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Sean_C
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Whats the problem? I missed something I guess?
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I agree that there's alot of bitchin' that goes on here ... but there's alot of good goin' on here too! No need to shut anything down!
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Anyone else besides KOP wanna see this place go under ?
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KOP can leave by himself if he wants, I'm stayin.
Family's argue, this ain't Little House on the Prarie ya know, this is the Little House of Pain, people gets snitty now and then, no big deal, its all love believe me.
Den said it best, "take what you need and leave the rest"
Sean...........................
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #3 on: Oct 13th, 2005, 10:13pm » |
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I getcha.
Not sure a guy like me, who gloms up so much space can, argue with you.
From what I read in the archives, you have to go back to 1999 or so to find the kind of purity or focus DJ envisioned.
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #4 on: Oct 13th, 2005, 10:15pm » |
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on Oct 13th, 2005, 9:44pm, KingOfPain wrote:
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Well then, damnit, quit reading them threads.
I, for one, am having the time of my life.
Well worth the price of admission.
RJ
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #5 on: Oct 13th, 2005, 10:19pm » |
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Hey Steve it's good to see you,Sorry that you seem upset not sure what' going on.Your a great,caring and supportive person.I love your pics and poems and miss them.I hope everythings ok please IM me if you need to talk.I neither want to see this site go down or see you leave.This could be the day someone in our cH famly needs to talk,cry vent or some advice to fight the beast.I guess the best advise I've heard is Dens "take what you need and leave the rest.Like I said before I'm not sure what's going on but I wanna be here to lend my support to my CH family.I can't do much but I can listen,pray and sometimes try to make you laugh so I'm here................... Minnie
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #6 on: Oct 13th, 2005, 10:20pm » |
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1999 was a very good year...........
But I like today better.
snitty? Good word Sean. You getting British on us?
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #7 on: Oct 13th, 2005, 10:35pm » |
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Huh......I must be missing sumthin big goin on cuz most of the time I have no clue what everyone is mad about.....but then I stay out of the gossip end......snitty snitty Pam Pam
Hi KOP.......nice to see ya 'gin !!!!!!
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I'm gone a day and WTF did I miss?
Steve,
I totally respect you and love you brotherman, and I know where you are coming from.
The thing is, like any town you live in CLUSTERVILLE has all types:Good folks, bad folks, proud folks, and half eaten insane folks like me who don't know WTF is going on half of the time...this is the point: Though there are some dickweeds among us, there is also a greater family and support system and without that, some folks suffering this shit have nothing else. If they are like me, single, live alone, not much local support. This is their only refuge. It is a LIFELINE!
DJ does not need to shut this site down ever again. He does however reserve the right to shut a thread down that gets out of hand. Like a buddy of mine once told me long ago in church band "it all comes out in the wash." the truth always comes out, and there are enough people here who have dealt with the BS and know how to get to the meat and bones.
As for me, to leave this place would be like to leave my fellow troops behind in the line of fire. Some people make me want to, but my war is not with them, it is with this fucking beast known as CLUSTER HEADACHE!!!
Like you bro, alot of us have alot more than CH going on and some others don't understand. That is cool. Not everyone understands a typical clusterhead anyway. 
BTW - You were the first person other than the attendees at OUCHfest, to approach me in Nashville and thank me for hosting the event. That meant alot to me, since the event flopped. Still, you know.
Clusterville MUST remain, and you should stick around too bro, miss ya.
Carl
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #9 on: Oct 13th, 2005, 10:49pm » |
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I never consider'd ouchfest a flop......we jus couldn't do a second road trip and think that was a biggie cuz we'd all just did the convention. For us and alot of people it's hard to just pick up and go.......but we'd of went IF WE COULD OF MANAGED. We love music men Pam
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Please don't DJ. I argue politics sometimes but that is what politics is for. Only the same few that go into the personal dings with very little positive to give. I give what I can to who I can. Even with the bickering here, it is my home and I love my family. I will never forget the good that I gleen from the people here.
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #11 on: Oct 13th, 2005, 11:23pm » |
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on Oct 13th, 2005, 10:53pm, maffumatt wrote:
I'm hoping Zippy the Magnificent is knee deep in some of the finest Prairie Squid the central plains toilet seats have ever kissed good morning. Last thing that man needs is you whiney arsed sucks lookin for a mediator.
Hopefully, he's *Busy*
RJ
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on Oct 13th, 2005, 11:23pm, Mr. Happy wrote:
I'm hoping Zippy the Magnificent is knee deep in some of the finest Prairie Squid the central plains toilet seats have ever kissed good morning. Last thing that man needs is you whiney arsed sucks lookin for a mediator.
Hopefully, he's *Busy*
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #13 on: Oct 14th, 2005, 1:14am » |
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Little house of pain.... I kind a like that title. Maybe I write a novel one day with that title. 
I'm already planning The Devil Years and Clusterville...
Seriously, I know I have not been here as much as I usually have been during the last 2 weeks, but I have no idea what I would do if I'd find this site gone...
I can't get the similar wonderful support from anywhere else no matter the topic. This isn't about just ch, this is all about life. That's why all the colors of life must be shown: the gray boredom, black grief, blue sadness, red fury, pink joy, yellow happiness...etc.
All I know is that I don't want to go back to dealing with ch alone. That would feel like "Clusterville: population - you".
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #14 on: Oct 14th, 2005, 1:45am » |
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I don't know where Charlie & I would be today if it wasn't for this site & the wonderful family here!!
