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To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« on: Jan 16th, 2005, 12:18am » |
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I have not posted in a while for two reasons. One, I am away on a business trip, and dealing with my head, which has not been fun, away from home. The second reason is a bit more disturbing: I received two different email messages from "family" members stating that my comments are not appreciated or needed on this web site. One also stated that it is an abomination that OUCH has people like me on the BoD. I have to admit, those comments hurt. But, I have thought long and hard, and now feel, the hell with them!
I am who I am, a Clusterhead. I belong here just as much as any other Clusterhead. My off color comments are meant in jest and just to have fun. I do not intend to insult or hurt anyone. Dealing with this shit we all live with is hard for me. I get hit so often. Life is hard for me to deal with. The ways I have found to deal with it, is to enjoy and joke around as much as possible during my time between hits. Between this site and family, and my sense of humor, as off color as it may be, I can live through this hell.
As for the two who sent me those nasty-grams, if you don't like reading my posts, then DON'T! I have never attacked you, nor made any comments to intentionally hurt you, or anyone else.
No one is going to drive me from this site. I belong here. This is my family. Remember, you can chose your friends, but not your family, so you are stuck with me for better or worse. I am very happy and proud to say, that many of this family I also call friends. I have met many in person, and hope to meet many more.
BTW, Don, you suck.
DonnaD and Cathi, BITE ME!!
Svenn, STFU!
And most of the rest of you, I love ya, and welcome to my heart!
Chuck
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #1 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 12:21am » |
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ROCK ON CHUCKLES!!!!
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #2 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 12:27am » |
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Rock on CHuck!
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #3 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 12:59am » |
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I don't know and don't want to know who would send you such messages. I will say this: You never know what cruel twists fate has in store for you. The hand you bite today may be the one you need to feed you tomorrow.
Chuck, I am proud to call you my brother.
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #4 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 1:19am » |
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Chuck, you rock !!!!!! Proud to call ya brother.
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #5 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 1:45am » |
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Chuck - ignore those who are ignorant. You're a great guy and have every right to be here. Like you said, if somebody doesn't like what you have to say, they don't have to open a post from you. This is really starting to piss me off. Maybe they are just jealous of you Chuck. Maybe they just need someone to lash out against because they are so unhappy and unfulfilled with their own lives. Maybe they can't stand to see others have a good time because they are miserable and think everyone else should be too.
My god people! Whoever is keeping this shit going - don't you have a life? Don't you have anything better to do than pick others apart? Is it really necessary for everyone to comply to your version of hypocrisy morality? Get off of your high horse and get over yourself! Grow up and stop playing these dumb fucking junior high games. We've got enough problems as it is without someone else creating new ones. If you want to pick someone apart, GO TAKE A LOOK IN THE MIRROR!
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #6 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 1:53am » |
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Chuck,
As you know, some folks are givers and some are takers.
The takers are never satisfied. Sometimes the takers are hard to spot, but once burned by one, then it becomes easier to distinquish the next.
Time spent to send you nasty emails could have been put to good use. Surely there are a few here who could use some support. Certainly there are a few here in pain. Valuable time.....wasted, because the takers are not happy. They can complain....but they can't take the time to help out a brother or sister in pain.
Keep the "fuck 'em" attitude.  It looks good on you, sweetie! 
BTW....many thanks to you for all the love and vibes and thoughts you have given me since I've been here.
Thanks for the warm welcome to your heart.....but I am already there. 
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #7 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 2:28am » |
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As I sit here and read this post my emotions ran the full gamut of some of the darker emotions. Anger, fear, sadness, ...and I wanted to lash out at whomever made these intentionally harmful comments to one of my dearest friends.
I was ANGRY and wanted to know WHY and WHO and WHEN. I even caught Chuck on messenger and insisted he tell me the names of the people who sent the PM's to him.
Chuck refused to tell me.
He said it was not important that THEY were not important .
And I am going to accept that answer.
I wanted to educate these "persons" about the human being they referred to as an "abomination" to the OUCH BoD. I wanted to tell them about his dedication and perseverence to OUCH. I wanted to tell them about how I watched him slip deeper and deeper into a hard hit at the BoD meeting in Nashville but REFUSING to leave any unfinished business. I wanted to tell them about the many online BoD meetings that he ALWAYS attends and the immense participation he has with everything that is OUCH. I wanted to tell them about the phone calls of support he has made to me, cheering me up when no one else could. I wanted to tell them about the man who loves his family, and had you witnessed the interaction between him and his daughter Stephanie in Nashville, you would understand what I mean.
