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ZAIRA
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My friend died today...
« on: Apr 8th, 2004, 5:01pm » |
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When you lose a close friend it’s like to lose a part of yourself.
Why do bad things happen always to good people?
This question is deep and without any answer... 
It would be good if good people would be recompensed for their good life and not give them pain and sufference... the innocent people are punished and their tyrants are free... moral, in the good people the pain is double and wins!
I have another angel in my side... 30 yrs. old... It’s really a young age to die...
Thank you, Zaira
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Re: My friend died today...
« Reply #1 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 5:04pm » |
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Zaira,
I'm SO sorry to hear this.
My thoughts & prayers are with you today.
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« Reply #2 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 5:11pm » |
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« Reply #3 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 5:17pm » |
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I am SO very sorry Zazi.
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« Reply #4 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 5:22pm » |
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Sorry to read of the loss of your friend.
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Re: My friend died today...
« Reply #5 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 5:28pm » |
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So sorry to hear of your loss, Zaira. Our hearts and prayers are with you now.
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« Reply #6 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 5:34pm » |
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Zaria, I shed tears along with you
I am so sorry, my thought and prayers are with you and her family.
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« Reply #7 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 5:44pm » |
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I'm so sorry too.
She will live on in your heart and the hearts of the others she touched. I am sorry she found pain on this earth, and maybe she will find peace where she is now.
so sad.
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« Reply #8 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 5:46pm » |
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I am very sorry my friend. You know that you are in my thoughts every day and that my heart is with you. Everytime you close your eyes she will be with you. She will keep you safe from the deamons that try and cause you harm.
You get a hold of me whenever you need me. I am always here for you.
Ti Amo, my sister.
-Tia
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« Reply #9 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 5:58pm » |
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My thoughts are with you and your friends family
Take care
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« Reply #10 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 7:11pm » |
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Sorry about the loss. I know how devastating it can be.
Draw something as a memorial, for her. The art of beauty can be found in ashes.
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« Reply #12 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 7:28pm » |
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So sorry to hear this, Zazi.
Losing someone is never easy, and losing someone young is even harder.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Luv, Lizzie
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« Reply #13 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 8:13pm » |
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I'm very sorry you lost your friend Zaira. Losing close friends is one of lifes most difficult things to go through indeed....just keep smiling. You have such a beautiful smile...hang in there,
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« Reply #14 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 8:20pm » |
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« Reply #15 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 8:24pm » |
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Zaira, I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your dear friend. My best friend died 2 years ago and it still hurts very much today. I will be praying for you.
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« Reply #16 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 8:24pm » |
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Awwwww Z Im so very sorry to hear this dear. I dont know what eles to say but Im sorry. My heart goes out to you as well as the family for the loss.
Love, Leesa
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« Reply #17 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 8:31pm » |
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I 'KNOW' how it feels........sorry for the loss and loss of a great friend is always nothin but SAD !!!! Sorry vibes Pam
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« Reply #18 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 8:36pm » |
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So sorry for your loss Zazi.
My condolences to you, her family, & friends.
May the dove of peace.......
guide her on her way.
She looked like a very beautiful Young Lady.
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« Reply #19 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 9:09pm » |
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So sad...
All my thoughts are with u Zaira.
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« Reply #20 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 9:21pm » |
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Zazi, I know there really are no words to comfort you right now, but know that she is not in pain and is at peace now. She will always live on in your memory and your heart, which is what she would want. Email me if you want Zazi, whether it be to vent sadness or talk about the good times you had with her. I'm here for you.
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« Reply #21 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 11:10pm » |
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Zazi, I am so very sorry for the passing of your friend. *HUGGGGGGGGGS* May peace, strength, love, and sanctuary be yours during this time and the time to come. Love lasts forever, and with hearts that share love, there is no such place as "far away." *HUGGGGGGGS*
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« Reply #22 on: Apr 8th, 2004, 11:37pm » |
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Dear Zazi,
I have been searching my heart for the right words for you today. I must admit they esape me, for i'm sorry and sad simply do not seem to be adequate to say.
So please accept this poem I found as a way to heal and understand.
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DON'T CRY FOR ME
how many of you
can truely say
you're not afraid of death
in any way?
i have met such a person
who to my horror said
"don't cry for me
i'll soon be dead"
"i have time to tell my dearest
how i love them so,
an opportunity most people,
don't get before they go".
"it's not a happy ending
it's not a sad one too
it's the end of my beginning
it's what i have to do"
with a smile on her face
and with passion she said
"don't cry for me,
i'm already dead".
I listened to her words
and didn't cry a tear
for what she said was wisdom
wise beyond her year
with no fear in her voice
no tear in her eye
she carried on speaking,
pausing to sigh
"of course i'd love to be here
of course i want to stay
to watch you open presents
on every special day".
"but i can't live any longer
i have to end the pain
death is the only thought
that helps to keep me sane".
"my fate was chosen long ago
by forces big and strong
I ask you not to cry for me
for i know it wont be long".
with that my new friend finished
and said she had to go
but i did not shed a tear
although she'd never know
I took it all on board
everything she'd said
and I prayed to my lord
for i knew she'd soon be dead
I asked him to take care of her
I told him she was kind
he told me he'd look after her
which gave me peace of mind
so when this day arrives
i will not shed a tear
for i know she will be happy
and treated very dear.
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As always Zazi, you are in my thoughts and prayers. May you find peace and understanding through the tears you will shed for you loss.
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Re: My friend died today...
« Reply #23 on: Apr 9th, 2004, 12:08am » |
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Zazi,
She'll always be with you in spirit.
My deepest heartfelt sympathy to you, sweetie
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« Reply #24 on: Apr 9th, 2004, 12:19am » |
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I'm an emotional cripple...so what do I know.
I do suggest you keep looking. The stream is much deeper than it appears.
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