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Here's another poll for you.
Where do you draw the line on comments made and let your feelings be known.
Jonny makes a comment that inferences that someone
( that would be me ) should die.
Do you go along with that and not say anything or do you speak up and say " that is unnaceptable "
Not one person said " Jonny no matter what you think about someone that comment shouldn't be tolerated here"
If someone said that to someone else on this site I would be the first person to defend the victim of a stupid, and ridiculous and violent comment like that.
Either you have some integrity or you don't.
I think that Jonny probably didn't mean it. I think he's trying to get a rise out of me and trying to get me to respond but c'mon that's just over the top.
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #1 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 10:42am » |
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« Reply #2 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 10:42am » |
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #3 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 11:40am » |
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on Apr 10th, 2006, 10:36am, cardogman wrote:Here's another poll for you.
Where do you draw the line on comments made and let your feelings be known.
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #4 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 11:44am » |
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #5 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 11:52am » |
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Cardog dude, I haven't replied to any of your post yet because I was hoping that if people would ignore you then you would eventually go away. Guess that's not gonna happen, huh?
Well if you're gonna hang around here and be a regular would you please do us ALL a favor and
STFU!!!
Thank you and now back to our regularly scheduled programming,
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #6 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 12:12pm » |
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on Apr 10th, 2006, 10:36am, cardogman wrote:Here's another poll for you.
Where do you draw the line on comments made and let your feelings be known.
Jonny makes a comment that inferences that someone
( that would be me ) should die.
Do you go along with that and not say anything or do you speak up and say " that is unnaceptable "
Not one person said " Jonny no matter what you think about someone that comment shouldn't be tolerated here"
If someone said that to someone else on this site I would be the first person to defend the victim of a stupid, and ridiculous and violent comment like that.
Either you have some integrity or you don't.
I think that Jonny probably didn't mean it. I think he's trying to get a rise out of me and trying to get me to respond but c'mon that's just over the top.
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Burt, just ignore queen jonny-YOU ARE THE KING!!
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #7 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 12:31pm » |
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Now, before I turn to the silence of ignoring, I'll say something which as been on my mind a lot lately.
I'm a victim of bullies. In fact, I've been bullied through junior high by several people, so I know what it's like to be a victim of vicious attacks by people who you don't know. In fact, I have no idea what are the names of most of the people who caused me fear, emotional pain and sleepless nights.
But the one whose name I knew, the main bully, verbally attacked me every day. I had to put up with that while my friends just stood there and did nothing. Until came the day when I snapped. I yelled at him whatever came to my mind. The hallway went all silent - nobody had ever heard me even raise my voice before. It worked, though. The bully never spoke to me ever again.
But did I feel like a winner? No, I didn't. Sure, I wasn't bullied anymore, but I felt that I had fell to my bully's level and had been as bad as he was.
That's why, ever since, I've kept my cool when I've heard bitchy comments. It takes a lot before my limit comes and I have not responded when few times I've heard something little thrown at me in here. In fact, I don't let that get to me. Ch is enough to deal with, so I concentrade on the good, optimistic things and let negative comments come and go without hurting me.
I do support my family here. So I have replied when I've thought that somebody crossed the line and used language which was uncalled for. I support my family and friends and they can count on that I'll on their side.
Now, I do believe strongly in moving on. I'd be one bitter chick if I'd hold on to every single horrible, negative thing people had said to me over the years. It's time to move on!
Burt, you can choose whether you let words hurt you or not. And if somebody hurts you, it doesn't mean that you should go on hurting that person right back. That doesn't get you anywhere.
Recall what has been said about two monks, who came to the river and saw that there was also a prostitute near that river. The older monk carried the prostitute across the river, which made the younger monk angry. Lot later the young monk asked the older one: "Why did you do carry that woman?" The older monk replied: "I'm not carrying her anymore. Are you?"
So Jonny made a comment about you which you didn't like. That happends. People disagree, argue and have differences of opinion. How about if you would finally put that behind you and moved on, too?
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #8 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 1:30pm » |
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Let me give you a great big bear hug!! 
I agree with you 100%.
You Trolls, leave her alone.
You dont like what she said, change the channel.
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Notice that no names were mentioned?
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #9 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 1:49pm » |
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First off ya gotta let stuff GO......YOU need to learn to ignore what you don't like or hear and quit rehashing it out over and over and move on.......I have that problem myself and probly should practice what I preach but when I see others do it I realize how I am with shit like that. I am "tryin" to just stay away from people I don't like or were rude to me in the real world and doin it to save myself the grief I create for myself tryin to figure it out. And I really doubt he ment for you to die as in quit breatheing. You have met people here on the wrong foot and now you have a vendetta against them and have become the exact type person you don't like. I can see it and maybe you can't Pam
Make friends not war would apply here.....but it mite even be too late for that......time will tell..........
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #10 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 4:17pm » |
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I learned [only] a few years ago [I'm 43 YO] that negative people affect your life negatively. So, I avoid them.
Hiya Coots!
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #11 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 4:34pm » |
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what a fuckin putz
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #12 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 4:35pm » |
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Mutt... You whine over and over and over and over that you are not a troll, and you are being treated unfairly, and that everyone else is at fault, and so on and so forth, yet you can't ever seem to stop trolling. You bitch and moan in threads to no end, and if you don't get enough attention on those threads, you start a new one bitching and moaning about the same shit. That is trolling. You couldn't get anyone else to give a damn that someone told you to die, so you start this thread to get more attention, but guess what... Ppl still don't give a shit! So why don't you just fucking stop? You want all the mean ol' meanies to stop picking on you? Stop giving them a reason to pick on you... Plain and simple.