There are new people coming in everyday & need this site, The people who are here need this site!!
So What some people get into a tiff!! your going to fine that no matter where you go, some people just rub the wrong way some times!! & other times people just need to vent in other ways then sounding like they are whinning, after every thing is said & done, 99.99% of the people kiss & make up!! yes some times feeling get hurt or someone steps over the line!! but tomorrow is another day & yesterday is gone and forgotten!!
I agree & don't agree with some of the things that was posted, but thats me!! thats everyone!! we are not alike, thats why we are us!! yet we have one thing in common, CH"S!!
I think it would be a waste to shut this site down in may ways!! alot of people would go unhelpped, lost, get no info, no support, no true love & understanding !!
KOP, I'm sorry you feel this site should be shut down & that you are upset over some things, but you need to look at the big picture here!!
Sending you, Love, Prayers, Vibes, & many 
Love Jolene
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #15 on: Oct 14th, 2005, 6:38am » |
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NO NO NO
  
I just got here! I've been doing this for far too long on my own. I have no support network other than this - shit who else would ever understand what it means to have ch ????
I have learnt more about this condition in the past month and half than in the 15 years I've had them, and all the doctors put together!! 
I have laughed and been shocked and laughed and cried and laughed
I HAVE LAUGHED DURING A CYCLE !!!
Come on, shutting this site can only do more harm than good.
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #16 on: Oct 14th, 2005, 7:53am » |
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on Oct 14th, 2005, 6:38am, Kate in Oz wrote:
I have laughed and been shocked and laughed and cried and laughed
I HAVE LAUGHED DURING A CYCLE !!!
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And that folks is exactly what another clusterhead and ONLY another clusterhead can do.
I never would have believed ANYONE could laugh during an attack until the NY convention in '03, when in the back room of 'the' cabin, I watched too many times in horror as sufferer after sufferer used the O2, and then watched Linda Howell rocking in time with Roxy -- mask on her face, needle just having been injected, tears streaming down her face, and Linda had her laughing
I've been around awhile, not as long as the real 'old timers' but long enough to know that this place gives something that nothing else can...no doctor, no supporter, no one..only another sufferer. Validation.
And KOP, will you come clean my porch? I miss you
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #17 on: Oct 14th, 2005, 9:08am » |
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Ain't that the truth. An endless source of amuzement.
BTW - I don't DeeJ likes anything that's "pure".
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #18 on: Oct 14th, 2005, 9:16am » |
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Well seeing how most have chimed in about what this site means to them and why it should not be shut down, I want in on this....
I am a newbie, being only here for like about 4 months at the most...
When my last cycle started, in the beginning I was alone and in alot of pain, and at the end of the line, checking on insurance matters, cause I was going to end it all, leave everything to my wife, free and clear....
I could not take the pain anymore, I knew what was ahead for me, I did not want to go through another cycle, I had made up my mind that I was not going to keep living with this BEAST in my head... my family was falling apart, I was on the edge of losing my job, my home, cars & everything.
I had one last thought about this place and decided to log on and see if someone was here to talk to, well that night I did not find anyone to talk to, but I sat in pain and just kept reading, and reading, and reading, as I read the post I realized that I was not the only one at the end of my rope, I was not alone.
The very next day, I sat down and talked with my wife (Jolene) and I got her to come here, after a couple of days things started changing at home, she was getting an understanding of what I was really going through, I was able to talk to my boss, things started to get better.. and since that DARK day, it has only gotton better...
I still have my bad days, me & My wife still have our disagreements, I still have some problems at work.
What am I trying to say, well things are never going to be perfect, but this place is a lifeline and all I can think is someone like myself looking for this place in the middle of the night and ready to give up, and then you find new HOPE to keep going....
DJ if you take it Down thats cool, I understand... I just want to say THANK YOU for what you have given me & my Family... A LIFE..
KOP sorry you are scorned by what you read here Dude, I do not know you, but the best advise I have seen on any board is Den's "Take what you want and leave the rest".. I have respect for you, but I don't think its FAIR to the true ANGEL's here that really help people...
Thanks to All for the Support & Friendship's
God Bless You ALL & PFDAN's
Charlie
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on Oct 13th, 2005, 11:23pm, Mr. Happy wrote:
I'm hoping Zippy the Magnificent is knee deep in some of the finest Prairie Squid the central plains toilet seats have ever kissed good morning. Last thing that man needs is you whiney arsed sucks lookin for a mediator.
Hopefully, he's *Busy*
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #20 on: Oct 14th, 2005, 10:47am » |
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on Oct 14th, 2005, 10:01am, maffumatt wrote:
No Matt. He borrowed your words for the transitional picturesque eclipsing of the "sky is falling" pishposh.
or just no, not you.
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #21 on: Oct 14th, 2005, 10:50am » |
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Remarkable that a thinking adult wants an entire site shut down while he/she is apparently incapable of the most effective form of censorship ever walked.
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Re: Hey DJ..........
« Reply #22 on: Oct 14th, 2005, 11:00am » |
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I've come to see the pattern, that when there are no trolls to hunt the natives turn into canibals and begin to chew on each other.
What we need is a visit from our friend Ali, or another Sinus-Buster pusher, or any other snake oil idiot for us to poke at... 
Just my opinion.
I'll go back to my corner now.
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on Oct 14th, 2005, 11:00am, Redd715 wrote:| I've come to see the pattern the natives turn into canibals and begin to chew on each other. |
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Re: Hey DJ..........
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