I wanted to lash out and curse the perpetrators of this heinous act of cruelyy and unkindness. To publicly flame them for thier callousness and bigotry. To make them feel small for their own small minded comments. To hurt them as they must have hurt my friend.
But I won't.
Because Chuck said it doesn't matter. That THEY don't matter.
So I will keep my comments to myself, hard as it may be, and lend no credibility to those, and they know who they are, who would hurt one of the best friends I have ever had. I will lay it to rest.
He is my friend and I love him.
Now, that being said...
BITE ME CHUCKIE-POO!!!
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #8 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 3:21am » |
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Kick ass Chuck!
Yes it seem everyone is encouraged to say there heart here.
As long as it fall in line with the minds of a elite few 
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #9 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 3:30am » |
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LMFAO.....Amen and pass the tater's, Magick!
You hit the nail right on the head!! 
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #10 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 5:31am » |
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Some times it,s difficult to read a laugh from some posts without an expression, but 2 send u personals is a bit rugged. i,m with u Chuck. Let them go & stick their head up a dewad bears arse! Russ
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #11 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 5:33am » |
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I meant DEAD
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #12 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 7:30am » |
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Chuck - I've never met you in person, but I've read your posts and Steph's posts and I'm thinkin you're a one of a kind guy.
No idea why anyone would take you on in that fashion but there are small minded people out there with way too much time on their hands.
You have lots of friends here which is more than evident from the posts being made to this thread.
I've always said, love the ones that are worthy and to hell with the rest.
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #13 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 7:38am » |
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If there are those that want to take the board go right ahead but make sure and take everyone else reason for being here along with it.
Other wise STFU
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #14 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 7:54am » |
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Chuck,
You rule mate.
Dont let them get to you.
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« Reply #16 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 8:47am » |
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Chuck,
Hang in there bro. You had it exactly right, if someone doesn't like something/someone their mouse don't have to click there.
Personally, I would like to thank you for all the times you made me laugh and think about things when I couldn't see the forest for the trees  .
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« Reply #17 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 8:58am » |
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an 'abomination'? I don't think I have ever been called an abomination before. It's almost brag-worthy.
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« Reply #18 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 9:59am » |
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Chuck, look at it this way: You're famous enough to rate getting hate mail!
I met you at NashCon, ate supper with you, and cried, watching you get hit three times in the space of less than an hour. Whomever had such poverty of consciousness and smallness of heart to send you such tripe, has to live with themselves day in and day out. I can't think of a worse fate than that.
Chuck, you just keep on doing what you're doing. There's no one I'd rather have on the BoD than you, and your humor, strength, and determination to live your life in the face of excrutiating pain... You are an inspiration, and I thank you for being here, for pitching in and helping, and for just being who you are.
My best to you, my friend,
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« Reply #19 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 10:05am » |
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Hey Chuck ! I saw you at Nashcon too. I always did like you. To hell with the complainers !!
Rock on !
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #20 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 10:08am » |
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What is this place turning into? 
He is one of just a few willing to donate their time to the cause here. He's a supporter/sufferer/friend and family member.
Some choose to click and read things when they have a CHOICE!!! 
The choice is yours, just like hitting the DELETE USER button! 
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #21 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 10:25am » |
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 awe chuckypoo you know I Love ya.
you are doing great for both OUCH and our family here.Your one of the people I was really looking forword to see at Dan's in a couple week.Thats our daughter April's 8th B-Day so I'm staying home  . Billy will be there and I will be there in spirit.Your right who ever wrote those nasty E-mails aren't worth it.just keep doing what your doing.
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #22 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 10:33am » |
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Here's to TRUE family Chuck!!!
I have only met 3 people on this board and ofcourse they are burned on my soul yet everyone here has had an impact on my life.
Looking forward to the day when I can reach out and hug everyone in person!
(((Chuck)))
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Re: To Hell with the Complainers !!!
« Reply #24 on: Jan 16th, 2005, 10:48am » |
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What the Hey anyway???? Being a bit off color is not a bad thing. Like ya said, if they dont want to read it, then they shouldnt. Kinda like a bumper sticker I once saw---If ya dont believe in abortion, dont get one. Raise the bastard.
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