The best way to prove that you're not a troll is to just stop trolling. "But everyone else does it" Yes, others may occasionally post something just to get a rise out of ppl, but there's a big difference between them and trolls... They only do it occasionally, whereas trolls like you will troll on just about every damn post they submit. I, for one, am tired of the nonstop "Chewy did this" and "Jonny said that" bullshit you've been spouting lately, and bored to tears with CHTom givin' you a good ol' wank everytime you do. Why don't you just grow up and shut up?
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #13 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 4:38pm » |
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #14 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 4:40pm » |
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on Apr 10th, 2006, 4:34pm, kissmyglass wrote:
Hey! That's my term.
I love that word but it infuriates my spousal unit to no end.
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #15 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 4:52pm » |
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I thought we had all decided to change terms like putz to the ever popular Butt Breathing Turtle. Let me know I don't want to be behind or anything..
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #16 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 5:49pm » |
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on Apr 10th, 2006, 10:36am, cardogman wrote:Not one person said " Jonny no matter what you think about someone that comment shouldn't be tolerated here"
If someone said that to someone else on this site I would be the first person to defend the victim of a stupid, and ridiculous and violent comment like that.
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Saying that Jonny said something completely out of line and inappropriate is like saying that hell is pretty hot.
Its like if you and I were sitting on the top of mt McKinley in alaska and I said to you " its cold, and there is snow".
Its like if you were showing me your classic car in your garage and you turned to me and said "it has 4 tires"
Some things are so obvious, mentioning it is annoying.
got it?
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« Reply #17 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 5:53pm » |
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I knew it and I should have bet money on it. No one and I mean no one so far has said you know what telling someone to die is not right. Especially on this site.
How typical. More criticizm, more bashing, more flaming. But no one said anything.
I'm not surprised. People are generally cowards. Sandie is not she has a good point.
It's really so typical. Not one person so far said anything about the comment.
We are all so motivated by our own defenses aren't we. We all live in fear that we can't get out of our own way.
So instead of being honest we change the subject and continue the same old stuff.
It's pretty sad isn't it. Pretty sad indeed.
You all claim this is a family but by your response pretty much proves that you would run the other way if someone needed you. And I'm not talking about me.
That's directed so far to the folks who responded other then a few .
Pretty typical. 
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #18 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 5:58pm » |
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Bet if I called jonny and needed a regulator tomorrow I would have it. Already got a Elephant hair bracelet I been wishin for. Potter
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #19 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 6:11pm » |
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Dude !!! I told ya tellin sumone to die or they must die is just a phrase.....doesn't mean to roll over belly up and stop breatheing......I say that term myself ALL THE TIME around here at home 'as a phrase' and I even have a 'things to kill list' !!! I am not a murder'r tho.....not plannin on 'really' killin anything. It's just a term and I never thought much of it to think it was that bad.....it also means 'go away or be banned from the forest' type wording. I am always sayin 'who ever did that is gonna die' to my pets and Brad and whomever and laugh about it. OK ??? Come on....you ride a harley and you gotta be tougher then that ? Ride free ride sane Pam
Too bad ya don't live around here.....I'd make Brad get ya out on the road and clear yer head............
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #20 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 6:13pm » |
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on Apr 10th, 2006, 5:58pm, vietvet2tours wrote: Bet if I called jonny and needed a regulator tomorrow I would have it. Already got a Elephant hair bracelet I been wishin for. Potter
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I got to stand by Potter on that..offered to take a O2 tank to a friend in tennessee...then there was Alchemy, don't know his name yet...Everyone tried to chip in something when he posted he was out of MEDICINE...I felt bad for not having anything to give...Then how many of you remember last year when Bemonethemoneeman joined and everyone gave him hell.. Now they all treat him great...The way they rallied around Shawn when he was in need....they always check to see how someone is doing...
The problem Burt is not the group, it is an outsider who jumps in without trying to read and learn every (keyword here) individuals, personality. Instead you jumped in and voiced an opinion, not all bad but a lot of harsh comments, then when folks including myself PM'd you and said hey chill out and get to know folks you replied with defensive anger. Justifying your rants and what not...
Was Jonny correct in saying you need to DIE...no is it something I would say...depends on my mood....Or maybe it is just a phrase like GO F@#k yourself...who knows....But that is Jonny he calls a spade a spade and a ace a ace, if you don't want to know the truth don't ask Jonny, Biker Bob or Chewy, because they will give you the harsh reality you asked for. Then don't whine about their response..
Most of these folks have met and gotten to know one another over the past five or six years...And they don't like anyone who attacks them, lies to them bashes one of them then asks for pity and mercy...
I tried to tell you this about a month ago..But like now you will try to twist what I say and make it my fault or Jonny's fault or Chewys..
Chill out and get to know people..learn about them then, and allow them to get to know you...The real you....when you allow this to happen it may get better..
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Re: where do you draw the line
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on Apr 10th, 2006, 6:11pm, cootie wrote:Dude !!! I told ya tellin sumone to die or they must die is just a phrase.....
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To set the record straight, I never told anyone to die and I would love to see anyone provide a time/date stamped quote of me doing so!
I did say "Now you die"...but thats not the same is it?
Looks like this drum can stop being beatin in every post.
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #22 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 6:25pm » |
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Jonny,
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Re: where do you draw the line
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One last thing Burt before I leave this thread...Let me walk into your house, never properly introduce myself give you no time to get to know me,,call myself a member of your family and then start talking shit...That is what you've done...Now I am done with the subject.
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Re: where do you draw the line
« Reply #24 on: Apr 10th, 2006, 6:40pm » |
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on Apr 8th, 2006, 5:18pm, Jonny wrote:Fuck you scumbag....I gave you your chance.....You now die!!!!
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Is this what you asked for?
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