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How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« on: Dec 14th, 2004, 6:19pm » |
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I hpe someone can give me some idea's of where to start with this!
I have just been given an address for my ex who is allegedly living in Ohio now. Does anyone know how I can check if he is living there or not?
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #1 on: Dec 14th, 2004, 6:21pm » |
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do a "google" search
or you can pay a few bucks and do an online "people search"
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #2 on: Dec 14th, 2004, 6:23pm » |
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OK, but why? Just kidding. Search online for a reverse phone directory. You should be able to get a name and phone number when you enter the address. Then you can call and ask. (pretending to be someone else of course) (use a payphone or cell phone so they won't see the number on caller ID or use *69 to find out your number.)
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #4 on: Dec 14th, 2004, 6:28pm » |
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Bingo! found it on google! just typed his name and ohio and up it came if you'll pardon the expression (and the exaggeration!!  )
I need to verify his address for legal paperwork to be sent on to him and if my solicitors do it it will cost an arm and a leg. They can ask him for child support too since he hasn't paid a penny since we split in 97 but I won't hold my breath on that one!
Thanks for your help everyone, I didn't have a clue where to start!
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« Reply #5 on: Dec 14th, 2004, 6:36pm » |
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go get the worthless SOB Helen!!!! Sic 'em!
Good luck!
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« Reply #6 on: Dec 14th, 2004, 6:37pm » |
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If your willing to wait till spring and buy the plane ticket....I'll go empty his pockets, bank accounts, house and anything else he has 
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #7 on: Dec 14th, 2004, 6:43pm » |
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Karen, the very good friend who told me also told me he is planning a trip back here after Xmas.. now considering the last time I saw him he beat seven colours of shit outta me I'm not anxious to see him again and I want injunctions in place! In order to have them I have to have him served too.. vicious circle but at least I have a head start now.
Jonny... I love you y'know! Thanks for a lovely daydream picturing that but.. the best revenge is to live happily and I'm doing that!  Ive got a lovely hubby, gorgeous kids, the best friends in the whole world.. and all over the world come to think of it! All he has is money.. guess who is the loser?!!
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #8 on: Dec 14th, 2004, 9:55pm » |
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Take heart. At least he's stuck in Ohio in winter.....brrrrr.
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #9 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 12:44am » |
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That's great that you've found happiness, being the bigger person is the way to go!!
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(who still think that jonny or someone should carry out that scenario)
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« Reply #10 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 5:51am » |
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Quote:| If your willing to wait till spring and buy the plane ticket....I'll go empty his pockets, bank accounts, house and anything else he has |
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Ohio aint that far. I'll pick you up Saturday.
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« Reply #11 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 6:03am » |
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on Dec 15th, 2004, 5:51am, don wrote:
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Thanks Chuck,I wouldn't want the king to get shite on his boot though  and like I said Don.. you're just luvverly aren't you?!! 
Mind you.. if he comes after me or my kids again all bets are off.
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #12 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 7:42am » |
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on Dec 14th, 2004, 6:28pm, LeLimey wrote:
I need to verify his address for legal paperwork to be sent on to him and if my solicitors do it it will cost an arm and a leg. They can ask him for child support too since he hasn't paid a penny since we split in 97 but I won't hold my breath on that one! |
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LeLimey,
I know, here in a neighboring state, MI, guys are being served more and more for child support and if the proper attention is given to it, there is no driver's lisence renewal for them if they owe. Warrants are issued, had a guy at work pulled right off the job. No tax returns either. Anyway, pretty sure the laws are going more in your favor these days, finally.
An astronomical amount of money was found to be owed in this state and laws were quickly enacted. Perhaps if really needed, an Ohio lawyer would be a good idea to give it a look. Summons servers are very overworked right now, in this state anyway, it's the best job opportunity around with PLENTY of work. Hiding ex's are being found and served.
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« Reply #13 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 8:03am » |
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I can't imagine any man beating up on a woman... WTF??
Jonny & Don, I'd be happy to meet up with you on the way over to this goon's house. I'm sure he's going to really miss having teeth and kneecaps... 
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #14 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 9:05am » |
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on Dec 14th, 2004, 6:37pm, Jonny wrote:| If your willing to wait till spring and buy the plane ticket....I'll go empty his pockets, bank accounts, house and anything else he has |
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Do you need any help? Can I at least come along and video tape it for documentary purposes?
BTW: I'm in Indiana. Close enough to just make it a day trip and be back home in time for dinner.
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #15 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 9:11am » |
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on Dec 14th, 2004, 6:43pm, LeLimey wrote:| ... now considering the last time I saw him he beat seven colours of shit outta me |
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Two words: Smith & Wesson.
MHO, of course.
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #16 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 11:27am » |
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If he even breathes on you or looks at you cross eyed, all bets are off. I'll join Jonny, Frank, Don and anyone else who has the inkling to come. How do you think he would feel to have a women kick his ass. And I would enjoy it.
