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Tribute to Mothers...
« on: May 3rd, 2005, 4:11pm » |
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Copy and send this to your mom... or anyother great mothers you happen to know... Tribute to Mothers... This is for the mothers who have sat up all night with sick toddlers in their arms, wiping up barf laced with Oscar Mayer wieners and cherry Kool-Aid saying, "It's okay honey, Mommy's here." Who have sat in rocking chairs for hours on end soothing crying babies who can't be comforted. This is for all the mothers who show up at work with spit-up in their hair and milk stains on their blouses and diapers in their purse. For all the mothers who run carpools and make cookies and sew Halloween costumes. And all the mothers who DON'T. This is for the mothers who gave birth to babies they'll never see. And the mothers who took those babies and gave them homes. This is for the mothers whose priceless art collections are hanging on their refrigerator doors. And for all the mothers who froze their buns on metal bleachers at football or soccer games instead of watching from the warmth of their cars, so that when their kids asked, "Did you see me, Mom?" they could say, "Of course, I wouldn't have missed it for the world," and mean it. This is for all the mothers who yell at their kids in the grocery store and swat them in despair when they stomp their feet and scream for ice cream before dinner. And for all the mothers who count to ten instead, but realize how child abuse happens. This is for all the mothers who sat down with their children and explained all about making babies. And for all the (grand)mothers who wanted to, but just couldn't find the words. This is for all the mothers who go hungry, so their children can eat. For all the mothers who read "Goodnight, Moon" twice a night for a year. And then read it again. "Just one more time ." This is for all the mothers who taught their children to tie their shoelaces before they started school. And for all the mothers who opted for Velcro instead. This is for all the mothers who teach their sons to cook and their daughters to sink a jump shot. This is for every mother whose head turns automatically when a little voice calls "Mom?" in a crowd, even though they know their own offspring are at home -- or even away at college. This is for all the mothers who sent their kids to school with stomach aches assuring them they'd be just FINE once they got there, only to get calls from the school nurse an hour later asking them to please pick them up. Right away. This is for mothers whose children have gone astray, who can't find the words to reach them. This is for all the step-mothers who raised another woman's child or children, and gave their time, attention, and love... sometimes to tally unappreciated! For all the mothers who bite their lips until they bleed when their 14 year olds dye their hair green. For all the mothers of the victims of recent school shootings, and the mothers of those who did the shooting. For the mothers of the survivors, and the mothers who sat in front of their TVs in horror, hugging their child who just came home from school, safely. This is for all the mothers who taught their children to be peaceful, and now pray they come home safely from a war. What makes a good Mother anyway? Is it patience? Compassion? Broad hips? The ability to nurse a baby, cook dinner, and sew a button on a shirt, all at the same time? Or is it in her heart? Is it the ache you feel when you watch your son or daughter disappear down the street, walking to school alone for the very first time? The jolt that takes you from sleep to dread, from bed to crib at 2 A.M. to put your hand on the back of a sleeping baby? The panic, years later, that comes again at 2 A.M. when you just want to hear their key in the door and know they are safe again in your home? Or the need to flee from wherever you are and hug your child when you hear news of a fire, a car accident, a child dying? The emotions of motherhood are universal and so our thoughts are for young mothers stumbling through diaper changes and sleep deprivation... And mature mothers learning to let go. For working mothers and stay-at-home mothers. Single mothers and married mothers. Mothers with money, mothers without. This is for you all. For all of us. Hang in there. In the end we can only do the best we can. Tell them every day that we love them. And pray. "Home is what catches you when you fall - and we all fall."
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #1 on: May 3rd, 2005, 4:33pm » |
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Whew! Girl, I'm about the have a fit...pass the tissues and the 02... This is beautiful...Thanks T. BTW, Happy soon approaching Mother's Day!! Langa
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #2 on: May 3rd, 2005, 5:08pm » |
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Beautiful words, thank you. And you reminded me of a wonderful photo exhibit I saw recently about financially poor mothers and their children. Here is one of them:
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #3 on: May 3rd, 2005, 5:18pm » |
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on May 3rd, 2005, 5:08pm, pattik wrote: And you reminded me of a wonderful photo exhibit I saw recently about financially poor mothers and their children. Here is one of them |
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #4 on: May 3rd, 2005, 5:31pm » |
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Awwwwwwww, nice pic, Jonny
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #5 on: May 4th, 2005, 8:33am » |
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That was just beautiful... You know, me and mum celebrated already Mother's Day last weekend althought it would be this Sunday. That was because mum will be then on holiday trip in Estonia and I'm at home. I made her her favourite meal: ham quiche, salad and chocolate pie. And I bought her licorice, which she loves and her fave singer's DVD. That's Luciano Pavarotti. I also cleaned the house before she came home from holiday in Spain and set the table nicely.
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #6 on: May 4th, 2005, 9:10am » |
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I miss my mum. God Bless her.... I called her mum even though she wasn't blood related. She took me into her home when I was living in the nurse's home when I was in my 20's. I was treated like one of her own..if ever angels walked this earth..she was one. Sadly she died of cancer nearly 7 years ago..I was her buddy through all treatments. I have never seen such bravery and dignity. She taught me how to become a stronger person.. I think of her everyday.
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #7 on: May 4th, 2005, 9:39am » |
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Jonny thats a lovely pic.. made me go all mushy Sadly not all of us had good mothers. Mine did teach me what I wouldn't do to my kids though. For me mothers day isn't about the mother I had but the mother I strive to be. Doesn't stop me feeling pangs of "I wish" sometimes though
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #8 on: May 4th, 2005, 10:46am » |
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Quote: Not an easy thing for Mary Poppins... Langa
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #9 on: May 4th, 2005, 10:52am » |
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on May 4th, 2005, 10:46am, Langa wrote: Not an easy thing for Mary Poppins... Langa |
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #10 on: May 4th, 2005, 11:39am » |
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on May 4th, 2005, 9:39am, LeLimey wrote:Jonny thats a lovely pic.. made me go all mushy Sadly not all of us had good mothers. Mine did teach me what I wouldn't do to my kids though. For me mothers day isn't about the mother I had but the mother I strive to be. Doesn't stop me feeling pangs of "I wish" sometimes though |
| I have to agree. My parents where not what you would call ideal. Hell I could not even classify them as good. But I would not change anything because it made me who I am today. I try very hard with my kids to be a good mom. To be the type of mom that when my kids are my age that they will look back and have fond memories of our time. But there are still lots of times that "I wish" pops into my head, especially when I see other families that are so close. Treasure that if you have it. If not, then treasure what you have. My treasures are my children they are my greatest ackomplishment. (I know I spelled that wrong. )
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #11 on: May 4th, 2005, 1:40pm » |
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #12 on: May 4th, 2005, 2:18pm » |
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Re: Tribute to Mothers...
« Reply #13 on: May 4th, 2005, 2:38pm » |
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My parents were wonderful. Poor mom was around the longest and had to put up with me. It's ridiculous but I can't think of a thing that I'd call iffy in the whole fam damnly. Mom could be pretty funny too. She pops up the most in my dreams. Charlie
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