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DaveHar
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Request for understanding!!!!!!
« on: Sep 10th, 2005, 11:00am » |
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As many of you know Leesa is my supporter and the supporter of many of you on this board both by phone and on here. Many of you have come to know her for the great many times she has given her all to help anyone here that needed it and now she needs you.
What I am asking is that everyone here that talks to her please kindly give her some space. Her days of giving are all but over and now she needs to receive. If you talk to her on the phone please do not discuss your problems in hopes that she can help or even give you that ear that you need. It is time for her and I to work out our own problems and focus on our family. The burden of helping has become to great for her and she does not know how to say I can not help at this time. She keeps taking on more and more and it is now at the point where it is interfearing with our marriage.
PLEASE, PLEASE understand that I am fighting to keep alive what her and I have fought so very long and hard achieve. All I ask is that if you do call and talk please give her the room that she needs right now. Please do not add to the problems we already have. If you want to call and talk to her that is fine, just keep the problems out of the conversation so that she can heal.
I am only doing this because I know that she will never turn any of you away and will always listen and try to help, that is just who and what she is, And now helping here as well as other things in her past and present have overcome her.
PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS> I DO NOT WANT TO LOSE THIS WONDERFUL WOMAN BECAUSE THE BURDEN OF GIVING OF HERSELF HAS PUSHED HER OVER THE EDGE.
Dave
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Re: Request for understanding!!!!!!
« Reply #1 on: Sep 10th, 2005, 6:41pm » |
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Leesa and Dave,
Dave, Thank you for letting us know.
Leesa,
You both have been here for a long time. Although we, you and I, haven’t spoken on the phone or exchanged emails or PMs, you are a couple of my favorite people on this board. I have watched you both give and help everyone here. Thank You so very much.
Please take time for yourself. Rest and refresh with something you want to do for yourself. Take all the time you need. We can wait.
Prayers and best wishes from our home to yours.
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Re: Request for understanding!!!!!!
« Reply #2 on: Sep 10th, 2005, 11:42pm » |
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on Sep 10th, 2005, 6:41pm, BobG wrote:Leesa and Dave,
Dave, Thank you for letting us know.
Leesa,
You both have been here for a long time. Although we, you and I, haven’t spoken on the phone or exchanged emails or PMs, you are a couple of my favorite people on this board. I have watched you both give and help everyone here. Thank You so very much.
Please take time for yourself. Rest and refresh with something you want to do for yourself. Take all the time you need. We can wait.
Prayers and best wishes from our home to yours.
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Hey Guys.... the Same here.. Take that time and pull your Family togeather....
Never Met Ya's or Talk to Ya's...
God Bless
Charlie
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Re: Request for understanding!!!!!!
« Reply #3 on: Sep 11th, 2005, 8:14am » |
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Dave honey you got it.I will be calling but talking about good.Leesa is my guardian ange l and one of my sisters and yes she does need to recharge her batteriies.
Leesa as I've told you in the past call when you need a ear,sounding board or just wanna scream about life but don't wanna yell at the family.I was at the beautiful joining of your family in Nashville and talking to you I know how much you love Dave and the boys you do have something very special and you both deserve it .Talk to you soon (*no problems)
LOve Minnie
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Re: Request for understanding!!!!!!
« Reply #4 on: Sep 11th, 2005, 8:22am » |
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Dave and Leesa,
What Bob G and Minnie both said so eloquently....every word of it!
I, too, was there when you both said your vows. It was beautiful and joyous, and anything that good is worth fighting for.
Wishing you both smooth sailing.
Cathi 
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Re: Request for understanding!!!!!!
« Reply #5 on: Sep 11th, 2005, 11:34am » |
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(((((((((Dave & Leesa)))))))))
Vibes coming to the two of you from Finland. I hope things work out for the best. 
Sanna
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Re: Request for understanding!!!!!!
« Reply #6 on: Sep 11th, 2005, 12:17pm » |
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