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'fess up time
« on: Jul 11th, 2007, 8:21pm » |
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It's me, Donna Har. Couldn't get in without changing everything. The e-mail address is still dmh114@hotmail.com
I'm finally admitting to myself that I'm getting old, although I don't feel it. It's just that the body is showing age and there's no chance that any man would be interested anymore. I've always imagined walking down the street when I grow old with my man, holding hands, but it isn't going to happen.
I've also finally admitted to myself that if you don't have the money to bestow birthday gifts, special ocassion rememberances, etc., that you aren't going to count when people remember their favorite friends.
I guess the only thing that I have to offer is advice from past experience and a sincere caring attitude for people who can gain from my limited advice.
It doesn't really matter. I'm here because I want to be because I love you clusterheads. Answers to this post are not necessary nor helpful.
Tell me to get over myself........I'm not into myself so I don't really care.
Will I ever make a convention? Probably not. Unless it's in Florida.
I know I'll be sorry as soon as I hit "post". I'm just really down right now and don't give a crap.
Don't insult me by answering this post.
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #1 on: Jul 11th, 2007, 8:28pm » |
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STFU, Donna....and get back in the boat, theres a huge wave coming and we need everyone on the oars!!!
Now sit down and row! 
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #2 on: Jul 11th, 2007, 8:30pm » |
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Go to hell, Jonny.........I love you.
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #3 on: Jul 11th, 2007, 8:33pm » |
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on Jul 11th, 2007, 8:30pm, 1stdonna wrote:| Go to hell, Jonny.........I love you. |
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Your one of few......LOL 
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #4 on: Jul 11th, 2007, 8:34pm » |
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The one true cluster-trait that I've ever come across is that all of our ladies are stunningly beautiful, become irresistable at the age of consent, and remain that way for the term of their natural life (longer here in Queensland where it's so warm).
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #5 on: Jul 11th, 2007, 8:46pm » |
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Quote:Don't insult me by answering this post.
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Insult coming on then:
You are loved no matter what age you are or how long it's been since your last hit. You are one of us and always will be no matter you say.
SO THERE!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #6 on: Jul 11th, 2007, 8:49pm » |
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on Jul 11th, 2007, 8:28pm, Jonny wrote:STFU, Donna....and get back in the boat, theres a huge wave coming and we need everyone on the oars!!!
Now sit down and row! |
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it couldn't have been said better.........'cept for what Brian said 
Glad you're here Donna. Now stfu and 
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #7 on: Jul 11th, 2007, 10:14pm » |
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I'm glad you're back Donna 
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #8 on: Jul 11th, 2007, 10:25pm » |
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Helen.......thanks so much for all of your support. You are a charming and good friend. I'm lucky to know you!!
Aussie Brian......Jonny.......Jennifer........Linda....and all of you who sent me an IM........Thank you..thank you. I needed you and you were here for me.
These are truely dark times for me and you all have helped me realize that I am not alone. Sound familiar?....clusterheads are never alone!! I knew this, but didn't count myself in.....until now.
Edited to add: You guys just don't listen, do you? I told you not to respond to this wussy post, but you wouldn't listen, would you!! I'm not talking about my pity party any more. Goodnight.......I love you guys anyway.
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #9 on: Jul 11th, 2007, 11:54pm » |
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Donna...Take my advice and pump yourself up. Nobody pays attention to me now that I'm 60 so I've decided to be even more ridiculous than before. Easy for me.
You sound good Donna. Glad you're back too.
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #10 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 12:04am » |
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I am not responding to this post! I just feel the need to say...
XXXOOO to someone so whomever wants them there they are.
pssst....Donna
phone# comin your way 
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #11 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 12:13am » |
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I know, being 29 is a bitch! What thread is this? Where the helami? Donna who? hit post dummy. oh poop
What is in the water down there? Fountian of youth my butt. oh well.
all the best
Hope your doing better.
boy if I had a hammer
love ya dear
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #12 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 2:52am » |
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Donna...
