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Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« on: Dec 4th, 2004, 10:44pm » |
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So.
I met you guys way after general cluster put his stamp upon me and mine...........but b4 i had teenagers  LOL
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
Suddenly and seemingly overnite those lil darlins have turned into pre-adult demons 
I have three girls. Two of them are teenagers now and busting my bawls like i cain't tell ya
I know there lies beneath two most beeee-U-tiful women, but for some reason they keep acting like regula bitches  ................
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #1 on: Dec 4th, 2004, 11:20pm » |
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My deepest sympathies kim. I wish I could give you advice, but there is none. I will say that the very qualities that are making you nuts will likely make them phenomenal women. And the best news is...they will grow out of it...someday. I've raised (and am raising) both girls and boys, and boys are harder as little ones ...girls are harder as teens. Good luck...I'll be sending prayers.
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #2 on: Dec 4th, 2004, 11:24pm » |
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Kim,
Geeez, I've got that and she is only 10.
What am I in for.
Opus/Paul
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #3 on: Dec 4th, 2004, 11:48pm » |
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Picture your inside soul being a rubber band.....that's how it is bringing up young wimmin....
-Just when ya think ya got it together - MOUNT RUSHMORE!
Ka- BOOM 
Why i had three of them must be divine intervention. LOL. AT least you know i'll be paying dearly for my gibberish
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #4 on: Dec 5th, 2004, 7:07pm » |
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I don't have any answers for you Kim, but I have two pubescant pre-teens in this house so I'm going to watch this thread closely. I'm already wondering how in the hell I'm gonna make it through and we don't officially hit teen years for another 3 months.
Someone once told me all you can do is love them, that they have learned all they are going to learn from you by the time they are 8. Something tells me that mine learned all the bad stuff Just how do you cure the disease to please in an 11 year old girl?
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #5 on: Dec 5th, 2004, 7:13pm » |
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oooooooooooooooooooooh
KIM - I feeeeeeeeeeeeel ya sista! Mine are 14 and 11
both girls
fight like crazy - the 14 yr old (Sami) is beyond moody. She doesn't talk - she snaps.
I have been informed that I am not cool, and that SHE is a "hotty". WTF?
now the 11 yr old is taking attitude lessons from the 14 yr old......... so I got it coming at me from both of them now...
it's all about BOYZ...(and that IS with a Z - on the downlow........)
i'm sorry kim - if you find the answers - lemme know - wuddya?
gotta love em.....
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #6 on: Dec 5th, 2004, 7:14pm » |
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on Dec 4th, 2004, 11:24pm, Opus wrote:Kim,
Geeez, I've got that and she is only 10.
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Me too - the ten year ld daughter bit!
Worrying thing is I can remember (vaguely) what I was like and......... SHE- it!
I suppose there IS a bright side though she can't be any worse than I was.. can she?
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #7 on: Dec 5th, 2004, 7:24pm » |
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on Dec 5th, 2004, 7:14pm, LeLimey wrote:
she can't be any worse than I was.. can she?
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ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh dont be naive!!!!!!!!!!! 
they can take what we did when we were kids and make it seem like a day in the park having a picnic with mom and dad! they have more technology these days...... more designer drugs...... more messed up things to get into trouble with...
and on top of that - they have a secret language now - so us parents cant understand what they're talking about and doing..
dont worry tho - i know all the words - if anyone needs help deciphering - i got yer back... fer RIZZLE.
Hey Limey - i hope you were a good kid!
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #8 on: Dec 5th, 2004, 7:27pm » |
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They are in training.
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #9 on: Dec 5th, 2004, 8:31pm » |
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Cat, Kim and others,
Having given birth to and raised 7 kids(2 daughters) I may be able to help here.
When they tell you "I hate you" love them anyway.
" " stay out to late and you're frantic. Love them anyway.
When they roll their eyes at ANYTHING you say. Love them anyway.
Pick your battles...carefully.
Don't EVER EVER forget this: YOU ARE THE MOM!!!!!!!! not their friend. You can be friends when they are 35.
my 2 cents worth.
Oh, and Don? STFU
Linda
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #10 on: Dec 5th, 2004, 8:41pm » |
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Linda said it ....
Actually, I read an article once titled, "Toddlers are Like Puppies, Teenagers are Like Cats." This is especially true for girls.
I never thought I'd survive my daughter's teen years. Everything I did was stupid, everything I cooked was gross, and I was a continual embarassment to her when her friends were around. In her eyes, the only time I was a good mom was when I was buying her something she really, REALLY wanted!
She's 21 now, and a treasure. We're actually becoming good friends. She's starting to say things like, "Gosh Mom, you were right all those times you told me ...... "
All I can say is, it's Hell while you're there, but it DOES get better!
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #11 on: Dec 5th, 2004, 9:21pm » |
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on Dec 5th, 2004, 7:27pm, don wrote:
That's what I think too. When does the training end and what's the end result?
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
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1. It doesn't.
2. Hoardes of twitching men reduced to quivering mush and placed on sacraficial alters.
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #13 on: Dec 5th, 2004, 9:36pm » |
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To plagerize Melissa...."You two need help" 
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #14 on: Dec 5th, 2004, 9:46pm » |
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Those sweet little girls are busting your balls?
Tell them I'll give a talking to 'em.......
You're little punk rocker better watch out lol.
I'll see ya real soon Kim once things get settled!
Hugs,
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #15 on: Dec 5th, 2004, 11:19pm » |
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Take it from one who has been there - my teenagers are now 39-1/2, 32, 31. Raising teenagers of any sex is somewhat akin to nailing jello to a tree!
Hang in there - it will pass - y'all will survive and one day you'll look back and laugh.
I agree with those who have said - you're not their friend, you're the parent - and sometimes the answer just has to be "Because I said so!"
Good Luck and hugs to all of you yet to face these wonder years.
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Re: Cluster GEEZER'S Ask for Help....
« Reply #16 on: Dec 5th, 2004, 11:33pm » |
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Us and our kid agrued all the time.......the worst years was 13 to 19.......I always thought things were backwards......kids should be born short pudgy and bald and stay that way or get worse up until they were about 21 then take a turn for the better. They'd be educated hotties Pam
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