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Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« on: Sep 6th, 2006, 4:26pm » |
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Well, I can use whatever vibes you have to spare....
My husband had a vasectomy on the 24th of August. The reason is that I have been told that I will not survive another pregnancy.
The reason I am asking for your thoughts is that there is a chance that I am pregnant. I saw the doctory last night. I had to have my bloodwork done to check on my cholesterol. We need to see if the medication has helped at all or it is it still over 450. I had him add a pregnancy test to it.
I am not sure how to feel anything right now. I child is suppost to be a blessing, but if I am then I will most likely have to terminate it. I cant take the chance of leaving my husband and kids without a mom. I was told after I had my son that if I got pregnant again that there is less then a 5% chance that one of us would survive the pregnancy.
To be extreemly honest, I am more scared then I think I have even been nefore in my life. The doctor is supposed to have my test results Friday.
Right now it is completly in the Hands of the Goddess. I have to believe that what is meant to happen will happen. That this is yet another lesson that I am meant to face and end up stronger afterwards.
Thank you for reading this... I needed to say it, rather then keeping it inside.
Tia
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #1 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 4:40pm » |
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Tia, You are always in my thoughts and prayers. As I told you on another post I feel that you are a good and blessed spirit. I know that you are strong but don't let that stop you from leaning! If you have lost my # and want to talk just PM me. My wife had to make a very similar choice many years ago which is why we have only 1 son. I'm sure she would be happy to speak to you about it.
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #2 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 4:41pm » |
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You got em, be well.
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #3 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 4:42pm » |
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T any time you need it there are always enough prayers and vibes for ya here, ok! 
Stand strong and stay with us ok!
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #4 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 4:48pm » |
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Thank you all.
Tim I still have your number. I need right now to get thru till Friday and know one way or the other. If it is positive, then you just might get that phone call.
I feel like I am walking around in a fog. And am numb. All I feel is sared. This is not a way to live. I was not this bad even when I had to fight the beast everyday and never knew when he would come to visit.
Blessed Be...
Tia.
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« Reply #5 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 4:51pm » |
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #6 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 4:55pm » |
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You got em
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #7 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 6:16pm » |
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Thank you again.
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« Reply #8 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 6:47pm » |
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #9 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 6:56pm » |
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All my spare thoughts and vibes heading your way.
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #10 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 6:58pm » |
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vibes headed your way, Hoping for the best.
Hang tough untill Friday, hopefully you will have been worried for nothing
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #11 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 7:04pm » |
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Oh Tia, how awful for you
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #12 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 7:31pm » |
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I am praying for you. What a hard choice to make. Remember you are very much loved.
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #13 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 7:33pm » |
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Oh my goodness. You are definitely in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated.
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #14 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 8:49pm » |
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Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, Tia.
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #15 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 9:22pm » |
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Thank you all so much. You have made me feel a million times better.
I think one of the harder things I had to do was tell Shaun. I was debating waiting until I knew for sure one way or another, but I tried to see it from his side and how hurt he would be that I did not tell him sooner if it is positive.
Last night was rough. But we will get thru and what is meant to happen will happen.
Each time I started to feel a bit over whelmed today, I would log in and read this thread. So thank you so much and yes I will keep you posted.
Love and Light, PF Nights and Days to you all.
Tia
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #16 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 10:26pm » |
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(((((((((((Tia)))))))))))))))
Thinking of you...
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #17 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 10:56pm » |
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Aw, sweetie...I'm sorry.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
hugs and love, nani
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #18 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 11:09pm » |
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sorry, tia. Will be prayign for you.
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #19 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 11:11pm » |
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Tia,,,
I am so sorry to hear of this dilemma..and you are right..you will learn & gain strength..and what is meant to be will be...trust in The Goddess...
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Much Love
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #20 on: Sep 6th, 2006, 11:22pm » |
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Wow.......that is a tough one........hopein it is just a false alarm and you don't have to make a dicision that will be painful. Take care of YOU Pam
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #21 on: Sep 7th, 2006, 10:32am » |
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Tia,
I'm glad that you told us instead of keeping it all in. It's quite a situation... I do hope that it will work out for the best in the end.
My thoughts & prayers are with you.
Best wishes,
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #22 on: Sep 7th, 2006, 1:02pm » |
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You're in my prayers as well.
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #23 on: Sep 8th, 2006, 12:23am » |
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So sorry Tiannia.
No matter what you may have do, you're loved by us all and your family. 
Hoping it's just a false alarm and a pile of vibes for you.
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Re: Asking for your thoughts and vibes...
« Reply #24 on: Sep 8th, 2006, 12:43am » |
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Many vibes and heartfelt hopes for you, Tiannia.
Best always,
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