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CH and Relationships
« on: Mar 26th, 2007, 11:41pm » |
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I know I am going to open up a bag of worms here. I will tell you how I feel and and how I presently believe later in the post. I want some wisdom here if there can be any.
I am single. Should or should I not allow myself to enter a relationship?
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #1 on: Mar 26th, 2007, 11:44pm » |
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Who rules your life, you or the beast?
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #2 on: Mar 26th, 2007, 11:57pm » |
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Maybe I'm just overly irritable today, but I hate threads that start out like this. It reads like, "I'll give you my opinion later when I've read enough of yours to form one?"
on Mar 26th, 2007, 11:44pm, AussieBrian wrote:| Who rules your life, you or the beast? |
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'nuff said.
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #3 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 12:21am » |
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I might be a bit cranky today.
You're supposed to be a rational thinking adult human being. Make up your own mind. Or go talk to your mom.
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #4 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 2:27am » |
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If you have to ask - stay single!
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #5 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 4:26am » |
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man, at 49 you should already know what do your want from life...
life alone with CH or life with lovely company and CH??
Good choice!! 
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Quote:| I will tell you how I feel and and how I presently believe later in the post. |
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Thats when I'll answer then.
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #7 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 7:22am » |
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Change the words around . . . .
I have MS, should or should I not allow myself to enter a relationship?
I have terminal cancer, should or should I not allow myself to enter a relationship?
I have heart disease, should or should I not allow myself to enter a relationship?
I have a head cold, should or should I not allow myself to enter a relationship?
I'm having a great day, should or should I not allow myself to enter a relationship?
Only you know the answer.
(A supporter of 15 years who has been married for 25 years and wouldn't give up one minute of that time for ANYTHING)
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #8 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 7:28am » |
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on Mar 26th, 2007, 11:41pm, pieface_49 wrote:I know I am going to open up a bag of worms here. I will tell you how I feel and and how I presently believe later in the post. I want some wisdom here if there can be any.
I am single. Should or should I not allow myself to enter a relationship?
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Ok, I will change my mind ... There IS ONE dumb question ...
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #9 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 7:33am » |
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If you're contemplating "entering a relationship" and you're still concerned primarily with yourself and your own feelings, I'd have to say you're not ready.
Just my humble opinion. Your mileage may vary.
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #10 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 12:24pm » |
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I think you should get a sex change and start having affairs with barnyard animals.
Anyone else need an opinion to a question like this??
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #11 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 12:25pm » |
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Sorry, but for you I have to say SINGLE.
Anyone who asks that question has issues that need to be worked out before they hook up with anybody else.
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #12 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 1:38pm » |
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Come on guys -- This is a MAN and he's ASKING FOR DIRECTIONS!!!!
Seriously Pie -- we gotta have a LITTLE more info before WE can have an opinion.
Now ME, I'm a 29(+) year old window who ain't looking for any type of romance, but if anything came along I sure as hell wouldn't let CH be a factor. But enough about me -- what was your question?
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #13 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 1:49pm » |
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Men don't ask for directions. And we can watch 18 different things on tv at the same time.
This is all we need: Meat, Beer, TV, and uhh...er...., I guess thats all we really need. But a nice woman would be a plus!
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #14 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 2:34pm » |
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Pie,
it can be scary to enter a relationship when you have ch. But it should not be the reason, which holds you back.
If I would have allowed my ch to stop me from dating, I would have never met my boyfriend, who is my best supporter ch - wise.
I'm sure that there are plenty of people who find ch too much to take, but quess what? You don't need to be with them! The right kind of person will not allow ch stand in the way either!
Whatever you decide, good luck!
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #15 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 3:04pm » |
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on Mar 27th, 2007, 1:38pm, BarbaraD wrote:| Now ME, I'm a 29(+) year old window who ain't looking for any type of romance |
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a 29 year old (+) window needs to be changed for something maybe double hung and triple paned . . . .
Sorry, I couldn't let that pass.
Back to your regularly scheduled thread.
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #16 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 3:19pm » |
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Why miss out?
Why be selfish and not allow someone to share you?
That's the sappy dude.
Now the other side......
If ya gotta ask, then you have a hell of alot more wrong the Clusters.
Figure it out.
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #17 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 3:21pm » |
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on Mar 27th, 2007, 1:49pm, JeffB wrote:| a nice woman would be a plus! |
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A bad woman would be even better! 
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #18 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 3:36pm » |
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on Mar 27th, 2007, 1:49pm, JeffB wrote:| ... But a nice woman would be a plus! |
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on Mar 27th, 2007, 3:21pm, Gator wrote:
A bad woman would be even better! |
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Lets face it people - one with a pulse would be a novelty for our Jeffie!
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #19 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 3:48pm » |
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on Mar 27th, 2007, 3:36pm, LeLimey wrote:
Lets face it people - one with a pulse would be a novelty for our Jeffie!
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...or at least one that hasn't thrown up on herself.
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #20 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 3:59pm » |
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on Mar 27th, 2007, 3:48pm, Brewcrew wrote:
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Umm.. slight problem with that Brewbaby - like who wouldn't puke on seeing Jeff?!
Chuckie have you still got one of these for Jeff?!
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #21 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 4:13pm » |
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on Mar 27th, 2007, 3:48pm, Brewcrew wrote:
...or at least one that hasn't thrown up on herself. |
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Holy shit, y'all.....these visions are killin' me 
Looks like a hijack in progress  ....Carry on.......
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #22 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 4:25pm » |
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on Mar 27th, 2007, 4:13pm, TxBasslady wrote:
Holy shit, y'all.....these visions are killin' me
Looks like a hijack in progress ....Carry on.......
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Reference to a different thread: High School Sweethearts
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #23 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 4:59pm » |
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Thanks, Bill. LOL
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Re: CH and Relationships
« Reply #24 on: Mar 27th, 2007, 7:25pm » |
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on Mar 27th, 2007, 3:59pm, LeLimey wrote:| Chuckie have you still got one of these for Jeff?! |
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I might ....
Jonny sure got all excited and kissyface while I had it on ...
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