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sandie99
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Reading all these posts about happy ch couples, it makes me take a serious look at my own situation... stuck in dating hell. It sucks! I'm more like a relationship kinda girl.
But the truth is that I haven't had a long-term relationship since I got ch. Partly, because I didn't want to in the beginning (ch was enough to deal with) and then I've realised that ch is too hard to deal with to some kind, sweet men I've met.
One guy refered me as "non-dateable" because of it. I was like excuse me?! as he never even saw me having attack! But apparently the idea was enough... 
But I keep my thumbs up that there's one fellow who doesn't mind. After all that "in sickness and in health" - part excists in the vows for a reason! I just got to keep on looking.
One thing is sure, though. I won't be going on blind dates arranged by a one pal of mine. After all, she wants me to meet a guy whose only talent worth mentioning is that he can whistle...  Don't know about you, but I need to know more about a guy than that... 
Your single ch sister,
Sandie
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Re: Dating
« Reply #1 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 2:31pm » |
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Dont give up little lady there is someone out there. and deffinately dont settle. that would be sure hell.
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Re: Dating
« Reply #2 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 2:39pm » |
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I'll datecha Sandy  (insert whistle here)
Been in dating hell myself and surprised I haven't run into you at Satan's water cooler. For a good laugh and in an effort not to go crazy check out Happenmagazine.com or stop by match.com as there's a link to it there. Entertaining advice and articles that do draw you in.
btw: CH women are my favorite!
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Re: Dating
« Reply #3 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 2:51pm » |
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I’m looking forward to hearing what our other sisters have to say…get the popcorn ready for this…caramel for me.
Hey don’t feel bad…my gay friend says if he wasn’t gay I’d be the woman for him and my lesbian neighbor wants me…bad. I guess I can feel the love…? 
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Re: Dating
« Reply #4 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 2:55pm » |
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on Apr 26th, 2005, 2:51pm, Langa wrote:Hey don’t feel bad…my gay friend says if he wasn’t gay I’d be the woman for him and my lesbian neighbor wants me…bad. I guess I can feel the love…?
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Langa,
sounds like your life would make a nice sitcom...
Now, pass that popcorn...
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sandie99
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Re: Dating
« Reply #5 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 2:58pm » |
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on Apr 26th, 2005, 2:39pm, notseinfeld wrote:I'll datecha Sandy (insert whistle here)
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Re: Dating
« Reply #6 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 3:07pm » |
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I hear you. I just go to work and the gym. And the young ones talk to me at the gym. sigh.......
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Re: Dating
« Reply #7 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 3:11pm » |
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on Apr 26th, 2005, 2:23pm, sandie99 wrote:| Reading all these posts about happy ch couples, |
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Where are these posts you speak of?
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Re: Dating
« Reply #8 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 3:19pm » |
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on Apr 26th, 2005, 3:11pm, thomas wrote:
Where are these posts you speak of? |
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For example, check out what Lizzie writes about her supporter...
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Right there with ya Sandie.
I have been single again going into my 3rd year (ugh! Fucking kill me!) I guess it's not too romantic when you have to get up from a cuddle with a cuss-fit to go to the bathroom and pound the tile.
Then again, being a 'freek musician' most think I am a very *friendly* person anyway - quite the opposite. Also, I've been 'in a mood' and decided to quit shaving after DavCon, and had a Grizzly Adams beard that scared everyone. I looked like a homeless guy, lol. I shed the beard this past weekend and lost 15 lbs in the face. Now back to the bald, goatee'd Anton La Vey look that should scare everyone away for another 3 years. What is funny though is, I am the nicest guy you could meet - I just look scary. At least no one tries to mug me late at night in my neighborhood.
Infinitely single,
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Re: Dating
« Reply #10 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 4:08pm » |
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on Apr 26th, 2005, 4:02pm, PrettyH8Machine wrote:| Also, I've been 'in a mood' and decided to quit shaving after DavCon, and had a Grizzly Adams beard that scared everyone. I looked like a homeless guy, lol. |
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So are you saying a bearded homeless guy can't get laid? I'll take that bet.
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Religion and sex are powerplays. Manipulate the people for the money they pay. Selling skin, selling God, the numbers look the same on their credit cards. Triptans cause rebounds. Learn it, believe it, live it. I use triptans as the absolute LAST RESORT when treating my CH.
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Re: Dating
« Reply #11 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 4:12pm » |
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Okay thats enough - all of you stop right there!
None of you lot have any deficiencies, you are all lovely people I am proud to call my friends.. no stuff that.. my family.
There really is someone out there for everyone, I truly believe that and if you havne't met them yet its because..
Well visualise a rose.
To get to the beautiful flower at the top of the stem you don't half have to pass alot of pricks on the way!
Anyone who doesn't appreciate you isn't worthy of you and as such has my eternal pity. (Oh and stuff 'em!)
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The arsehole I'm divorcing needs to get a life and stop stalking mine
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on Apr 26th, 2005, 4:08pm, thomas wrote:
So are you saying a bearded homeless guy can't get laid? I'll take that bet. |
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Handjobs from other homeless peeps doesn't count.
