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athos
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update here
« on: May 13th, 2004, 5:33am » |
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I want to post an update that kida lets everyone know what has been going on... Thanks for all of the kind words and suggestions... You are a family that I can not do without.
I am doing a bit better.. Today was wonderful outside of some familial confrontations. It was a nice rest
I have been hit very hard over the past few months and there have been some things that I think that are contributing to it.
Over the years I have had many head/neck injuries.. and now have a titanium plate in my neck.. the brachial nerve bundle on both sides are a mess so spot on both hands are numb and most ofhte time my neck shoulders and arms hurt like hell... Top that off with the by weekly CH and life is a charm... But this is nothing to some of you crazies that make me look like someone with the sniffles.
Emotionally it has been tough. I have had the 15 year step daughter move back in from a recent stay at her aunts with their try at rehailitation... That are a "perfect" family... and thought that they could do well with her.. Until they found out that she will manipulate you blind and will steal everything and break your heart in the process.... Now she is back... She has an 18 yrold boyfrined that took her from here az over Christmas.... back to UT wehre we lived recenly. I should have filled 3 counts of kidnapping, statutory rape, endagerment of a minor, transporting a minor across state lines etc.... then but her mother would not do it.
When her aunt could no longer handle her she said well I will just take my boyfriend back to AZ and we will live with my family there... BULLSHIT!!!!
She soon found out that if he so much and show his face I will take it off.
She now knows the rules and what I will do if she breaks them.. There is no such thing as compromise, there is not lienency, this is not a democracy. She has once chavce before she is turned over to the state till she is 18. She has manipulated, destoryed, and torn down my wife and my family more times that I can count... Better judgement tells me I should not give her this last chance, but I will.
So with that all on my plate... 60+hours a week at work 4 freelance clients and a new case of persistant anxiety... what more could happen....
Hell ya bring it on.... X-me
Damn are we a bunch maladjusted misfits or what?
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Re: update here
« Reply #1 on: May 13th, 2004, 5:46am » |
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."
Sounds like you are doing it tough, hopefully there is light at the end of the tunnel, and it aint an oncoming train.
Keep straight and strong - upwards and onwards.
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Thanks for the honest update.
In addition to what Aussie says, another philosophy (Chinese this time)
"Seven times down, eight times up."
I try and remember this when too much goes wrong at one time, I know the eight times up are coming your way soon 
Wendy
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Re: update here
« Reply #3 on: May 13th, 2004, 7:42am » |
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I have a 13 yr old daughter.............. and I'm scared!
Hugz to you Athos............ 
I hope you can get some peace!!!!!!!!!!!!!
tina 
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Re: update here
« Reply #4 on: May 13th, 2004, 9:35pm » |
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Be strong! Stand firm! Be well! I hope there is a light at the end soon for you and your family dear. Thanks for letting us know whats going on. We are all here for ya!!
Leesa
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Re: update here
« Reply #5 on: May 14th, 2004, 12:49am » |
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Stand strong my friend. True love is tough, and your daughter will thank you for it if she ever grows up. You have enough on your plate right now, so tell the beast to go visit someone else. Her boyfriend might be a good start! 
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