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A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« on: May 11th, 2007, 12:17am » |
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Just had to put my signature on my dads today as a witness.
Despite his nephews he grew up with as a boy in Hawaii being here for a few days and having a great time listening to these fools, I could be happier.
I fucking hate cancer.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #1 on: May 11th, 2007, 12:24am » |
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DAYUM, buddy! That has to be hard ... I am here for ya, buddy. Call me if you need a night out and away, or just need someone to keep you company. cuz I ain't far from ya.
Prayers headed your way, my friend.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #2 on: May 11th, 2007, 12:27am » |
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Big hugs to you and your dad.
Prayers and vibes and lots of love heading your way from all of us.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #3 on: May 11th, 2007, 12:27am » |
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the big c sucks dude...  keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #4 on: May 11th, 2007, 12:29am » |
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Damn Jeff.... It's miserable to have to be going through that. You're in my prayers friend. Let me know if there's anything I can do.
with warm regards,
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #5 on: May 11th, 2007, 12:29am » |
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Thats sad Bro. I am so sorry for you and your family.
Be strong.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #6 on: May 11th, 2007, 12:47am » |
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Did that myself for my father almost four years ago, Jeff.
Not easy.
Best wishes to you, and to your father,
George
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #7 on: May 11th, 2007, 12:59am » |
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i hate the "c" word too buddy...(but it cant take away memories )
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #8 on: May 11th, 2007, 1:14am » |
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Jeff - I don't have anything I can say that will help but know that we do love you hon and we'll do all we can if there is anything we can do to help.
lots and lots of love
Helen xxx
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #9 on: May 11th, 2007, 2:06am » |
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Jeff... 
The c - thing took my dad 10 years ago... I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #10 on: May 11th, 2007, 5:08am » |
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Not the easiest of days  ......
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #11 on: May 11th, 2007, 7:29am » |
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Really sorry, bro 
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #12 on: May 11th, 2007, 7:38am » |
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, condolences jeff. andrew.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #13 on: May 11th, 2007, 7:47am » |
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Praying for your dad and family, Jeff.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #14 on: May 11th, 2007, 8:00am » |
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Sux, bro. You are in my thoughts.
I still haven't figured out which is better - a drawn out death where the suffering is apparent, but everybody gets a chance to say what needs to be said, or the sudden, dead-before-they-hit-the-floor type, which is shocking to those left behind, but there's little to no suffering.
Doesn't matter - you're still in my thoughts and prayers.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #15 on: May 11th, 2007, 9:31am » |
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You're in mine too bro.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #16 on: May 11th, 2007, 10:37am » |
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I am sorry Jeff, my prayers are for you and your Dad..
Sincerely
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #17 on: May 11th, 2007, 10:49am » |
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Sorry to read of this Jeff, my thoughts are with you. I too hate cancer, it took my dad from us 25 years ago.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #18 on: May 11th, 2007, 10:56am » |
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Sorry, sweetie. I'm sending hugs and love, nani
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #19 on: May 11th, 2007, 3:22pm » |
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Aw, Jeff....my heart just breaks for you, sweetie.
This is such a tough road to travel.
I think about you every day...and I so wish you weren't having to go thru this.
Be as strong as you can...
Much love,
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #20 on: May 11th, 2007, 3:37pm » |
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sorry to hear that news Jeff. I'll include your family in the prayers of my family.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #21 on: May 11th, 2007, 6:06pm » |
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Jeff, I want you to know that our thoughts, prayers and best vibes are being sent to you and your Dad.
You are a very special guy and you have helped me and by extension Lind and my family ever since you showed up at this asylum. Anything we can do to help is yours for the asking.
I have found that it is impossible for me to begin naming the people on this board that are permanently on my list of "angels" because i will inevitably leave someone out. You are "there" in capitol letters as is everyone on this thread. Please don't hesitate to call or ask for anything that I can provide.
Don't ask me why but my Lin said a while back when we were constantly teasing each other that you, Zwibby and I seemed to have a (3 amigo type) bond and you know......
That was a hell of a compliment to me! Still is.
Hang tough Bro, but not too tough.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #22 on: May 12th, 2007, 10:26pm » |
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That is hard to do Jeff.
So sorry and life just has a way of sneaking up and biting us in the butt. Damn.
You're in my thoughts Jeff.
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #23 on: May 12th, 2007, 10:52pm » |
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Re: A Declaration For A Natural Death.
« Reply #24 on: May 12th, 2007, 11:37pm » |
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So sorry Jeff... Cancer really does suck. Stay close and listen, we learn so much from our fathers if we are with them in the end of their earthly life. Your father is so brave.
Know that I think of you during this really hard time and I'm here if you want to chat. I have been in that chair.
Gods love to you
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