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Re: Dating
« Reply #13 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 4:19pm » |
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on Apr 26th, 2005, 4:13pm, PrettyH8Machine wrote:Handjobs from other homeless peeps doesn't count.
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LMMFAO!!!!!
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Re: Dating
« Reply #14 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 4:39pm » |
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on Apr 26th, 2005, 4:12pm, LeLimey wrote:Okay thats enough - all of you stop right there!
None of you lot have any deficiencies, you are all lovely people I am proud to call my friends.. no stuff that.. my family.
There really is someone out there for everyone, I truly believe that and if you havne't met them yet its because..
Well visualise a rose.
To get to the beautiful flower at the top of the stem you don't half have to pass alot of pricks on the way!
Anyone who doesn't appreciate you isn't worthy of you and as such has my eternal pity. (Oh and stuff 'em!) |
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Oh, and, uh, yeah, stuff em!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Dating
« Reply #15 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 6:52pm » |
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Well Sandie at least you dont have this problem
Doctor Dave slept with one of his patients and felt guilty all day long. No matter how much he tried to forget about it, he couldn't. The guilt and sense of betrayal was overwhelming. But every once in a while he'd hear an internal, reassuring voice that said: "Dave, don't worry about it. You aren't the first doctor to sleep with one of their patients and you won't be the last. And you're single. Let it go..."
But invariably the other voice would bring him back to reality:
"Dave, you're a vet..."
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Re: Dating
« Reply #16 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 9:46pm » |
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Oh, I don't know Sandy ..... does he whistle while he works and hand over the paycheck. Might be worth a second glance.
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Re: Dating
« Reply #17 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 10:12pm » |
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bwahaha... fine one ghost! 
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Re: Dating
« Reply #18 on: Apr 26th, 2005, 10:45pm » |
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on Apr 26th, 2005, 4:12pm, LeLimey wrote:Okay thats enough - all of you stop right there!
None of you lot have any deficiencies, you are all lovely people I am proud to call my friends.. no stuff that.. my family.
There really is someone out there for everyone, I truly believe that and if you havne't met them yet its because..
Well visualise a rose.
To get to the beautiful flower at the top of the stem you don't half have to pass alot of pricks on the way!
Anyone who doesn't appreciate you isn't worthy of you and as such has my eternal pity. (Oh and stuff 'em!) |
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Well said Helen! I second that! I am one of a few ppl that say they found their soulmate when they finally stopped looking. I had the 'tude of giving up on relationships for a long while, waste of heartache and time yadda yadda. Then I went into a convience store and Sam asked for my phone number. lol weird but true
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« Reply #19 on: Apr 27th, 2005, 1:51am » |
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There's always hope but then look what happened to poor Georgia
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Hope things are still on schedule there.
Lots of tranquilizers Den.
Both of yuz keep in touch.
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Re: Dating
« Reply #20 on: Apr 27th, 2005, 7:04am » |
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Soon after I found my way to this site a year ago, the man I was seeing and very much in love with decided that he wasn't able to take the "in sickness* part. He had never seen an attack, but the beast had not morphed yet. He did come for a visit once after the morph while I was taking neurontin, pred, and indo, which the hits had stopped from the pred, but the indo/neurontin combo with it had a secondary HA thing going on, and I was so weak and dizzy and I could barely stand up straight. I looked a wreck and it was the last time I saw him before he bailed a week later with the...*you just aren't yourself anymore* bit.
Have faith that the right person will enter your life. It takes time...and he'll come in the most unlikely fashion.
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Re: Dating
« Reply #21 on: Apr 27th, 2005, 9:26am » |
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on Apr 26th, 2005, 9:46pm, OneEyeBlind wrote:Oh, I don't know Sandy ..... does he whistle while he works and hand over the paycheck. Might be worth a second glance.
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Re: Dating
« Reply #22 on: Apr 27th, 2005, 9:27am » |
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on Apr 26th, 2005, 6:52pm, ghost62 wrote:Well Sandie at least you dont have this problem
Doctor Dave slept with one of his patients and felt guilty all day long. No matter how much he tried to forget about it, he couldn't. The guilt and sense of betrayal was overwhelming. But every once in a while he'd hear an internal, reassuring voice that said: "Dave, don't worry about it. You aren't the first doctor to sleep with one of their patients and you won't be the last. And you're single. Let it go..."
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You're right. I don't have that problem!
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Re: Dating
« Reply #23 on: Apr 27th, 2005, 10:00am » |
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The question is when you do meet someone you think you want to pursue a relationship with, how do you approach the topic of CH? What do you say? Give him info from here? Lead him here? How do you even initiate the conversation of CH? “There’s something you should know about me”…?
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Re: Dating
« Reply #24 on: Apr 27th, 2005, 10:06am » |
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on Apr 27th, 2005, 10:00am, Langa wrote:The question is when you do meet someone you think you want to pursue a relationship with, how do you approach the topic of CH? What do you say? Give him info from here? Lead him here? How do you even initiate the conversation of CH? “There’s something you should know about me”…?
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Exactly. That's the hardest part...
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