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Cerberus
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Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« on: Apr 16th, 2005, 12:58am » |
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My daughter (Sami 14) has been missing since at least 11:00 AM yesterday...Police have been notified...I can't really say more since there is too much to tell and not enough time or patience to tell it all...
That is all...
My daughter doesn't love me enough to let me into her life.
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #1 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 1:14am » |
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I'm so sorry Ramon... 
I'm praying for her safety and quick return home...
Don't doubt your daughter's love, this is just a very difficult age for kids..
Hang in there and keep us posted..  .
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #2 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 2:27am » |
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Ramon,
She does love you...very much. Please don't ever forget that.
I was 14 not all that long ago. I would have made some very wacked out choices had it not been for some very close people in my life.
She may be mixed up, confused, depressed, scared, and maybe she feels like she can't turn to you right now. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you or can't trust you. Sometimes teens have to find their way.
I am praying for all of you, more than you know.
Let me know if there's anything I can do for you guys.
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #3 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 2:42am » |
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I hope she gets found quickly and that situations can be resolved peacefully.
Vibes for patience and strength headed your way, bro. Lord knows with a teenage girl you need them.
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« Reply #4 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 3:43am » |
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Ramon....I'm sure Sami will soon be home well and safe.
It is so hard being a teenager...they feel grown up ...yet they are still our children.
I found it hard to speak to my parents at that age...I loved them..but how could I talk to them..I had no idea of how much pain I put them through..just by not talking.
When she comes back through that door..put your arms round her and tell her you love her..talking can wait awhile.
Hang in there Ramon.
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #5 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 4:36am » |
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on Apr 16th, 2005, 1:14am, Langa wrote:I'm so sorry Ramon...
I'm praying for her safety and quick return home...
Don't doubt your daughter's love, this is just a very difficult age for kids..
Hang in there and keep us posted.. .
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I`m copying this one since i feel it says it all.
Praying for all of you Ramon&Tina
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #6 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 7:11am » |
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Ramon and Woobie my heart goes out to you both. Keep the faith please. Teenagers have so much more to deal with than we ever did at that age, as has been said before, she may feel depressed, scared, and the whole host of things Lizzie said. Do keep us posted as much as you can.
Lots of love and giant vibes she comes home soon.
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #7 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 8:36am » |
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I am so sorry to hear this. I will be praying for your daughter to come home saftely. I know what it is like I went through this a short while back with my teenage son Joshua dissapearing for a couple of months. The endless worry and not knowing eats at you. If you need someone to call or talk to I will PM you my number.
Does she have a cell phone?Can you trace where calls are comming from? If she left her cell lphone at home go her phone directory and call all the people in it and just causualy ask if your daughter is there. That is how I nabed my son and found out where he was staying. At least I knew he was alive and ok. Just an idea.
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #8 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 8:54am » |
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Ramon, I'll be keeping all of you in my thoughts.
I hope she comes home soon.
May you all be safe and well,
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #9 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 8:57am » |
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Praying for her safe return.
Never doubt her love for you - she's just lost her way for a time. She does love you, make no mistake about it.
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #10 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 9:42am » |
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I'm also praying for her safe and quick return.
My oldest daughter had a really rough time during her teen years, and I know how hard it can be on the parents. Hang in there, these rough patches will pass. My prayers are going out for all of you. ~nani
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #11 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 10:01am » |
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We are thinking of you and your family. Be strong and keep looking.
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #12 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 10:05am » |
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Ramon, I will be praying that your daugter comes home to you very soon and safely..
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #13 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 10:28am » |
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Big prayers being sent for the safe return of your daughter.
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #14 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 10:43am » |
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Ramon and Tina, know I am thinking of you right now and praying for her safe return...
These are challenging times not only for her but for you both as she exerts her independance and pushes you out, its not that she does not love you, know that in your heart...
Big hugs and prayers on over, thinking of all of you
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #15 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 12:28pm » |
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LOVE and HUGS and Everything Else
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #16 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 12:36pm » |
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Prayers to you and woobs, and God protect Sami.
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #17 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 2:53pm » |
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{{Ramon and Woobie }}
I will be praying for your daughters safe return home.
When she comes home I hope she's ready to both listen and talk.May you both have the strength you need for this difficult time.
praying and sending vibes,
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #18 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 4:04pm » |
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Praying for her and you all.
I'm so sorry, being a parent is a real double edged sword isn't it? Kids give us the greatest pleasures and also the greatest heartbreaks in life.
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #19 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 7:33pm » |
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My biggest hugs and many prayers are coming your way in hopes your daughter comes home safe and sound.
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #20 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 7:51pm » |
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Hello Woobie and Ramon...let us know as soon as you know something......praying for sanity......life with young daughters isnt always fun.....love ree
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #22 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 8:08pm » |
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I am on my knees for you and your family brother.....God be with you and return your baby safe...soon.
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill! (Updated)
« Reply #23 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 9:56pm » |
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At approximately 1 pm today, Woobs called me at work and said that they knew where Sami was and she was going there to get her...
Needless to say I vacated my position at work ( with my superior's blessing. ) and went straight home to await their arrival.
Albeit I STILL have no real idea what made her do what she did, ( I know what I was told...but the story is so outlandishly fantastic, that it befowls me) Alas, she is home now, and hopefully a little wiser and a LOT more appreciative of her home.
Thank you all for your support and wisdom, I would have gone insane if I had not had you all to share my pain with...CH aside even.
a HUGE sigh of relief....
Ramon
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Re: Red Alert!!!! This is NOT a drill!
« Reply #24 on: Apr 16th, 2005, 10:00pm » |
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Gald to hear she is safe and sound. I do hope the family recovers from this shake up very soon. Deep Breath my Brother! She is safe and that is the important thing. Much love!
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