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Don't know what to do.
« on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:18pm » |
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I've been around a while, have seen lots of things and experienced quite a lot in my 33 years. During the whole of my life, I have had one person that has cared for and loved me more than any one else in my life combined. This person has saved my life, wiped my tears, fed me, cleaned me and been a dear, dear friend always sacrificing her own wants and needs in order to make sure that I was provided for. I know that I would not be the man I am if I hadn't been blessed enough to have her in my life. I may have seen this person for the last time, this last weekend. She has been my rock and safe haven my whole life. I can not even begin to imagine what life will be like without her. This is not a call for prayers or vibes and such as that, just rambling and letting these feelings out, it's killing me right now. From her I learned how to be strong and take the world head on. I know that, that is what she would want me to do now, but I don't think I am quite strong enough. Sorry for venting, but I just had to put some of these feelings to words.  
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #1 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:21pm » |
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well, my friend, whether you want it or not, I am sending you prayers anyway.
Know that we are standing silently beside you right now in your sadness, letting you know that you don't have to face anything alone. We are here.
If there's anything you need, you just let us know, ok?
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #2 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:23pm » |
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Love you Thomas!
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #3 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:27pm » |
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Thinking of all of you...
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #4 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:29pm » |
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Things ALWAYS work out they way they are supposed to!! vent away, get all your feelings out in the universe and all will be as it should!!! Lots of hugs and kisses to my flirtin' partna!! You will be fine!! 
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #5 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:30pm » |
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Sorry to hear it. Be strong!!
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« Reply #6 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:33pm » |
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #7 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:36pm » |
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I haven't met anybody stronger than you, bro.
inside and out.
hang tough
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #8 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:36pm » |
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DAMN I wish there was something I could say. God bless you and Her. She sounds very special. Always remember the good and she will be with you forever.
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #9 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:49pm » |
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I'm sorry Thomas - may God give you the strength you will need to get through this.
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #10 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:49pm » |
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Hang in there my brother, there are no words to describe the pain you feel. Time will never erase the pain completely, but it will help alot.
Let it out in the shower, I did for more than thirty days
Still do sometimes.
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« Reply #11 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:50pm » |
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That caring, love and strength will stay with you. Forever and always. It will never leave you. I hope you believe me when I say that, because it's true. You have my thoughts Thomas.
love you,
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #12 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:54pm » |
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DAMN I wish there was something I could say. God bless you and Her.
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #13 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 4:58pm » |
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Of course you are. You learned it from her remember?
I refuse to send you vibes or prayers.... but is it all right if I light a candle? We are all here, if or when, you need to talk about it.
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« Reply #14 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 5:54pm » |
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Just remember, you will carry her in your heart forever. Keeping you in my thoughts bro. It takes time, but time does heal these wounds. You're stronger than even you know.
Stay Strong,
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #15 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 5:55pm » |
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thomas, you are strong enough...
you can and will get through this....
and you will always know that she loved you completely...
let us know what we can do to help
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #16 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 6:00pm » |
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Yup, you're strong...no doubt about it.
Nope, I'm not sending any vibes.
You do know what to do. Let it out, allow yourself to be sad, too. We are strongest when we admit we are also vulnerable. Sending love...the strongest force there is...
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #17 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 6:42pm » |
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Dear Thomas, I am praying for you to have strength and comfort during this difficult time. Hang tough!
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #18 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 6:45pm » |
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Your words, tears, thoughts, all show immense feeling you've gained through being with her. Your strength she raised from within you shows in your feelings for her right now. It touches unexplainably deep sometimes.
Take your time for your thoughts.
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #19 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 7:11pm » |
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God, watch over all those that need to feel your presence most. Heal those that can be healed and give understanding to those that cannot. Please do not forget to watch over their families and friends. Amen.
Have strength Thomas
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #20 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 7:17pm » |
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We're here for you brother.
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #21 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 7:23pm » |
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Thomas,
My heart goes out to you. I can't think of more to say at this time except.... we love you. You know where we are if there is anything we can do.
Love to you,
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #22 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 7:42pm » |
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My thoughts and deepest prayers are with you, Thomas. Be strong, but not too strong. Grief is part of the process, as painful as it is.
Many strong hugs, my friend.
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #23 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 7:49pm » |
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we can never replace her in your life but we can sure as hell be here for you jim
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Re: Don't know what to do.
« Reply #24 on: Aug 2nd, 2005, 7:54pm » |
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Only a strong man could post what you did. Be thankful for the gift and carry on her legacy. You will do her proud without a doubt.
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