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Condolences, dear CathiP
« on: Jul 5th, 2007, 11:39pm » |
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From Jeff's thread:
on Jul 5th, 2007, 10:50pm, cathip wrote:Jeff,
My heart goes out to you........and, I do know a bit about how you're feeling. My mother died in the wee small hours of Sun morning. 1 day before your dad. We My sister and I) were there with her for the whole week. I thought I had grieved all that week, but, here I am, 5 days later, still in such disbelief........
I'm so sorry for your loss, Jeff........maybe this very nice man who was your father will meet and shake my very nice mother's hand.
I'll pm you my phone number, or you can send me yours. We'll talk, if you'd like.
My sympathy and understanding.....
Cathi
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I am so sorry, Cathi! I know how much of a pain in the ass, your mother was at times, and how much you sometimes wanted to strangle her!
But she was your mother. Nothing will ever change that. And I know you loved her dearly. Just know, that she is finally out of pain and suffering.
I wish I could be out there with you, dear.
Now let me YELL at you!
Why the hell didn't you call me, and let me know what you were going through? I would have been there for you! And I would also have harassed the snot out of you! Or I could have just been a shoulder to cry on.
Cathi, you have my number. Call me if you need to.
My deepest condolences to you and your whole family.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #1 on: Jul 5th, 2007, 11:54pm » |
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All my love cathi.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #2 on: Jul 5th, 2007, 11:55pm » |
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My deepest condolences Cathi
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #3 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 12:20am » |
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Cathi,
I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
With warm regards,
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #4 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 12:58am » |
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #5 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 1:28am » |
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I'm so sorry, Cathi.
Prayers and condolences to you and your family.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #6 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 3:34am » |
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Oh Cathi I'm so sorry. My condolences just doesn't sound like enough to say but I don't have words for such awful times.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #7 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 4:03am » |
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Hugs, love and prayers from all of us to all of you through this difficult period, Cathi.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #8 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 6:14am » |
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Cathi...
Deepest confdolences. You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers. Hold her close in your heart....she will be with you forever.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #9 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 6:26am » |
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Very sorry to hear this Cathi. Our prayers are with you.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #10 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 6:26am » |
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You're in my thoughts and prayers.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #11 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 6:30am » |
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #12 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 6:53am » |
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I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your Mom.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #13 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 7:07am » |
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I'm sorry for your loss, Cathi.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #14 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 7:12am » |
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You have my sincere sympathy Cathi.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #15 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 7:23am » |
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Cathi,
my deepest condolences. I'm so sorry for you loss. 
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #16 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 9:06am » |
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I'm so sorry for your loss Cathi. Wish I could give you a shoulder and a hug.
Take care.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #17 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 9:53am » |
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #18 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 10:28am » |
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #19 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 10:31am » |
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......how do you ever prepare for such a thing.....
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #20 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 10:49am » |
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Very sorry for your loss, Cathi.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #21 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 11:23am » |
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Cathi,
As you know I have very limited internet access so I had no idea your Mother had passed. : - (
My condolences to you, Gil, & the rest of your family.
*You're always there for us to lean on...now it's our turn to be there for you.
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #22 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 11:28am » |
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I am so sorry Cathi, hun. I had no idea! I wish I could say more. The loss of a mother is so hard. Nothing said makes it easier. I had lots of wonderful poems and sayings (all so true) sent and given to me when my mother passed but at the time I didn't want to hear them. So just know we are here. And if you need to talk or vent or cry let me know. I am so sorry for you and your family's loss Cathi!
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #23 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 11:55am » |
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I feel I owe you all an apology. I have been watching Mom go downhill for 3 yrs now. Sometimes, I felt like the kid who cried "WOLF".........I withdrew from this group, and tried to deal on my own. I was busy helping her, so my time was limited at best, but, I should have said something.
Mom died because her body just couldn't repair itself any longer. 6 surgeries in 2 years was more than she could take. My daughter explained to me, Mom's spirit was far too big for that frail, tiny body.
Anyway, for all that remember me, give me time to heal and I will be back, wind in my sails and all.......
wishing you all PF,
Cathi
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Re: Condolences, dear CathiP
« Reply #24 on: Jul 6th, 2007, 12:38pm » |
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Dear heart, Cathi. You have nothing to apologize to us for. Just know that we're all here whenever you need us.
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