from what I can tell from their writings, put up with the vicious anti-homosexual "jokes"-I wonder about the mental state of those who post such things.  A few months ago Jonny published several homophobic pictures that showed a man with a (poorly, I might add) erect penis in his mouth, accompanied by more anti-homosexual postings.  In my field of psychology, one would interpret such postings and pictures as a possible indication that the person who made them has some serious personal problems with the issue and in any case has some serious personal problems.
I recommend to you to look at what is being posted on the site and decide if it is appropriate, decent and does anything to help those with CH, or is the "General" category a place where people can write whatever their depraved minds desire to.
I will end here.  I urge you to take a deep, long look at what is going on with the board and think about making some changes.  Perhaps if you announced that no more racist or homophobic or personal attacks will be allowed would be a good start.  I'm sure that you would lose some members, but I think that the quality of the board would improve.  If you read German, or know someone who does, check out CK-Wissen, the German CH site.  They put out good information and I haven't seen any personal or racist attacks posted there.
I would like to hear back from you and would like your opinion on what I have written.  You have done a lot of good in helping people with our illness and I think that you can do more by eliminating the racism and other falsehoods that get published.  Obviously you cannot check everything out, but some things are too obvious to miss.  By the way, congatualtions of the birth of your child to you and your wife.
 
 
From: DJ <deej@clusterheadaches.com>
To: sozialarbeiter1@earthlink.net; LMSW75@aol.com
Sent: Wed, 17 Oct 2007 8:44 pm
Subject: RE: Re: Welcome back!-Send Response to Different email Address

 
No, let me tell you something:  You are a hypocrite and a liar.  You cry when people give the DBS folks a hard time, but you do the exact same thing to people who try hallucinogenics.  HYPOCRITE!  You say you are “forced to use different names to get back on because you continually remove me from the board” when you used at least FOUR different profile names before I ever touched one of your profiles… Big_OUCH, John Anatole Sckorohod, klusterkopf, and kopfschmerz.  LIAR!
 
As for the rest of your email, I don’t owe you an explanation for a goddamn thing.  You don’t like it?  Leave and don’t ever come back… please.
 
And, since you obviously haven’t figured it out by the comment in your email, THIS ISN’T AN OUCH BOARD!!  It is my PERSONAL WEBSITE, clusterheadaches.com!  You think you have a right to be a member of the OUCH board, you probably do, but take it to them at http://www.ouch-us.org because I don’t have a thing to do with their organization.  How fucking difficult is that for you to understand?
 
DJ
 
And by the way… don’t you EVER, EVER mention my son or how I will raise him again.
 
 
From: J.A. Sckorohod, LMSW [mailto:sozialarbeiter1@earthlink.net]  
Sent: Wednesday, October 17, 2007 8:49 PM
To: Deej@clusterheadaches.com
Subject: Fw: Re: Welcome back!-Send Response to Different email Address
IP Address: 74.34.221.13

 
I thought that you were a reasonable person, but from this answer that you sent I have nothing but pity for you and your family.  I hope that your son does not grow up to be like his father-if OUCH is your personal board, then obviously you agree with the same racist, ignorant views that some of your friends publish.  By the way, I have never attacked people who use hallucinogens and if I have, show me the posts.  You have quite a temper-I hope that you do not act it out on your wife and child.  I will  post when I feel like it and if others don't like what I have to say then they can disagree.  YOUR site is full of racist posts-why don't you do something about that?  Is your silence the same as agreement?  You don't owe me an explanation for anything, but it would have been civilized to answer some of my questions without going into an irrational rant, just like your buddy Jonny, Mr. Patriot, who never served a day in the military, who was arrested and convicted by the courts and who has the mind of a 10 year old, judging from his posts-again, I thought that you were a reasonable person, and maybe you are and just had to get your rant out.  Perhaps in the future we can have a more reasonable discussion.
 
 
From: lmsw75@aol.com  
Sent: Thursday, October 18, 2007 6:18 AM
To: Deej@clusterheadaches.com
Subject: Childish
IP Address: 74.34.221.13

 
Someone, and I suspect that idiot Jonny, has gone into my profile, changed it as well as my password and thus I can no longer post.  He also published my IP address and this issue I will take up with the FCC.  I am surprised that you would let something like this be done and I really hope that it wasn't you.  In any case, I will file my complaints with Washington and we will see what happens.  I would appreciate an answer from you about this before I make my complaint; if not, then let the chips fall where they may.
 