I caught one of my friends being pinned to the wall by her fiance one time. I made him piss himself, because he knew that if I ever even suspected that he touched her again in any other way that loving, I would make sure that he would have to go on a scavanger hunt of all of his favorite parts. 
But as far as the child support goes, go after him. There is a lot that can be done and they can make sure that he pays and that he pays the back pay that he owes you as well.
Anyone willing to hold this arsehole for a 5 foot 11 German?
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on Dec 15th, 2004, 8:03am, Jeepgun wrote:| I can't imagine any man beating up on a woman... WTF?? |
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One of the three things that gets me PISSED (and no, Helen, not in the the happy British way!)... The only physical confrontations I have ever had have been a result of some spineless cretin hitting a woman. Just makes my blood boil.
I volunteer for the hit squad... I'll bring needle-nose pliers...
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #18 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 11:46am » |
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Helen,
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Suit up boys...
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« Reply #19 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 11:54am » |
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on Dec 14th, 2004, 6:28pm, LeLimey wrote:They can ask him for child support too since he hasn't paid a penny since we split in 97 but I won't hold my breath on that one!
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That just plain pisses me off. Someone who won't pay child support should be taken off at the knees.
My child support payments are in excess of $27,000 per year (2 kids). I pay more than my POS ex makes. But I pay it! They are my kids, I helped make them, I'm responsible for supporting them.
I'll join you jonny / jeep -- we'll thump the bastard!
edited cuz when I'm pissed I can't spell worth a shit.
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« Reply #20 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 12:02pm » |
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You know, I love this family! I'm feeling sorry for myself, I'm all weepy this morning and in a great deal of pain. I'm making soapand lotion for my kid's teachers and I'm high on aromatherapy oils. And I check in on the boards and see how many ways we support each other...and I picture a posse of clusterheads (me included) descending on this prick in Ohio and I can't help but smile and even laugh. I love you guys!
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #21 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 12:08pm » |
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on Dec 14th, 2004, 6:43pm, LeLimey wrote:Karen, the very good friend who told me also told me he is planning a trip back here after Xmas.. now considering the last time I saw him he beat seven colours of shit outta me I'm not anxious to see him again and I want injunctions in place! In order to have them I have to have him served too.. vicious circle but at least I have a head start now.
Jonny... I love you y'know! Thanks for a lovely daydream picturing that but.. the best revenge is to live happily and I'm doing that! Ive got a lovely hubby, gorgeous kids, the best friends in the whole world.. and all over the world come to think of it! All he has is money.. guess who is the loser?!! |
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What a shame LiLimey! So glad you have a family that really loves you and apprecaites you now.
My ex-boyfriend smacked me so hard one time, my whole body slammed against the wall. On the floor with a bleeding lip, I saw him coming towards me (he was 6'7", 280 lbs, I'm 5'6", 140 pounds) I knew I had to think quickly! First thing I did was grab his balls and kept squeezing until he was on his knees and at eye level with me, then with everything I had I punched him so hard I broke his nose (and my knuckles  ). That gave me enough time to run. Then I got my brothers on his ass. Never saw him again...low-life! I think that taught him not to mess with a Puerto Rican! (or any other woman again!)
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« Reply #23 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 12:40pm » |
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No need for all that nonsense. Just contact the Ohio Bureau of Child Support in Columbus, Ohio. Give them his social security number, date of birth, and YOUR court order number for the support. Those "man hating females" will track him to the ends of the earth, just to garnish his wages, throw him in jail, just to scare him, take his drivers licenese, tax returns, and everything he owns----just to make him mad. After that, he will stand before a judge and become toungelashed into submission. Then, the only 2 things he has left to do is catch up on arrearages, or leave the country.
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Re: How can I "find" someone? (Not CH)
« Reply #24 on: Dec 15th, 2004, 1:49pm » |
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Oh I love you guys so much!  all around!
The child support element is a gray area.. I can only get a judgement in a UK court and they don't hold in the US. He is now married to an American lady and so the only way I could get any money out of him is if I get a judgement and have it so that it is enforced at his point of entry into the UK.. but I'd prefer he never comes back! I can support them, I don't need his money he can take it and shove it where the monkey shoved the nut. The legal paperwork I want served on him is injunctions making sure he keeps away from us as apparently he is due to be bringing his wife for a visit to his family after Christmas. For an injunction to be valid it has to be served on him and that is why I needed his address verified.. which I now have so all is well. Until that poor bailif gets there then I don't think he will be a very happy bunny!! Luckily I'm no where near him so the worst that will happen is that my ears will be burning.
If he makes the mistake of coming near me or the kids while he is back in England he will regret it.. one way or another.
Thank you all for the advice and concern and love. I feel .. elated, there isn't another word. I'm on cloud nine here!
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