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Daddy's home.....
« on: Sep 14th, 2007, 5:55pm » |
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pretending to be strong......
Didn't end up in the dead letter office.....
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no no no. gotta be strong for mom.....
If ever I could use a f'ing man-hug, this is it......
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #1 on: Sep 14th, 2007, 6:08pm » |
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Aw Sweetie - there's no way to ease the reality of this.
Just know we're here for you.
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #2 on: Sep 14th, 2007, 6:09pm » |
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The reality part totally sucks Liz....love ya. 
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #3 on: Sep 14th, 2007, 6:31pm » |
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 ...sorry Lizzie....
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #4 on: Sep 14th, 2007, 7:03pm » |
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The cycle of life.........the baby now holds dad up in her arms... blurring the image of dad holding a baby in his arms........... I remember spreading my dad's ashes in the river...... and in a blink , 6 years later I spread my mom's ashes in the same spot in the river......... sad,joyful,surreal and peaceful....... As before , the ashes of our family are returned to the sea...... so sad , so right............. I return to the same spot on the river to mourn,celebrate and connect with the generations..... All is wrong.....all is right........ You'll be ok , you'll be sad , you'll be strong and then you'll become whole again.... having absorbed all that has seemed to have been lost....... Time will right itself again............ Peace and comfort to you.... phil h hearts have been made to be broken , then made whole again, but different..........................
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #5 on: Sep 14th, 2007, 8:06pm » |
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I'm sorry you're going through this. I lost my dad about two months ago, and I know it's hard. I've been helping my mother get ready to have a garage sale. Dad was such a pack rat when it came to anything tool and hardware related... Could almost open up our own hardware store with the stuff we've been finding. Not exactly the same thing you're going through right now, but every time I pick up another saw, or box of various sized screws to try and sort out, it brings back the memories.
God is watching over them, and keeping them healthy, safe and happy. Keep being strong. You know he'd want that.
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #6 on: Sep 14th, 2007, 10:45pm » |
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We're on your side Cuddlepumpkin.
Youse done well kid.
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #7 on: Sep 14th, 2007, 10:53pm » |
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #8 on: Sep 14th, 2007, 11:09pm » |
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Aww hon... i am sorry....
Much Love
Shari
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #9 on: Sep 15th, 2007, 12:13am » |
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #10 on: Sep 15th, 2007, 1:13am » |
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #11 on: Sep 15th, 2007, 3:00am » |
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Lots of Lizzie... It WILL get easier, I promise.
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #12 on: Sep 15th, 2007, 7:20am » |
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I listened to this song for a long time after we burried Dad. I found peace in it.
Man of the Hour Lyrics
Artist(Band) earl Jam
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThAgP8vPr8s
Tidal waves don’t beg forgiveness
'CRASHED' and on their way
Father he enjoyed collisions; others walked away
A snowflake falls in may.
And the doors are open now as the bells are ringing out
Cause the man of the hour is taking his final bow
Goodbye for now.
Nature has its own religion; gospel from the land
Father ruled by long division, young men they pretend
Old men comprehend.
And the 'SKY BREAKS' at dawn; shedding light upon this town
They’ll all come ‘round
Cause the man of the hour is taking his final bow
Goodbye for now.
And the road
The old man paved
The broken seams along the way
The rusted signs, left just for me
He was guiding me, love, his own way
Now the man of the hour is taking his final bow
As the curtain comes down
I feel that this is just goodbye for now.
Peace to you Lizzie.
-Dennis-
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #13 on: Sep 15th, 2007, 8:15am » |
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Here is a man hug for you Lizzie, well let's make it two,ok?
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #14 on: Sep 15th, 2007, 8:57am » |
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #15 on: Sep 15th, 2007, 9:26am » |
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posted by phil h:
"The cycle of life.........the baby now holds dad up in her arms... blurring the image of dad holding a baby in his arms........... I remember spreading my dad's ashes in the river...... and in a blink , 6 years later I spread my mom's ashes in the same spot in the river......... sad,joyful,surreal and peaceful....... As before , the ashes of our family are returned to the sea...... so sad , so right............. I return to the same spot on the river to mourn,celebrate and connect with the generations..... All is wrong.....all is right........ You'll be ok , you'll be sad , you'll be strong and then you'll become whole again.... having absorbed all that has seemed to have been lost....... Time will right itself again............ Peace and comfort to you.... phil h hearts have been made to be broken , then made whole again, but different.......................... "
That was perfect. I hope that gives you comfort Liz.
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Re: Daddy's home.....
« Reply #16 on: Sep 15th, 2007, 10:57am » |
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Sorry Lizzie.........
You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.....
((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))
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