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THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« on: Jul 30th, 2004, 11:52am » |
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As a sufferer I am limited to view what the beast has to offer, only from the inside.
I dont think about how the beast effects those on the outside!!
However, i have lost yet another girlfriend due to the beast!!
i know, i know, if she cant see that the beast is only a part of me everyonce in a while and is not actually me then she is not worth it. But that doesnt make the loneliness anymore enjoyable.
Drowning my sorrows and inviting the beast
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #1 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 11:57am » |
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I'm sorry, Turts... I know it sucks right now, but why would you want to be with a woman who bails out on you at the first sign of difficulty or pain? Here's hoping that you find a woman willing to stand by you, for better or worse, for rich or for poor, in sickness and in health. *raising my glass of scotch* 
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #2 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 11:57am » |
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Sorry to hear about loosing a girlfriend.......  Hope you your heart mends soon.
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #3 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 11:57am » |
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I'm very sorry to hear that, but it is true, she is so not worth it. My boyfriend takes my clusters all in stride, if I'm in pain, he quietly stays away until it's gone, then he will hold me. If I'm down or in a bad mood sometimes I take it out on him, and he will just sit back and not get mad, he is a great person. Yeah, he doesn't understand the pain I endure, but he tries, which is what counts.
I am very sorry to hear about her lack of sympathy. But you are truly better off, someone great will come along.
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #4 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 12:25pm » |
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Awww.. I m sorry to hear this.. but as the others said.. if she cant be with you when there is a bit of a (albeit) painful bump in the road.. then you are better off without her....
"this too shall pass"
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #5 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 12:48pm » |
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Sorry Turts... I know that pain all too well.
Doesn't make it any easier when it happens, but I've come to expect it. Had a few failed relationships and lost a few friends due to the beast.
Hang tough,
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #6 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 1:16pm » |
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Sorry, hun.
Find yerself a nice clusterhead.
Just make sure she ain't no grump ass.
Peace and love,
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #7 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 2:21pm » |
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I was in your shoes not long ago my dear Cluster Brother. As I have learned in the past few months it is this condition that makes us some of the strongest humans around, so please rest assured that it's her loss in the long run!
Think about it....If you can deal with the beast, you can deal with any obstical that comes your way. Guess she wants a little "less" out of a partner...
Heal your heart dear Turt. It is only because there is something better on it's way that this happened. Have to have the room to let it in.....
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #8 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 3:31pm » |
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Dude....that aint right!
you arent alone in relationship department either, a few clusterbuds have suffered this recently ( I know it doesnt help any and that the choices are scarce in Aussieland... but you are better off without her if she doesnt have the fortitude to endure along side you)
hope things get better soon,
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #9 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 3:39pm » |
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Sorry to hear that turts. But a true partner will be there for you. even when they dont understand it all. You have lots of people here who will listen and hopefully you find someone who will look at and love only you and not only look at the surface.
PF Wishes my friend
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #10 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 5:12pm » |
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Your better off without the bitch!
The first time someone in my life shows that they do not have my back when the shit gets thick I kick them to the fucking curb.
I got enough on my plate to have to worry about just who will be there for me when I need them!
You will find what you need bro.
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #11 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 5:41pm » |
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Ahhhhhhhhhhh Turts, I'm sorry man!! 
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #12 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 6:26pm » |
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Turts, you're better off without her. Someone will come along who will accept you for who you are, CH and all.  Take care.
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #13 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 6:28pm » |
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on Jul 30th, 2004, 5:12pm, Jonny wrote:Your better off without the bitch!
The first time someone in my life shows that they do not have my back when the shit gets thick I kick them to the fucking curb.
I got enough on my plate to have to worry about just who will be there for me when I need them!
You will find what you need bro.
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Well said bro....................
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #14 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 6:37pm » |
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Hey bud better off with out her. Been there done that! if they are not going to stick thru the headaches then they will leave at the first sign of some other trouble.
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #15 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 6:50pm » |
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Sorry to hear Turts.
For me, she used to see me get hit and head upstairs and go to bed. I know damn well she didn't understand it or care much for that matter. I'm the one who left, incidentally.
You can do better Turts.
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #16 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 6:52pm » |
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ahem,.... a bad supporter is worse than no supporter at all....
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #17 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 7:12pm » |
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Well, I'm fixin' to rant....
What kind of person would hit the road when the going gets a little bumpy? A cold hearted, weak, wuss....that's what I say (and I'm being kind...  )
Like the others have said....you can do better and you deserve better.
Ok...now hold your head up and get after it!!! 
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #18 on: Jul 30th, 2004, 11:13pm » |
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I fully agree with the members. Why would one even consider a person when the person bails when the going gets rough.
My partner thought I was really messed up not understanding these clusters, but after finding this site she was able to see that I'm not the only person in the world having extreme pain as well she was able to understand the condition we suffer from.
Perhaps tufts, you might consider explaining this situation after things are cemented in a relationship but before you actually hit a cycle if possible.
If your new partner feels enough for you, she will understand and just back away while you dance.
ANyhooters.. best of luck and remeber there are many nice partners out there.
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #19 on: Jul 31st, 2004, 4:23pm » |
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I am sorry to hear about your girlfriend dude! It just kills me how many people on the outside just dont understand and how could they? My wife has been a trooper about it though I know she doesnt understand. WORK!!HA... I get the Oh yeah I get Migraines, or I get bad headaches too. Then they all wonder why you are such a puss "Just take a couple Tylenol."
Good Vibes dude!
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #20 on: Jul 31st, 2004, 9:24pm » |
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As painful as I know it is right now, I say good riddance to bad rubbish. There are lots of women who actually have hearts out there. You'll find one.
Maybe as a little going away present, you could print out this thread and send it to her. Maybe she might see herself through a different set of eyes.
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Re: THe BEAST claims another victim!!!
« Reply #21 on: Jul 31st, 2004, 10:00pm » |
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on Jul 30th, 2004, 5:12pm, Jonny wrote:| Your better off without the bitch! |
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Turts, jonny could not have said it better. If she has a problem now while your such a young man, what will happen when you get to be an old fart like me.
If she can not support you now why the hell would you want her around.
The right girl is out there for you. Hang in there it will get better.
The very best to you...
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