 
From: J.A. Sckorohod, LMSW sozialarbeiter1@earthlink.net
Sent: Thursday, October 18, 2007 7:35 AM
To: Deej@clusterheadaches.com
Subject: Re: Welcome back!
IP Address: 74.34.221.13

 
Thank you and your fuck buddy, Jonny, for making it impossible for me to get on the board.  I did not think that you would sink so low (I knew that Jonny would).  I have made private contact with the people whom I want to, so I no longer need to post.  I feel sorry for your wife-I'm sure that she will be divorce #2 and I especially feel sorry for your son.  He will grow up in a household full of racism, no doubt domestic violence and will probably suffer from trauma the rest of his life.  Although I usually do not use profanity, I will make an exception here and tell you to shove your board up your ass-it will no doubt fit as I am sure that you and Jonny take turns as bottoms.  You are a thoroughly disgusting person-racist, intolerant, have a need to control others and enjoy seeing others get hurt.  I seriously wonder how you can have CH and remain in the AF for so long.  Goodbye and may you have a short and miserable life.  My sympathies to your wife and child.
 
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« Reply #1 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 7:18pm »
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The guy isn't right in the head.
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« Reply #2 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 7:28pm »
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Bye bye, ass-hole!
 
Nobody talks about DJ's family OR fucking my mother!
 
We ALL will run you down if you ever show up again you sick bastard, get some fucking help.....your brain is damaged.
 
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« Reply #3 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 8:01pm »
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This guy clearly has some mental problems, what an idiot. I hope he reads this:
John, or whatever the hell your name is, why do you waste so much time and energy from your life trying to fight people here, hating people, holding grudges and being upset that you are banned?
 
You will have a short life from this negative energy, moron.
 
If you hate this site so much, then go buy a domain, host it, and pay for your own damn website. Then you won't have to worry about what goes on here, you crazy fucking idjit.
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« Reply #4 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 8:01pm »
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I doubt that the putz can read this, since he's been blocked.  So I won't say the things to him I'd like to.
 
Count me in on the lookout, Deej.
 
Best,
 
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« Reply #5 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 8:06pm »
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My, my, my...what a twisted wad of soiled panties.
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« Reply #6 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 8:07pm »
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I have never personally attacked anyone nor used obscene language in my posts, yet I am forced to use different names to get back on because you continually remove me from the board.  

 
This thread is just one display of what he says he doesn't do, as in every persona, and as he left the board last time.  
 
 Not that, not here.
 
 
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« Reply #7 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 9:02pm »
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on Oct 18th, 2007, 7:09pm, DJ wrote:

Someone, and I suspect that idiot Jonny, has gone into my profile, changed it as well as my password and thus I can no longer post.  He also published my IP address and this issue I will take up with the FCC.

 
Uh oh, I better get the lawyer Howard Stern used to fight the FCC......LMMFAO!
 
FCC?......What a fucking putz! Grin
 
on Oct 18th, 2007, 7:42am, Vanster wrote:
As I recall, although she was drunk, your mother was an OK lay

 
Nobody talks about my Mom that way!
 
Maybe I will have my Mom call your work, John.....yes, I do have the number. Grin
 
 
 
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« Reply #8 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 9:08pm »
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The guy is a maniac and a compulsive liar...he must have a horrible life...
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« Reply #9 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 9:09pm »
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on Oct 18th, 2007, 8:01pm, George_J wrote:
I doubt that the putz can read this, since he's been blocked.  So I won't say the things to him I'd like to.
 
Count me in on the lookout, Deej.
 
Best,
 
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I thought being blocked means you cant post but can still read as guest?  
 
I have to say that he has a very clear pattern of behaviour: he would start out being nice and polite and even sound reasonable, then he would start pushing his views/ideas onto you, then if you dont agree with him he will get aggressive and abusive. The degree of the abuse escalates with time.  
 
Guess what? That is the exact psychological pattern of thinking and behaviour of a serial abuser or murderer ie a psychopath.
 
You should watch your back if you associate with him in any way.
 
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« Reply #10 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 9:10pm »
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74.34.221.13  
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« Reply #11 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 9:16pm »
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If, in fact, this sheister has a Licenced Masters [degree] in Social Work (LMSW) as claimed, I pity those who seek "his" help.
 
I'm not impressed by initials or degrees, as this "person" demonstrates his hypocracy and ignorance in his posts.
 
Hey Jonny, he seems to really have taken an interest in you!
 
