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baby update
« on: Mar 15th, 2006, 7:04pm » |
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At the moment, everything is calm. We aren't seeing contractions right now, but the lab results continue to indicate a building infection. If the infection isn't actually *inside* the uterus, we could still be in this game. So, each day is a miracle.
Meanwhile, I opened my mail today to find out that my benefits have run dry and my income is now *squat*. We knew this would happen and thought this was going to be OK because Jen has a great job. The problem is she just started there in September and isn't able to take FMLA or get short term disability benefits yet (takes 12 months). We just went to a combined income of -0-, and we have a mortgage and 2 kids, etc. I swear, when life takes a dump on you, it really takes a dump. I know I'm going to get through this, but hell, I wish I could see the light at the end of the tunnel. I can't hold my breath much longer.
At least baby Ethan is *still* with us. He's at 20 weeks now, just 3-4 more and he will be 'viable'. 20 more would be better.
The hospital is being very nice to us. They are letting me occupy the bed next to Jen at night, so I sleep here every night. They even bring me (gag) food when they serve her. I help the nurses change the paper in the machine and manage the alarms on her monitors. All of the staff seem very nice. If things go well, we'll know them all like family before this is over. I'm glad I can be here and not be just in the way. Now that I'm not sleeping on one of their medieval cots, my back may start feeling a little better.
Anyway, that's all for now. The prayers must be working a little, so don't let up. I love you guys for being here for us. Thank you all for the notes. I wish I had time to respond to all of them.
-Shawn
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Re: baby update
« Reply #1 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 7:12pm » |
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The prayers and well wishes will continue for as long as you need them.
Don't you even worry about trying to answer each of us individually. Just know that when you get a PM, it's just one of us thinking about you at that minute - no reply necessary.
Hang in and hang on!
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Our prayers are with you.
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Re: baby update
« Reply #3 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 7:34pm » |
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Hang in there bud. Our prayers are with you.
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Re: baby update
« Reply #4 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 7:34pm » |
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Re: baby update
« Reply #5 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 7:56pm » |
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on Mar 15th, 2006, 7:34pm, Jonny wrote:| Thoughts and prayers are now in overdrive, Brother |
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Cant think of a better way to put it!
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Do you have any money put away for " a rainy day "
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Re: baby update
« Reply #7 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 8:12pm » |
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Lind and I are praying for you all !!! ...........tim
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Re: baby update
« Reply #8 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 8:51pm » |
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Today, I give my birthday wish to Ethan.  I wish that Ethan be born a healthy and happy baby.
Hang in there Shawn.  You and your family have the hopes and prayers of all of us on your side.
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Re: baby update
« Reply #9 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 8:57pm » |
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I will be praying for you. We had friends who had a daughter born at 24 weeks who didn't look like she was going to make it to 20 weeks but she did. She has had her share of medical problems but she is a miracle and a blessing.
I'll see if I can get my 3 year old to pray for you.
God bless you, Jen, and Ethan. Your wife must be a trooper to go through this kind of emotional time and you being there for her has got to be tough too.
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Re: baby update
« Reply #10 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 9:02pm » |
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Heartfelt and continued prayers to each and everyone of you...
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Re: baby update
« Reply #11 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 9:21pm » |
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Another candle is lit for baby Ethan.
Brother, know that all my heart and energy goes out to you and Jen at this time. Baby Ethan will take the path he is meant to take, but miricles happen every day....and all this energy, as I said before, can move the hands of fate.
Love and Peace
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Re: baby update
« Reply #12 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 9:24pm » |
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Add our families prayers to your basket.
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Re: baby update
« Reply #13 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 10:08pm » |
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I will continue to pray for all of you..you are going to get through this..
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Re: baby update
« Reply #14 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 11:54pm » |
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All of my love and all of my prayers continue for you, Jen, and baby Ethan.
I'm so glad that the contractions have stopped and things are okay for the moment. I think you've gotten through 2 weeks of absolute hell since you first told us about the required bedrest, right? 2 weeks have gone by - 2 weeks that have been terribly heartbreaking, but also 2 more weeks for Ethan to grow. I feel that every second and every day is a miracle in itself to allow Ethan to grow strong inside Jen. I will continue to keep all of you in my thoughts...
Hang in there, Shawn. Just focus on Jen and the baby right now. The other stuff will work itself out one way or another. Just take it one minute at a time.
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Re: baby update
« Reply #15 on: Mar 15th, 2006, 11:56pm » |
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You and your wife and family are in my thoughts and prayers. I can't even imagine the stress that you guys are under. Just keep reminding yourself of the light at the end of that dark tunnel. It will be worth it!
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Re: baby update
« Reply #16 on: Mar 16th, 2006, 12:25am » |
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I'll keep the candle burning for you and your family Shawn
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Re: baby update
« Reply #17 on: Mar 16th, 2006, 9:56am » |
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Shawn,
thank you so much for the update. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Jen & Ethan.
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Re: baby update
« Reply #18 on: Mar 16th, 2006, 11:17am » |
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All my love and prayers for you, Jen and baby Ethan....
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Re: baby update
« Reply #19 on: Mar 16th, 2006, 11:24am » |
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This is a very large "family" sending thoughts and prayers on a continuous basis. This has to be a good thing. Hang in there with Jen. I know it means so much for Jen to know you are there.
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Re: baby update
« Reply #20 on: Mar 16th, 2006, 12:02pm » |
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Know that I am thinking about you and your family Shawn. Be strong.
My prayers are with you.
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Re: baby update
« Reply #21 on: Mar 16th, 2006, 7:43pm » |
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prayers aloft for Ethan, Jen and you Fu, been thinking of you
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Re: baby update
« Reply #22 on: Mar 16th, 2006, 8:38pm » |
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No words ,,,prayers.
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Re: baby update
« Reply #23 on: Mar 16th, 2006, 10:58pm » |
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Prayers, thoughts and vibes for you all.
We're all hoping that your turn for a break is here.
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