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Phil L
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Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« on: Dec 21st, 2005, 8:07pm » |
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Good news. Daughter in rehab and doing well. Seems stable and happier as drugs (crystall meth) leave the brain. I hope and pray, but it's really all up to her and it's a long haul. As my stress deminished, Ch got worse
(as some of you indicated it might), but big deal. Been there, done that.
She is 36 days clean and sober, has a six hour pass Christmas day to see her family and kids. Life is good -
one day at a time.
Phil
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #1 on: Dec 21st, 2005, 8:12pm » |
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Mega holiday prayers and vibes going out for your kid, Bro!
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #2 on: Dec 21st, 2005, 8:39pm » |
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on Dec 21st, 2005, 8:07pm, Phil L wrote:She is 36 days clean and sober, has a six hour pass Christmas day to see her family and kids. Life is good -
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Yes baby! continued follow-through on her own too is important.
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #3 on: Dec 21st, 2005, 8:41pm » |
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Best of wishes, she has a long hard fight ahead of her. Glad she has someone who has faith in her to back her up, thats important. I know.
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #4 on: Dec 21st, 2005, 8:45pm » |
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One day at a time.
You're doing all you can.
My thoughts are with you all.
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #5 on: Dec 21st, 2005, 8:47pm » |
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It's great to hear that she is doing so well. But I'm sure sorry that your CH cycle hasn't left yet...but it will--just hang in there. In the mean time, I know that you will have a great Christmas with your daughter on the mend. All the best to you and your family.  Pat
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #6 on: Dec 21st, 2005, 9:41pm » |
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The CLUE is to keep her away from it.......she needs a cool hobby or sumthin to keep her busy that will be more precious to her that makes her feel as good as it did. Been there done that.....lucky for me the stuff made me burnt out and crabby......but it makes you feel like you could build a house in 5 hours and go to the moon in less. No fear.....no pain.......but there is NO gain Pam
My pets have always been what has kept me from goin over the edge......and I worship them for that.
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #7 on: Dec 21st, 2005, 10:14pm » |
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Good news indeed...
Positive reinforcement, and clusterheads is all you need. Hope the upward trend continues. Now go knock the crap outta the beast... I want him good and beat up by the time he gets here tonight.
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #8 on: Dec 21st, 2005, 10:57pm » |
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great news about your daughter, I smoked that crap for a year trying to get rid ch's. each day will get a little easier for her, especially with you to back her up. have a great holiday. jim
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #9 on: Dec 21st, 2005, 11:18pm » |
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Thanks for being there. Mr. Fix it here can't fix this one and feels sort of helpless. Would much rather be out slaying dragons. Watching and holding my breath is the best I can do. Finding the middle ground of support, love, and compassion without enabling (I know your having a rough time, here's a hundred bucks) is tougher than I thought it would be - let's hear it for Alanon and saying no with love. More updates as time degrades time. Until then,
Phil
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #10 on: Dec 22nd, 2005, 12:43am » |
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let's hear it for Alanon and saying no with love. ------------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------Hey Phil-Amen to that !!! Alanon will help you do the things that NEED to be done. There is nothing worse than having to say NO to your children--no matter what the age. But No will only help her defeat the addiction.....My prayers and everyone's prayers will be sent each and every day !!! Good Luck and Keep the Faith.
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #11 on: Dec 22nd, 2005, 1:07am » |
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God bless you and your daughter...i can really relate as i am going thru some similar things at the time...i know the stress does effect my chs....You will be in my prayers. smiles,nancyc
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #12 on: Dec 22nd, 2005, 5:19am » |
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Very best wishes to you and your family over Chirstmas - hope all goes well
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #13 on: Dec 22nd, 2005, 5:36am » |
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I'm happy to hear she's doing better.... 
Merry Christmas..... may the new year bring more sunshine her way.....
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #14 on: Dec 22nd, 2005, 8:17am » |
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Phil,
Wishing you a PF Christmas and luck with your daughter. Hope it's the merriest one yet.
Hugs BD
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #15 on: Dec 22nd, 2005, 10:38am » |
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Phil I know too well what you're going through, and I'm sorry that you are. 36 days is good. With luck it will continue and someday you can say (as I am finally able to say) My daughter has 4 years of being clean. Meth is a particularly devastating drug, I swear it robs people of their souls.
Tough love, bro. The key word is love. Supporting emotionally but not financially (unless it's buying food). Say "I know you can do this, I have faith in you!!"
I'm sending prayers that things continue to go well.
Happy Holidays to you and yours. hugs, nani
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #16 on: Dec 22nd, 2005, 11:12am » |
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i hope she makes it thru this bro thats some tough stuff to deal with ive seen someone close to me go from a great person to someone i no longer knew ., positive note is hes a little over one year clean from it, be supportive but you have to be tough as nails too, good luck and keeps us updated.
god bless you both so you get thru this.
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #17 on: Dec 22nd, 2005, 4:29pm » |
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Good news and things indeed look better for her.
Keep on it and enjoy all the food and a Merry Christmas. Your new year looks to be so much better too. 
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #18 on: Dec 23rd, 2005, 1:39am » |
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #19 on: Dec 23rd, 2005, 4:59am » |
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Prayers and best wishes are with you and your daughter. Tough love is one of the hardest things you will ever have to practice in your life when it comes to dealing with your own child. You've got a reserve of strength, tho, that you didn't know you have.
I had one in a "get straight" program and thought I was having a stroke every time I went to a weekly open meeting and tried to talk to him over a microphone.
Sincerely wishing your family a Merry Christmas.
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #20 on: Dec 28th, 2005, 12:30pm » |
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Update: Daughter spent Christmas (seven hour pass) with family members, her children and partner. She looks good, motivated and sane. All embraced her with love, compassion and understanding - except her partner who needs to spend a moment inside a blender.
Saw her yesterday and she was upbeat, determined and focused on her recovery. What a trooper!
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
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You're the trooper too. I love good news. I'm especially happy for her kids, who need their mom. Hope the CH is trending down.
Pat
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Re: Update on Daughters attempted suicide
« Reply #22 on: Dec 29th, 2005, 7:30pm » |
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still sending you prayers.... for your sweet daughter... please pm me her first name so that I can pray for her by name.....love ree
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