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« Reply #12 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 9:19pm »
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wow, he's mental.   Interesting how he get's uglier and uglier the more pressure is applied.   Seems to be the signature of most of the worst trolls.    
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« Reply #13 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 9:23pm »
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on Oct 18th, 2007, 9:09pm, Annette wrote:
Guess what? That is the exact psychological pattern of thinking and behaviour of a serial abuser or murderer ie a psychopath.

 
Heres another PM.....LOL
 
on Oct 18th, 2007, 6:17am, Vanster wrote:

 
Yes, you are the "Fucking King Douche" and obviously have serious issues with homosexuality (and sex as well as in many of your posts you try to portray yourself as some sort of stud), which should be addressed with a competent therapist.  Were you molested as a child?  Why this need to continually declare yourself "The King"?  A real king has total control over his empire-are you attempting to regain control over issues that still haunt you from childhood?  Maybe you can overcome your uebermasculine self image and seek help from a qualified  therapist-I think that a female would be better for you, you can let down your "tough guy" front.  Good luck.

 
Just who needs the therapist?....LOL Grin
 
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« Reply #14 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 11:16pm »
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on Oct 18th, 2007, 9:16pm, Ray wrote:

Hey Jonny, he seems to really have taken an interest in you!

 
Thats only because I am the only one that will slide it up his internet ass and challenge his anal intent!
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« Reply #15 on: Oct 18th, 2007, 11:32pm »
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Vanster's IP address is 74.34.221.13

 
I wonder if the doofus realizes he's broadcasting it whenever he sends one of his stupid e-mails to someone?  He's sent them to plenty of people.  And people talk to each other.  
 
It ain't a secret identity.
 
Good luck with the FCC.  
 
 
 
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« Reply #16 on: Oct 19th, 2007, 12:54am »
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From: "J.A. Sckorohod, LMSW"  
Sent: Oct 17, 2007 9:55 AM  
To: DJ  
Subject: Re: Welcome back!  
 
down into his rant ...
 
 I wonder how Antonio and Chuck, two very decent people from what I can tell from their writings, put up with the vicious anti-homosexual "jokes"
 
... and further on ...
 
Perhaps if you announced that no more racist or homophobic or personal attacks will be allowed would be a good start.  

 
Hmmmm ... I guess I missed the "vicious anti-homosexual" posts!  DAMN, that is what happens when I don't read EVERY post, in EVERY section ... SHAME on me!
 
BUT, I WILL agree there have been some jokes directed at me, about my homosexuality ...  and they are usually funny as hell!!!  But, let's face it ... I am openly gay ... It is not a secret ...
 
Oh, and now that I think of it, there are also jokes about women being females ... and about men being men ... and about people who have tattoos ... about people who have piercings ... about people who are bald ... about people who have hair ... about people who are young ... about people who are old ... about cats ... about dogs ... about guinea pigs ... about cars ... about houses ... about parts of the country, or world ... about political beliefs ... about religion ... about the color of someone's eyes ...  about left handed people ... about right handed people ... (have I left any out?)
 
YUP!!!  This is a TERRIBLE place to be!  ALL of those MUST be eliminated!  Heaven forbid if we should laugh and have fun!
 
Oh, and John (I know you are here as a guest and reading this), it may be a surprise to you to know, that I have met Jonny in real life, several times, and I consider him a dear friend.  Someone I can rely on.  Someone who I love DEARLY (as a brother) and whom I would place my life in his hands ... and KNOW that it is safe.  He would do his utmost to make sure that I was safe, as I would do the exact same for him.
 
... And you obviously have absolutely NO CONCEPT of who is a decent human being and who isn't.  Deej, his darling wife, and most everyone on this site, are good, kind, decent human beings.  Deej being one of the most amazing, kindhearted, wonderful, thoughtful, considerate human beings on the face of this earth!
 
Go get the professional help that you so obviously need!
 
SHEESH!
 
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« Reply #18 on: Oct 19th, 2007, 6:43am »
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As one who very seldom looses her temper - right now I'm seething at what that jerk wrote to DJ. I've passed the point of anger and am just plain MAD now!  
 
Thanks to this board (and DJ) I'm ALIVE today. Thanks to the HELPFUL people here, I'm almost SANE today! And thanks to everyone here I've got a lot of friends I didn't have 9 years ago when I thought I was alone with this horrible illness! And that's just ME -how many thousands of others feel the same way? Who the hell is he to judge anything? Thanks to DJ, we've been able to set our own pace here and discuss everything from headaches to politics, raising kids to Chuck's love life and anything else that came to mind. That's what FRIENDS do! That's also how NEW breakthrus for our illness is discovered (and how many new things have we discovered since this board has been set up?).  
 
