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How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« on: Jun 13th, 2005, 11:59am » |
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My dear friend needs to be cheered up. She and her boyfriend broke up lately.
The trouble is that she lives in Sweden and I'm here in Finland. Any ideas what I could do? Do you know some nice email thing I could send her...?
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #1 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 12:02pm » |
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They have little e-cards on the internet, you could send her a little greeting like that.
If that doesn't work send her lots of chocolate ice cream!
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #2 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 12:13pm » |
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I agree with an e greeting card but not sure where to find them.
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #3 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 12:18pm » |
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Oddly enough, they're on this site. Just go back out to the Message Board topic, scroll all the way down and click on the advertisement at the bottom, if it's still there when you look for it.
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #4 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 12:19pm » |
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You could try this:
It helps to remind her that being young and single can be a very good thing. 
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #5 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 12:19pm » |
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When in doubt, whip it out!
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #6 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 12:55pm » |
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Time.
It takes time.
and chocolate!
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #7 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 1:17pm » |
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Tom you sound just like my husband.. he is a chocolate freak too! I'm sure he thinks its the answer to everything..
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #8 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 1:26pm » |
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on Jun 13th, 2005, 12:19pm, nani wrote:You could try this:
It helps to remind her that being young and single can be a very good thing.
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Thanks for the tip, Nani! It certainly cheered me up! 
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #9 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 1:28pm » |
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on Jun 13th, 2005, 1:17pm, LeLimey wrote:| Tom you sound just like my husband.. he is a chocolate freak too! I'm sure he thinks its the answer to everything.. |
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Helen, has your hubby tried Finnish milk chocolate as well? That sure helps out in many crises and I'm not even a chocaholic! My dad was, though...
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #10 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 1:28pm » |
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It's worth considering a switch to the other team She'll be happier.
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #11 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 1:31pm » |
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on Jun 13th, 2005, 1:17pm, LeLimey wrote:| I'm sure he thinks its the answer to everything.. |
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It's NOT?!!?!?
Nots...lemme guess....if she switches teams...you want pics?
And you're welcome, sandie...I'm here to help.
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #12 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 1:33pm » |
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on Jun 13th, 2005, 1:28pm, notseinfeld wrote:| It's worth considering a switch to the other team She'll be happier. |
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I'll tell her. She is bit of a free spirit, but that might be bit far fetched even for her... 
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #13 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 1:42pm » |
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Chocolate. Double Fudge Ice Cream. Nothing better fer taking yer mind and emotions off to someplace nice fer awhile.
YMMV
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #14 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 1:54pm » |
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Okay, since chocolate is no1, I shall look up her address and send some of Finland's finest to her tomorrow. If someone else likes some milk chocolate from Finland, send me your address. I'm on generous mood...
Hmmm...now, is it possible to send Ben & Jerry's New York Super Fudge Chunk to her....
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #16 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 2:27pm » |
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on Jun 13th, 2005, 2:22pm, kimmiedawn81 wrote:
Oh, naughty...
Never mind her... I might get one for myself...
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #17 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 2:31pm » |
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I'm thinking the same thing! 
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #18 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 2:40pm » |
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on Jun 13th, 2005, 2:31pm, kimmiedawn81 wrote:| I'm thinking the same thing! |
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Little competition to the fellows... 
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #19 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 2:46pm » |
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on Jun 13th, 2005, 2:40pm, sandie99 wrote:
Little competition to the fellows... |
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No competition. You don't have to cuddle or worry about them afterwards.
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #20 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 2:50pm » |
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on Jun 13th, 2005, 2:46pm, kimmiedawn81 wrote:
No competition. You don't have to cuddle or worry about them afterwards. |
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #21 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 2:57pm » |
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Excellent suggestion Nani and guilty as charged! Any other ideas to spruce up this equation?
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #22 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 2:59pm » |
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on Jun 13th, 2005, 1:17pm, LeLimey wrote:| Tom you sound just like my husband.. he is a chocolate freak too! I'm sure he thinks its the answer to everything.. |
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Close...the answer to "Honey, what do you want for your birthday/anniversary/fathers day/this weekend [insert any day] is: BJ Anna Steak.
Chocolate is great but it aint no BJAS.
TomM 
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #23 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 3:17pm » |
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Broken hearts need to bleed...so let her vent, vent and then vent some more!! Let her cry, let her scream, let her laugh...me...I personally hate chocolate....so I suggest some apple pie al a mode... Hope all is better soon, nothin' worse than a broken heart... 
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Re: How to cheer up broken-hearted???
« Reply #24 on: Jun 13th, 2005, 3:37pm » |
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on Jun 13th, 2005, 3:17pm, aprilbee wrote:Broken hearts need to bleed...so let her vent, vent and then vent some more!! Let her cry, let her scream, let her laugh...me...I personally hate chocolate....so I suggest some apple pie al a mode... Hope all is better soon, nothin' worse than a broken heart...
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'Broken hearts need to bleed..' that's so poetic! 
But true. Venting does good at times like that. Thank goodness for messenger!
I heard that some people scream, cry, moan, vent, whatever for 24 hours and then they're okay. I'm personally weaker than that. I need more time.
And I don't wonder at all that so needs my friend. Naturally the breakup is so new, so she needs her time to heal. I wish I could do more, though... 
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