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Cerberus
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To tell or not to tell...
« on: Aug 5th, 2004, 12:04am » |
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that is my question.
I just started the new job, had orientation today. First day of actual work is next wednesday. Do I tell em about my CH now up front? Or do I wait till later.
I know kinda a stupid question, but, do they really need to know NOW? I wouldn't want it to become an issue when I am full blown in cycle, but I dont want em worryin about my capabilities being limited either...the last job was easy enough, just told em when I found out what CH was had been workin there 8 yrs already. This is a bit different of a situation.
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #1 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 12:15am » |
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I ain't too smucken fart ... or I don't remember ... are you in cycle now? If not ... fuckem ... let them see what a good worker you are first ... then work it in to the conversation after you been there a bit ...
If you are in cycle, harder question to answer ... I would still try to hold off telling them for as long as possible, till they see what sort of a worker you are ...
Good luck my fine man tittied friend !!! And a nice ass you gots, too!
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #2 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 1:47am » |
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hate to say it but I agree with The Groper
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #3 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 3:00am » |
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Ramon -
It's me - your wife. (remember me?? LMAO!)
for what you're making there - dont fukkin worry about it.
they arent payin you enough to worry about such things
just my opinion -
and --- HEY --- I'm in the next room if you have a question.
LMAO!
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #4 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 7:46am » |
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on Aug 5th, 2004, 3:00am, Woobie wrote:and --- HEY --- I'm in the next room if you have a question.
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #5 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 7:48am » |
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on Aug 5th, 2004, 3:00am, Woobie wrote:Ramon -
It's me - your wife. (remember me?? LMAO!)
for what you're making there - dont fukkin worry about it.
they arent payin you enough to worry about such things
just my opinion -
and --- HEY --- I'm in the next room if you have a question.
LMAO!
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Hey! Now it is me, the one who tells you to listen to your wife! So, listen to your wife.
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #6 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 7:53am » |
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LMFAO!
Yeah, listen to your wife. She is obviously a smart lady.
BTW, your are NOT required to disclose that you have CH. I've had it for 12 years and have only just recently told my supervisor because he is a friend. I left out alot of details because most people just don't understand.
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #7 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 8:03am » |
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #8 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 8:35am » |
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Ramon...what kind of job? And fuggem'...if you're a good worker...it shouldn't matter....but remember...Honesty is the best policy...use it. Luke
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #9 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 8:36am » |
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Listen to Woobie 
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #10 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 8:36am » |
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on Aug 5th, 2004, 3:00am, Woobie wrote:Ramon -
It's me - your wife. (remember me?? LMAO!)
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Too Fuckin cute Woobs Luke
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #11 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 8:41am » |
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on Aug 5th, 2004, 3:00am, Woobie wrote:Ramon -
It's me - your wife. (remember me?? LMAO!)
for what you're making there - dont fukkin worry about it.
they arent payin you enough to worry about such things
just my opinion -
and --- HEY --- I'm in the next room if you have a question.
LMAO!
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This is too funny. I can just see ya'll sitting there in the basement not 4ft from each other, but talking on the computer.
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #12 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 9:17am » |
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I need to get my wife on the computer....maybe we will talk more 
best thing is to not tell them until they know you are a good worker. If they find out now they might can you.
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #13 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 9:59am » |
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LMMFAO!
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #14 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 10:10am » |
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Ramon,
I just started a new job 3 months ago and asked the same question. I also got the same answer, don't tell them unless you don't want the job.
BTW: you should talk to your wife more offten she's a smart woman.
Hi Woobie, love you
Love and hugs
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #15 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 11:59am » |
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Uhhhhh how did that go " Rank, Sex, Serial #" that’s it, those fuckers wait till the last minuet to lay your ass off, I don't telllem shit they don't need to know, legally. If Imitrex works for you, you can always take a ten minuet shit. 
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #16 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 12:11pm » |
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I pretty much agree. If they are pricks and will fire you for CH, I hope you can say "screw 'em."
You can always give them info after the fact and say that you can't be sure that they will ever repeat themselves and that it doesn't last.
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #17 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 12:29pm » |
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #18 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 12:54pm » |
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You 2 r 2 FUNNY.
Don't tell them. You're a good worker and that's all that matters right now.
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #19 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 1:44pm » |
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on Aug 5th, 2004, 8:41am, Gena wrote:
This is too funny. I can just see ya'll sitting there in the basement not 4ft from each other, but talking on the computer.
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We could see them on cam.
They were sitting right next to each other but,
would be conversing via the comp instead of just
turning to each other to talk.
It was way,way funny.
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #20 on: Aug 5th, 2004, 1:56pm » |
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Have to agree with yall on this one. Let'em see ya in action in the work force FIRST. Then when your in cycle print out the stuff ya need and hand off to da boss. Once ya done that you just gave insight to another person that may not have a clue of what CH is, hun ya just "learned'em"
BTW- Listen to da wife shes a smart cookie
PF wishes, Leesa Miss ya both LOTS
PS: Woobie, can I still cop a feel of da man boobies every once in a while?? Please I promise Ill be gentle. LMMFAO
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #21 on: Aug 6th, 2004, 12:48am » |
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ah well ya see ah well ah ah I dont have an opinion because my job is "house husband" and I dont think I can get fired for that because my boss (wifey) Chris already knows about my condition and it wouldnt be fired more like DEVORCED but then she wouldnt get any of my $1,100.00 a month disability check woopee huh all that to live on for a whole month and I am 49 (be 50 on JAN 20th 2005) and have worked almost every day since I was 17 so so much for SS but thats another story and what where you all talking about again ?????
thinking my bedtime meds are takng control of me now oh oh the spin is rooming oh and who else would do the dishes and laundry clean house make sure the dog and all 4 cats and 4 kittens (oh crap another cat is pregnant) are feed and have water and clean litterboxes and dog doodoo picked up outside at lest i dont have to do yard work cause cant be in hot humid weather but when nice out still have to wash wax car ok now where did i get off track again oh crap well i til jan 05 to get my witts back for the meet and greet i better start out to hotel now since so far away its like oh oh never mind lol ok i am done rambling talk again soon pfdn to all terry
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #22 on: Aug 6th, 2004, 2:16am » |
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on Aug 5th, 2004, 8:03am, Jeepgun wrote:| First Rule Of Being Married: Listen to your wife. |
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Dont like the sound of that in general
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #23 on: Aug 6th, 2004, 8:52am » |
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on Aug 5th, 2004, 1:44pm, KingOfPain wrote:
Memory.
The peeps at the NC Meet & Greet were doing
just that.
We could see them on cam.
They were sitting right next to each other but,
would be conversing via the comp instead of just
turning to each other to talk.
It was way,way funny.
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Re: To tell or not to tell...
« Reply #24 on: Aug 6th, 2004, 9:07am » |
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I wouldn't make a big deal out of it until you decide you want to keep the job. Then I would provide some documentation to human resources.
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