Over the years we've had bigots come here and some of our "family" has gotten their feelings hurt and have left - later the bigots left (not soon enough), but that was just the way things happened. But this guy just keeps coming back - but this time he's gone too far - when he says these things to DJ and Jonny.
 
If he'd even paid a "little" attention, he'd know we're very protective about our "boys" - oh we can make fun of them, but when someone else does it - WE take offense and you NEVER mess with "family" when someone puts down our own!  
 
Insofar as bringing up DJ's family -- that's just totally unacceptable -- and grounds for if I ever meet this guy he's DUST!  
 
Am I reading Ray's post right? Is this guy in Rochester NY? Haven't been there since 99 - might be time for another meeting in Dave's garage! In fact it might be time to put Dave to work - that's what he does - run's down deadbeats. Somethin' to think about. Told ya I was mad.....
 
DJ - you go hug Steph and the boys and don't worry about this jerk. If he bothers you again - let Jonny know and we'll take care of him....  
 
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« Reply #19 on: Oct 19th, 2007, 7:29am »
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DJ, can I have your baby?
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« Reply #20 on: Oct 19th, 2007, 8:25am »
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 REALITY....this is DJ's house.....play nice,youget to stay........ SIMPLE.....thank you for letting us in your house.....   phil h
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« Reply #21 on: Oct 19th, 2007, 10:21am »
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Wow. We have witnessed a sharp transition from passive-aggressive to twisted-wicked.
 
DJ: Thank you for this wonderful Web site, and I am sorry that you have had to encounter this character.
 
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« Reply #22 on: Oct 19th, 2007, 10:23am »
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on Oct 19th, 2007, 12:54am, ClusterChuck wrote:

 
Hmmmm ... I guess I missed the "vicious anti-homosexual" posts!  DAMN, that is what happens when I don't read EVERY post, in EVERY section ... SHAME on me!
 
BUT, I WILL agree there have been some jokes directed at me, about my homosexuality ...  and they are usually funny as hell!!!  But, let's face it ... I am openly gay ... It is not a secret ...
 
Oh, and now that I think of it, there are also jokes about women being females ... and about men being men ... and about people who have tattoos ... about people who have piercings ... about people who are bald ... about people who have hair ... about people who are young ... about people who are old ... about cats ... about dogs ... about guinea pigs ... about cars ... about houses ... about parts of the country, or world ... about political beliefs ... about religion ... about the color of someone's eyes ...  about left handed people ... about right handed people ... (have I left any out?)
 
YUP!!!  This is a TERRIBLE place to be!  ALL of those MUST be eliminated!  Heaven forbid if we should laugh and have fun!
 
Oh, and John (I know you are here as a guest and reading this), it may be a surprise to you to know, that I have met Jonny in real life, several times, and I consider him a dear friend.  Someone I can rely on.  Someone who I love DEARLY (as a brother) and whom I would place my life in his hands ... and KNOW that it is safe.  He would do his utmost to make sure that I was safe, as I would do the exact same for him.
 
... And you obviously have absolutely NO CONCEPT of who is a decent human being and who isn't.  Deej, his darling wife, and most everyone on this site, are good, kind, decent human beings.  Deej being one of the most amazing, kindhearted, wonderful, thoughtful, considerate human beings on the face of this earth!
 
Go get the professional help that you so obviously need!
 
SHEESH!
 
Chuck

 
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Re: Vanster (aka CHTom, Big_OUCH, klusterkopf)
« Reply #23 on: Oct 19th, 2007, 10:54am »
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You also forgot the miget parties dang.
 
you know every time i went nose to nose with the troll we would ignore, wis mission was obvious he wanted to attack a few and ignored the others. the coward would never have a meet and greet as I requested several times. I even offered to be a friend and take him hog hunting. Oh well DJ thanks for banning him and Jonny thanks for being. Everyone here even when we dissagree knows we are here for each other. I would like to once more THANK EVERY ONE HERE! You are all family and I love each and everyone of you.
 
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« Reply #24 on: Oct 19th, 2007, 11:47am »
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on Oct 19th, 2007, 7:29am, Jimi wrote:
DJ, can I have your baby?

 
I think Steph would have a problem with that. laugh
 
Thanks Deej!
 
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