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CHit happends to those who plan
« on: Jul 17th, 2006, 5:14pm » |
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I got email from a dear friend of mine this afternoon. We've known each other since kindergarten, but we became friends bit later on.
Now, she's graduating from university this fall and she's hosting a huge party for us friends the same weekend. And when does that happen? Naturally in September, either 23rd or 24th.
Exactly when I was planning to be in London, meeting more of my clustersisters and clusterbrothers at HelCon!  What's a woman to do?! Gotta choose and I hate that when it's a situation like this.
I'd appreciate your advices a lot...
Should I tell my friend that I just can't miss my clustermeeting? (The same pal is one of those people who tell you that she's had a HA once when you tell that you just got hit... I have told her what ch is all about and showed her this site, but no, she doesn't get it...)
Should I come to London only for few days?
I have to think about this... Luckily there's a slight chance that my friend would have her party on Sunday which would help a bit. We shall see...
Best wishes & PF days,
Sanna
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #1 on: Jul 17th, 2006, 5:22pm » |
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Tough question!
But I think a friend would understand!
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #2 on: Jul 17th, 2006, 5:30pm » |
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Friends understand that there are things called "family obligations."
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #3 on: Jul 17th, 2006, 5:31pm » |
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Your friend will only graduate once, we'll be clusterheads forever.
Tough call. Either decision is correct.
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #4 on: Jul 17th, 2006, 5:39pm » |
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Maybe you could plan a special "graduation weekend" with just you and your friend for another time? I'm just throwing out ideas here.... 
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #5 on: Jul 17th, 2006, 5:46pm » |
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Hmm... maybe I just tell my pals that we're celebrating the graduation in London! 
She didn't made it to London during those 3 years I studied there, so about the time to go there now...
Sanna
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #6 on: Jul 17th, 2006, 5:48pm » |
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on Jul 17th, 2006, 5:46pm, sandie99 wrote:Hmm... maybe I just tell my pals that we're celebrating the graduation in London!
She didn't made it to London during those 3 years I studied there, so about the time to go there now...
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #7 on: Jul 17th, 2006, 6:05pm » |
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I tell ya what,
Send me tickets to England, I'll fill in for ya, wig and all. You enjoy yourself with the new grad and I'll fill ya in on what happened. Will need a new pair of heels tho....
The things I do for people....I'm such a giver!
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #8 on: Jul 17th, 2006, 6:09pm » |
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Sanna, Ijust posted on the general board under "Open letter". Please read it about meeting other clusterheads. There is no experience like it in life. If you haven't had the opportunity to get together with other clusterheads, you have to do it. I'm sure your friend would understand. I know it's a touch decision.
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #9 on: Jul 17th, 2006, 6:34pm » |
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on Jul 17th, 2006, 6:05pm, JeffB wrote:I tell ya what,
Send me tickets to England, I'll fill in for ya, wig and all. You enjoy yourself with the new grad and I'll fill ya in on what happened. Will need a new pair of heels tho....
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 Now Jeff, will ya dye your hair VERY RED, learn to speak fluent Finnish and all that? We Finns are wicked in our own way, you know... 
Sanna
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #10 on: Jul 17th, 2006, 6:38pm » |
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on Jul 17th, 2006, 6:09pm, Sandy_C wrote:Sanna, Ijust posted on the general board under "Open letter". Please read it about meeting other clusterheads. There is no experience like it in life. If you haven't had the opportunity to get together with other clusterheads, you have to do it. I'm sure your friend would understand. I know it's a touch decision.
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Sandy,
I just read the Open Letter you wrote & replied. If you would have asked me this week ago, I would have said that I haven't met another clusterhead yet. But now I have. I got to meet Hirvimäki & his family here in Jyväskylä (check "Off to mee another clusterhead" thread). It was amazing experience! It made me want to meet other clusterheads asap!
Sanna
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #11 on: Jul 17th, 2006, 6:44pm » |
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I've done crazier things Sanna, I won't mention what I do in summer cottages!
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #12 on: Jul 18th, 2006, 2:16pm » |
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on Jul 17th, 2006, 6:44pm, JeffB wrote:| I've done crazier things Sanna, I won't mention what I do in summer cottages! |
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Ok, I'm probably going to regret asking this, but hey, I'm curious. Crazier things like what?
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #13 on: Jul 18th, 2006, 2:21pm » |
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on Jul 18th, 2006, 2:16pm, sandie99 wrote:| Ok, I'm probably going to regret asking this, but hey, I'm curious. Crazier things like what? |
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OH GOD!!!
Dont ask HIM that!
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #14 on: Jul 18th, 2006, 2:52pm » |
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Ever heard of a certain game that has something to do with "Ring tossing"?.
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easy this one
« Reply #15 on: Jul 18th, 2006, 5:55pm » |
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toss a coin,if not happy with the outcome do it best of 3
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Re: easy this one
« Reply #16 on: Jul 18th, 2006, 6:52pm » |
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on Jul 18th, 2006, 5:55pm, Yorky wrote:toss a coin,if not happy with the outcome do it best of 3
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How are ya Yorky??
Not sure about the coin but the best of 3 works for me!
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Re: easy this one
« Reply #17 on: Jul 19th, 2006, 2:24pm » |
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on Jul 18th, 2006, 6:52pm, JeffB wrote:
How are ya Yorky??
Not sure about the coin but the best of 3 works for me!
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not too bad jeffb
just got a auto injector and it works atreat(kills the beast within 15 mins)used it 4 times now.
hope your well
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #18 on: Jul 19th, 2006, 11:36pm » |
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Umm.. well you KNOW I'm prejudiced since I put the Hell into Helcon 
At least you have the option to come for a few days Sanna so all is not lost.. you know I'll get you to the airport for whatever flights you need and I'll make sure you have the absolute time of your life here too
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Re: CHit happends to those who plan
« Reply #19 on: Jul 20th, 2006, 8:43am » |
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WOW, what a tough choice.
I know nothing about your friend, but what I "DO" know, is that we are family here and we'll still be here for you and will totally understand whatever decision you make.
This is just the small stuff Sanna, don't fret too much over it.
And, actually, our family here is better than real family................know the saying "you can't choose your family "...........well, I chose this one and glad of it.
So, know that you've already made the right decision and follow your heart.
hugs,
EDNA
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