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Tara Ann
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Trying to pretend....
« on: Nov 3rd, 2006, 6:31pm » |
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That I'm not down.........god damn this crap is depressing sometimes.....day in andday out trying to be a good mom and wife it's so hard some days
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #1 on: Nov 3rd, 2006, 6:38pm » |
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Yes, it is depressing! Yes, it is hard! Yes, you are amazing for doing all that you do.
Everyone is entitiled to a down day or two.
Hugs to you! 
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #2 on: Nov 3rd, 2006, 6:39pm » |
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Keep your head up and try to smile when ever you can. 
I bet you're great at whatever you do!
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #3 on: Nov 3rd, 2006, 6:53pm » |
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on Nov 3rd, 2006, 6:31pm, taraann wrote:| god damn this crap is depressing sometimes |
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...and somehow we always manage to bounce back. Tough bunch of SOBs! Keep it up Taraan and bring your troubles to us.
((((((((((((((((T)))))))))))))
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #4 on: Nov 3rd, 2006, 6:57pm » |
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Just remember you've always got us and we're rooting for you and we believe in you.
When trying to get through today gets tough just aim for the morning, or the afternoon and when even that looks bleak just stick on a video and curl up with the kids and have fun. Housework can wait. No one died from dinner out of a packet or a tin and a smiling happy wife and mum beats a harrassed and worn out gourmet cook any day of the week!
Tomorrow is going to be wonderful, I want tons of pics of you and yours, you're going to look stunning and make a lot of happy memories.
I BELIEVE IN YOU!
lots of love
Helen xxx
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #5 on: Nov 3rd, 2006, 7:15pm » |
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on Nov 3rd, 2006, 6:38pm, kayarr wrote:Yes, it is depressing! Yes, it is hard! Yes, you are amazing for doing all that you do.
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Ditto!
Hugs to you Taraan, next day will be better ..
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #6 on: Nov 3rd, 2006, 7:21pm » |
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Suck it up and deal, you can either cry or scream......Ive always said that alittle of both will get you by in life.
We all do it!!
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #7 on: Nov 3rd, 2006, 7:23pm » |
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Hang in there and KICK some ASS!
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #8 on: Nov 3rd, 2006, 7:48pm » |
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Lots of hugs and vibes to you, sweetie
You can always lean on us...never forget that.
Lots of love to you,
Jean
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #9 on: Nov 3rd, 2006, 8:26pm » |
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TaraANN??? (In my most stern voice) What is Helen on to here? Is something special happening tomorrow?? You need to TELL us!!!
As for pretending, I suspect Sam and the kids are onto you. Remember. you are entitled to down times, and if the beast is taking his toll, you need time out! You are quite valuable when the beast leaves you alone, and they know this.
Gather your strngth, fight with what you've got, and try to remember life is what happens when you are NOT getting hit...wouldja PLEASE remember that??
Cathi
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #10 on: Nov 4th, 2006, 5:09am » |
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Tara,
lots of vibes are coming your way!
Don't let ch get to you. I know how easily it can take you down. I've been far too kind to ch in that sense myself.
I bet that you're a great mum and wife. When ch comes, be kind to yourself. Deal with the hit, then your family. Try to forget the guilt - when you're doing your best, leave the rest! 
Hugs & PG days,
Sanna
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #11 on: Nov 4th, 2006, 6:51am » |
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Tara Ann,
Here's a big ole hug from your friend Kathy. Now, repeat after me...I am not my headaches, I am a great mom and wife. I am not my headaches, I am a great mom and wife.
Now, go drag your husband and offspring over here ..yup, to the monitor.
Listen up guys-Tara Ann-that sweetie standing next to you? I want you all to give her a really big hug from us and from you. Right now. Yes I mean it. Then you will tell her that she IS a good wife and mother, that you love her and you will all kiss her feet. No I'm not kidding-well on the top of course. Now she has the rest of the day off to play.
Better?
kathy
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Tara Ann
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #12 on: Nov 4th, 2006, 7:35am » |
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Oh you guys are the greatest. I mean really, I went from forcing a smile for thekids to really smiling (and laughing thanks to kathy's feet kissing suggestion)
Todays a new day, with a wedding scheduled for my brother in law and a sister in law to be that I couldn't have handpicked better myself. I'm the Matron of honour and Sam's the best man.
Thanks so much for the pick me up, I really needed it bad.
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #13 on: Nov 4th, 2006, 7:48am » |
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and we need YOU bad TA!
You're an important part of this family and it isn't as much fun without you. Now don't forget the pics okay?!
Ooooh.. and if you see any gorgeous Sam Elliot lookalikes at the wedding - give 'em my number 'k?!
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #14 on: Nov 4th, 2006, 9:49am » |
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for you!
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #15 on: Nov 4th, 2006, 10:28am » |
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Did they kiss your feet? You know I was serious- 
have an absolutely groovy day sweetie!
kathy
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #16 on: Nov 4th, 2006, 12:01pm » |
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Damn.
Wish I had an answer. You are allowed to beat the walls and scream so long as you keep coming here.
Charlie
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #17 on: Nov 4th, 2006, 12:41pm » |
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Take it easy on yourself, darn it!!! You can only do so much right now so quit being so hard on yourself and cut yourself some slack. We can't run at 100% all of the time! You are doing your best and that's good enough.
Helen.....if by chance a Sam Elliott look alike is found, let me know. It's cold as hell here and I need a little warming up
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Re: Trying to pretend....
« Reply #18 on: Nov 4th, 2006, 2:15pm » |
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Ah STFU you whinner!!
Heehee
Luvz ya, hun!!!!
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