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WTF??? Just once I'd like a fuken break.
« on: Jul 2nd, 2004, 11:46pm » |
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As most of you know, my son is coming home on leave this weekend. We had a big time party planned for his homecoming and his 20th birthday which is July 4th. All his old friends from Stillwater and Enid were going to be there. A real shindig. I just got notified my wife's most favorite aunt in the whole world died today. I loved that lady as if she were my own aunt. Not only did I have to break it to my wife - not a pretty scene - but, my son gets to come home to a fucken funeral instead of a party.
Wucking fonderful!
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You won't be the only one not whooping it up this 4th, Ree. $hit!
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Re: WTF??? Just once I'd like a fuken break.
« Reply #1 on: Jul 2nd, 2004, 11:56pm » |
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Gator,
I am so sorry to hear of your families loss...perhaps your son's safe arrival home will bring you some real joy during this painful time.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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« Reply #2 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 12:11am » |
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Gator, I am so very sorry, and I echo Donna's thoughts, as well. My best to you all.
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« Reply #3 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 1:55am » |
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Gator,
Sorry to hear the bad news. I'm sure you will still have a wonderful time with your son and family members during these times of bereavment.
May god bless you and your family.
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« Reply #4 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 2:29am » |
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Although I only know you through these boards, as Elaine put it, I feel like I've known you all my life. My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope that SOMEHOW ya'll can turn a funeral into a celebration.
My prayers are with you.
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« Reply #5 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 2:40am » |
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Sorry gator...
But look on the bright side...
She's in a much better place than Oklahoma now. 
Just trying to be funny as an ex okie...
Best wishes.
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« Reply #6 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 2:49am » |
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Gator,
I am sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you can enjoy the time you have with your son. Thinking of you and yours...
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« Reply #7 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 8:00am » |
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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« Reply #8 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 9:45am » |
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Gator,
I'm truly sorry for your families loss! But I'm also glad that you get to see your Son. I'm sure that your Aunt would want you guys to have as good a time as possible in these trying circumstances.
Peace to you and your family!
Jimbo
P.S. Tell your son all of us here at CVille say "Happy Birthday!"
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« Reply #9 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 10:11am » |
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that sux Gator, it would be nice to able to mourn the loss and celebrate the homecoming in the same timeframe. vibes, brother.
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« Reply #10 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 10:19am » |
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My deepest sympathy dear friend. As was said she is in a better place, and she will never really be gone. She lives on in memories of all the wonderful times, and special person she was. All the best to you and your family in your time of sorrow. Read the tag line... hope it helps you in your grief.
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« Reply #11 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 11:05am » |
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Gator,
To you and your family our heart, prayers and vibes travel. We pray that your son has a safe trip home and that in some way you can focus on the joy that it brings to have him back in your arms where he belongs.
Dave Leesa and all 3 boys
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« Reply #12 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 1:59pm » |
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Prayers, peace, love and Vibes Gator. Stay strong...I know you can. Luke
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« Reply #13 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 2:08pm » |
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We are so sorry to hear of your loss . . .as bad as the timing is (was) . . . maybe you can celebrate your son's return home, his birthday, and her life .. . life celebrations can really help people *smiles*
Our thoughts are with you and your family.
*positive light and energy*
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« Reply #14 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 2:33pm » |
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Gator, my heart bleeds for your pain and suffering in this trying time. As you know, I just went through this with my mother. The attitude I took, that helped me, was not to look at it as a mourning period, but a period of celebration. A celebration of her life. My mother was lucky enough to have lived for 82 years. There were great things to celebrate in those years. I felt so good to hear from her old high school buddies, family, and life long friends, of her life.
It was great to relive her life, and to tell my own stories of her. Even when she beat my ass (of course it was ALWAYS a mistake, as I was such a good child!) (NOT!). My mother was wonderful, talented, energetic, and as all mothers can be, a pain in the ass, at times, too. I am sure you can remember these sorts of times with this special lady, too.
My mother had a wonderful life, as a whole. I am sure this special Aunt, did also. Celebrate the life she had. I know you mourne her loss to you and your family, but rejoice in the times that you had with her. Never forget them.
Remember, she will never leave you. She will always be in your heart.
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« Reply #15 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 3:34pm » |
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Im sorry Gator................  I just know what eles to say.
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My deepest sympathy to you and your family Gator.
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« Reply #17 on: Jul 3rd, 2004, 10:38pm » |
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« Reply #18 on: Jul 4th, 2004, 12:34am » |
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So sorry for your loss. It's kinda good that your son will be home so you can all be together when you'll need eachother the most. Your son would probably feel worse if he couldn't come home to be there for you and your wife. Keep your head up.
And happier birthday's will come...(21)
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Re: WTF??? Just once I'd like a fuken break.
« Reply #19 on: Jul 4th, 2004, 12:44am » |
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Rats.
Sorry to hear Gator. You're right; it seems you never get a break. This stuff doesn't seem to have a schedule. 
I hope you at least get to enjoy the family.
All my best,
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« Reply #20 on: Jul 4th, 2004, 11:55am » |
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Bummer Dude........Sorry
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Re: WTF??? Just once I'd like a fuken break.
« Reply #22 on: Jul 4th, 2004, 6:38pm » |
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Gator,
I'm sure if this aunt was a the kind of person you describe, though it will be sad, I'm am sure your son or none of you would think of a higher priority at this time than being at the funeral. He will see all his family, who will all be glad to see him. You will have a shorter time together with him, but I am sure you will make the most of your time together. Thoughts to you Gator.
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« Reply #23 on: Jul 4th, 2004, 7:39pm » |
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HEY GATOR!!!!!!!!!!!!
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