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Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« on: Oct 18th, 2005, 9:38am » |
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K you all this is just another vent of a different nature for me. Frustrated with hubby right now. I don't understand he is always calling in sick and he only works from 9:45-1pm. He had Sunday and Monday off and just called in. Tried to talk with him about it and needing the money and says I'll make it up Sat. 
Here I go to work with CH and work through it so I can ensure $ coming in the two days a week I work. I am in school 4 days a week and on Friday am up at 430am and at clinicals by 630 and then go straight from clinicals at 3pm to work till 10pm. Then study all Sat morning and back to work Sat. 2-10pm. GRRRRRRRRR
Ok I am done don't mean to make him look bad but am quite disappointed at the moment and he knows it.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #1 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 9:41am » |
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #2 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 9:41am » |
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I can certainly understand your disappointment.
Reads like he needs to step it up at least a notch or two.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #3 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 9:43am » |
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My head is killing me this morning and this is only adding to it. Oh am so upset. Oh well that is life if I push to much he get defensive so 
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #4 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 9:50am » |
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Kim...I feel for ya...I am not one to call in sick. I get 27 paid sick days and I still hate calling in cause I know...if I call out...someone is going to have to stay over or they'll have to call someone in on their day off. I work 2-full-time jobs...I always tell my wife...worrying about bills, that I'm unable to pay..will kill me quicker then too much work will. 
Anyway...maybe their's some unlying reason why he's calling out. Depression, probs at work...is he really sick, or does he just not feel like going in?
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #5 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 3:30pm » |
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on Oct 18th, 2005, 9:38am, Kim Y. wrote:| I don't understand he is always calling in sick and he only works from 9:45-1pm. |
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Thats not a job...thats a day at the damn park!
Face it...hes a slacker!!
You shouldnt put up with it, but, these are just MY opinions.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #6 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 4:13pm » |
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on Oct 18th, 2005, 9:50am, Jimmy B. wrote:Kim...I feel for ya...I am not one to call in sick. I get 27 paid sick days and I still hate calling in cause I know...if I call out...someone is going to have to stay over or they'll have to call someone in on their day off. I work 2-full-time jobs...I always tell my wife...worrying about bills, that I'm unable to pay..will kill me quicker then too much work will.
Anyway...maybe their's some unlying reason why he's calling out. Depression, probs at work...is he really sick, or does he just not feel like going in? |
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That I do understand I too doing 2 and its rough but it needs to be done so I do it and stfu.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #7 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 5:11pm » |
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Is he depressed? Just a thought.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #8 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 5:38pm » |
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He cany make it to work for 3 hours a day?
Slacker? Sounds like he's a slacker on a GOOD day.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #9 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 5:42pm » |
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He hates his job and the management. He would rather have a job in his field but none are available till he gets his degree and moves out of Manhattan KS. I love him and do understand that but I look at things differently I guess. I know he is depressed some. We are in KS and he wants to be in TX where his parents are and all of his friends. We will go there eventually once school is over. Oh and he is tired of school... 
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #10 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 5:46pm » |
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I dunno........ You're too nice
Making him look bad doesn't seem such a terrible thing for now. 
Hope you get a break.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #11 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 5:46pm » |
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and YOU are tired of school.. and working.. and putting up with blasted CH on top of both.. and a whiny assed crybaby too.
Life's a bitch - er no wait! Thats me! 
Life is HARD but you only get one shot at it. Tell him to get off his arse and get a second job and you can all move sooner can't you?
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #12 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 5:49pm » |
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Oh and just cos I'm on a roll now.. YOU aren't from Texas and YOU aren't from Kansas either.
Whats more is YOU aren't whining about either!
Stop facilitating him in his selfishness, you're bending over backwards to please him as it is. There has to be some take as well as give for you hon
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #13 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 5:52pm » |
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No I'm the selfish one
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #14 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 5:54pm » |
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Um, can I ask a question?
For someone with 690 posts I have no idea who KMT is.
Was it made aware of a name chage that I missed?
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #15 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 5:56pm » |
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on Oct 18th, 2005, 5:54pm, Jonny wrote:Um, can I ask a question?
For someone with 690 posts I have no idea who KMT is.
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KMT f.k.a. KimY
and there seems to be a lot of 'employment' situations going on - either people not working when they can, or people not able to get the work they want to do... too bad.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #16 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 6:00pm » |
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KimY from Mt.... Sorry guys didn't mean to confuse you all can change it back if you so wish
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #17 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 6:10pm » |
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on Oct 18th, 2005, 6:00pm, KMT wrote:KimY from Mt.... Sorry guys didn't mean to confuse you all can change it back if you so wish
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Nah, keep it....its just nice to know who your talkin to..
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #18 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 6:36pm » |
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I want a job where I can get to work so late and leave so early that I'd run into myself on the way in.
Workin' on it.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #19 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 6:52pm » |
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OK just a little confession when I typed earlier Maybe I was overly upset. He is a good man and a very hard worker just doesn't like his job at the moment.
I am really irritable lately and vented on here. My head has been feeling like crap and 2mg doses not cutting it and having to do 4mg doses. 2-3 hits in a day and not sleeping well. Heavy shadows getting worse each day. 
Thanks all for giving me the opportunity to vent.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #20 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 6:59pm » |
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on Oct 18th, 2005, 6:52pm, KMT wrote:| He is a good man and a very hard worker just doesn't like his job at the moment. |
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When you cant work three hours a day EVEN at a job you dont like.....your a SLACKER and your letting your family down!!
Hard worker my ass....again, just my opinion.
You threw this out here so dont be pissed if you dont like the replies, Honey.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #21 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 7:00pm » |
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on Oct 18th, 2005, 5:42pm, KMT wrote:| He hates his job and the management. He would rather have... |
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Sounds just like me, except some still do it anyway with clusters and haven't missed or used a sick day in over 8 years.
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Then don't tell him how tough 4th grade will be next year.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #22 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 7:09pm » |
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Posted by: Jonny Quote:| You threw this out here so dont be pissed if you dont like the replies, Honey. |
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Not Pissed not in my nature just trying to justify to myself I guess.
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #23 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 7:14pm » |
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on Oct 18th, 2005, 7:09pm, KMT wrote:Posted by: Jonny
Not Pissed not in my nature just trying to justify to myself I guess. |
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You are justified big time, but I am done here.
According to the mens code you can only bad mouth a dude only so many times unless he is here to defend himself......its a guy thing 
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Re: Grrrrrrr,& rolling my eyes
« Reply #24 on: Oct 18th, 2005, 8:51pm » |
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And......he gets away with it........no one says come in or you are fired Pam
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