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maffumatt
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The guy I grew up next door to was killed this morning. He was a year older than I and we lived next door to each other for 15 years. He came home early from work and found his wife in bed with another man. I am not sure if Timmy stabbed him and then the guy shot Timmy, or the otherway around, but the results are the same. He was about the best friend I have in this world. I may not make it to the convention, I'm not sure yet.
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Damn Matt, I'm really sorry. My condolences to you.
Do what you gotta do with no regrets.
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maffumatt
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This really pisses me off, I can't believe Michele would do that to him. 4 kids without a daddy because she couldn't keep her damn pants on. I mean damn if your gona fuck around at least go somewhere else.
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #3 on: Jul 11th, 2006, 5:32pm » |
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Oh sweetie....
I'm so sorry....I don't know what else to say. 
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Jean
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #4 on: Jul 11th, 2006, 5:47pm » |
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Horrible story, Matt.
I don't get it either. Sorry you lost such a good friend too. That's really tough on anyone.
Hope to see you though.
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #5 on: Jul 11th, 2006, 7:00pm » |
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 Sad story, Matt. You have my condolences. I'll really miss meeting you if you cancel, but I understand.
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #6 on: Jul 11th, 2006, 7:05pm » |
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Sorry for your loss.
I don't want to get down on marriage but I won't do it again.
I remember when my wife told me she was pregnant with a second child, only she didn't think about the sex we didn't have the months before she told me. Why do people cheat???
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #7 on: Jul 11th, 2006, 7:58pm » |
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Sheesh Jeff if we knew the answer to that we'd all be rich 
I'm sorry Matt, thats so tragic and what a terrible waste.
((HUG)) I'll be thinking of you whatever you decide to do
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #8 on: Jul 11th, 2006, 8:03pm » |
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Sorry Matt, I lost my best friend to a gun shot 20 years ago........like any death, it never leaves but time does help.
Sorry Bro!!
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #9 on: Jul 11th, 2006, 8:15pm » |
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Matt, I have been speechless since I read this. How many lives have been destroyed all because someone wasn't playing by the rules?
Normal reaction when someone is widowed would be to offer support. I think I prefer to kill this woman!
Wherever you are this weekend, there will be people who care and are available to talk to. I hope you will do that.
Cathi-who is grateful for the husband she chose so many years ago!!!!
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #10 on: Jul 11th, 2006, 8:15pm » |
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My Dad called and said the funeral is going to be Thursday, there is no way way i would be able to make it because I am shorthanded at work and we have an interchange scheudaled that day. I will be seeing you guys Friday noonish.....Pop is looking forward to to the convention, bewarned he is in his own words 100% certified nuts so I guess he should fit in well. We have been planning and looking forward to this for a long time. I'm glad I am not going to miss it.
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #12 on: Jul 11th, 2006, 8:32pm » |
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Wow Matt, sorry to hear this.
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So sorry Matt. All the pain in so many lives for just a few moments of thoughtless and stupid fun.
Time is good medicine Matt, take it slowly.
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« Reply #14 on: Jul 11th, 2006, 9:23pm » |
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I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. Sometimes there just are no answers.
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #15 on: Jul 11th, 2006, 9:25pm » |
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Matt, my condolences to you so tragic...
Looking forward to meeting you on Friday, see you soon
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« Reply #16 on: Jul 11th, 2006, 11:00pm » |
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So sorry about your friend .... . My deepest condolences  Summer
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #17 on: Jul 12th, 2006, 12:42am » |
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Matt,
I am so sorry to hear this about your friend. I cannot imagine what you must be going through. But I can tell you this, you will have a lot of friends waiting with open arms and hearts and good strong shoulders in Milwaukee....me being one of them.
Take care and I cannot WAIT to meet Mr. Matlock (is it ok if I call him Dad? 
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #18 on: Jul 12th, 2006, 12:45am » |
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Matt,
I'm so sorry for your loss...
My condolences.
Best wishes,
Sanna
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #19 on: Jul 12th, 2006, 12:48am » |
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So sorry to hear Matt. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #20 on: Jul 12th, 2006, 12:57am » |
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Well I guess he did what he wanted to do and it kind of went from there.......eye for an eye......tooth for a tooth......all is lost in love and war Pam
Seems there could of been better options on this but what went down is what was ment to happen as sad or sick as that mite sound. Such tangled webs we weave......
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maffumatt
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He was set up, 1 she knew when he was coming home, 2 the kids were gone, 3 she knew how he would react, 4 he was shot 4 times, once or twice wasn't enough? The guy is going to walk because it was self defence. Timmy did stab the guy. Timmy was well liked in that part of the country. He didn't have a mean bone in his body. He was always ready to help anyone in need. It's just not right.
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #22 on: Jul 12th, 2006, 9:59am » |
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If it was pre-meditated, and they can prove it, they should fry both of them. I'm so sorry you lost your friend.
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #23 on: Jul 12th, 2006, 10:15am » |
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Matt...
While I am so happy that you're going to make it ... I am sadden by the lost of your friend..
Nothing that I can do or say will undo what has been done to your friend... but we are there for you to help you through the healing process...
Looking forward to meeting your father..
Love &
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Re: Bummer
« Reply #24 on: Jul 12th, 2006, 10:23am » |
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Wow I am speechless. You read about this stuff all the time. Sadly cheating is extremely common. What is wrong with people anyways. And like you said couldn't at least rent a room. Skank ho...........
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