Lots of happy feelings,
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #13 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 3:31am » |
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Two things I have learned living with a clusterhead is stubborness can be a good thing and never takes no as an answer
I am sure glad you are back Donna, I have missed you
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #14 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 4:54am » |
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I AM NOT RESPONDING OK? This is not a response!!!
You have me sitting here crying...I can't help it. I know nothing will make you feel better with the way you're feeling right now... but serioulsy...the body thing...are you entering a Hawaiin Tropic Bikini contest?? How often do you walk around naked? Or "keep the lights on" with your man?? It seems that's it's a universal request.."turn the lights off" when we're with our men.
I know, I know...you want the option. There is something called "'the eyes of love"... and there IS someone who does or will love you AS IS. And you more than likely don't even look HALF as bad as you're thinking.
Dont you dare give up your hopes and dreams of walking down the street with a man...you ARE still in the running by far!!! God has it all figured out...if that's what you want, really want...no doubt you will have it.
Donna, I admire your vulnerabilitly and honesty. That alone shows what an amazing and good person you are. Keep your chin up girl.
So jump on in the boat with all of us...we need you. Love, Sherri P.S. men don't look so hot either...they just don't take it as hard as we do or have the same perception it seems...sorry guys 
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #15 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 5:32am » |
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One more thing...the people that only consider you a "favorite friend" based on the gifts you can give them, etc....instead of based on your love, loyalty and support??? I say lose them!! They ARE NOT friends.
Obviously, from the posts you received...you are sure considered a "favorite friend" here...money means nothing when it comes to being a friend...if someone handed me a hundred dollar bill during my darkest hours...instead of putting their arms around me...well, it wouldn't do too much for me.
You are just fine....perfect the way you are.
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #16 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 7:11am » |
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From one old broad to another what the hell is wrong with sagging everything? We damn well worked for it! And gray hair ain't bad -- it's distinguished!
As for MEN! The old ones only want someone to wait on them anyhow -- we need YOUNG ones to lift things! (know any YOUNG ones?)
As for gifts -- it's the THOUGHT that counts -- THINK of them!
Now you know that everyone here loves you -- don't you feel better now.... Of course you do. And as Jonny said -- get back on here and start rowing.......
Hugs BD
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #17 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 7:19am » |
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Amen Barb.
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #18 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 7:57am » |
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Hi Donna
Love and hugs on their way to you from an almost bald man with only half his original teeth.
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #19 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 8:33am » |
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So glad you are back. I'm sorry you are in a dark time in your life and are feeling so hopeless about finding someone to share some time with.
(poo on you about being insulted if anyone replied!)
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #20 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 9:22am » |
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Welcome back, I don't know you "personally", but I interact with very few people here. But, I do enjoy your posts, you have a very good way of looking at things and are very helpful to a lot of people. I believe that you are a true asset to this site.
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #21 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 9:48am » |
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Miss Donna, you know you are loved here. I hope today has dawned brighter for you.
Get yourself out there into the world, lady - go do some volunteer work....cuddle babies, volunteer at the animal shelter, help out at the library. Distract yourself. And ask your doctor about depression if you think maybe you're headed down that road, ok?
Maybe go over to Barb's and help Rudy get around for a weekend or something.
Sometimes a lift only happens when we initiate it.
Yes, that's a butt kicking. Didja feel it?
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #22 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 9:51am » |
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Donna.....
Youth is over rated and wasted on youth. You have a treasure chest of wealth as far as I see in the enormous loving spirit that you share with all of us here.
You effect everyone here on the board in a positive way.
I'm glad that you're back.
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Re: 'fess up time
« Reply #23 on: Jul 12th, 2007, 10:14am » |
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Oh, STFU, Donna, and get back to rowing! 
Chuck
PS: SO glad you are back, where you belong, darlink!!!
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If it makes you feel any better, I am sitting here in my house all alone again and feel very sick after consuming my 5th Krispy Kreme glazed doughnut.
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