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Re: Leading By Example
« on: Oct 9th, 2006, 1:56pm » |
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Yeah, you tellem, King!!!.....good stuff!!!! 
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #1 on: Oct 9th, 2006, 3:26pm » |
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on Oct 9th, 2006, 1:50pm, KingOfPain wrote:There are many, that have been around for quite a while here.
Some choose to lead by example with positive thoughts, behaviors, & actions.
THANK YOU!
The sad part is the few leading by example with positive attitudes/actions are sometimes far, FAR outweighed [in my opinion] by the negative undermining of many with their stench of tearing down, stirring up trouble, & general unproductive ways. 
It has been said, time & time again by myself & others, what if...all that negativity was turned around to positive?
Oh what could be done & the good accomplished!
I have no "magic answer/solution" of how we keep this community, this family on the positive side of things.
YES, I know we will have our discussions, disagreements & such, as do any group of diverse people. That's human nature.
The point is, agree to disagree, fine. Can we all do so without all the foul name calling, the back stabbing & the negative nonsense?
The fact is, the mood of this place [negative or positive] can be swayed by certain people's actions & behaviors.
You know who you are.
I put out a challenge.
Can we all try to review our thoughts & opinions when it comes to the negative comments & actions BEFORE we post them & think about what [& how] each of our behaviors/words/deeds...might impact another person or the community as a whole? How they affect others around us?
*I am not perfect & don't claim to be.
I thank you for your time it took to read this & thank you in advance if you would like to be a part of the solution...instead of part of the problem.
Pain free's to all, always.
Thank you Supporters, one & all.
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #2 on: Oct 9th, 2006, 3:53pm » |
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Thank you KOP!!!!
I feel the same way everytime I come here. (You should see some of our PM's) 
This place will be around a long time and it's like everyday life and work...you just have those people to deal with!
Love ya darlin,
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #3 on: Oct 9th, 2006, 4:24pm » |
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I'm in. 
I can do that. 
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #4 on: Oct 9th, 2006, 5:17pm » |
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I agree 100% some people seemed to feel it is there duty to be cyber-slammers and just hammer people, to get there jollies. You are right they know who they are, One individual jumps to mind that the majority of the posts I have seen from this person have been negative. Miserable people like to bring others down to there level by treating them badly, news flash we are all miserable dealing with this and we do not need someone to try and bring us lower. I do my best to ignore such people and try to stay positive and if I get irked I just don’t respond, took that bate once and that was enough for me.
I think it is a shame that a first time poster makes a poor decision in there choice of words and instead of getting help they get crucified and scared away never to return, when all they really wanted was help and understanding.
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #5 on: Oct 9th, 2006, 7:33pm » |
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. yup me too. i do, do that. andrew.
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #6 on: Oct 10th, 2006, 10:01am » |
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Hey KOP...... 
Love to you...
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #7 on: Oct 10th, 2006, 10:50am » |
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I always try to be positive , so I guess I am in, almost by default 
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #8 on: Oct 10th, 2006, 11:12pm » |
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Hey,
who wants a half full glass of water?
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #9 on: Oct 10th, 2006, 11:18pm » |
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I'm in Steve. My intent is never to offend or hurt, but I know that sometimes my stretches for a laugh do just that.
If that applies to anyone here, I offer my deepest apologies and a commitment to consider the diverse membership that we have here before posting potentially harmful comments.
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #10 on: Oct 10th, 2006, 11:20pm » |
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Hey Kayarr,
I have a half full glass too.
What about we pour both together and make a FULL glass , which then we can share around ?
Anyone thirsty?
Annette
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #11 on: Oct 11th, 2006, 12:41pm » |
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Often times I try to lighten a mood by injecting humor.
Sometimes it works.
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #12 on: Oct 11th, 2006, 9:54pm » |
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I'm there.
Thanks KOP 
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #13 on: Oct 11th, 2006, 10:25pm » |
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on Oct 10th, 2006, 11:18pm, Richr8 wrote:| My intent is never to offend or hurt, but I know that sometimes my stretches for a laugh do just that. |
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You could never offend or hurt anyone...it's just not what you're made of.
Your sense of humor is one of the traits I really like about you. You brings lots of smiles to so many.
Keep giving those laughs and smiles, R2... 
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #14 on: Oct 11th, 2006, 10:53pm » |
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on Oct 10th, 2006, 11:20pm, BB wrote:
Hey Kayarr,
I have a half full glass too.
What about we pour both together and make a FULL glass , which then we can share around ?
Anyone thirsty?
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Full glass coming up Team work ROCKS!!!!!!
Your humble waitress,
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Re: Leading By Example
« Reply #15 on: Oct 12th, 2006, 4:38am » |
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Somewhere near my first few posts I replied to a poster who said he/she had a cluster headache for 2-3 days I believe. I wrote something about how I couldn't believe it and didn't think it was clusters.
I got slammed by someone on here, doesn't matter now, for replying with that remark.
So, I guess I too have been guilty of slamming somebody when it wasn't my intentions.
I do see on here sometimes the mood of "our clan".
I mostly see on here help and support and have received the same.
Love this place and visit daily !
Carl
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