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juvy
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does it ever stop?
« on: Jul 31st, 2003, 7:11am » |
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Hi guys/gals,
First I apologize for posting bad news yet again.
Second, Can i request a group hug?
This has possibly been the worst year of my life..at least that I can remember. Seems we have reached death number 5 of this year. I still can't believe it. Willum was so full of energy and life. He was only 40. He died yesterday morning of a heart attack. I'm on the verge of a complete nervous break down.
I don't know how i'm going to get through this one. I'm still grieving for the others. I'm still pretty much in shock. So I apologize if i'm not making much sense.
I just really don't know what to do, or think or feel. I'm completely numb, except for this aching loss I can feel in my chest.
~Juvy
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #1 on: Jul 31st, 2003, 7:17am » |
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I'm sorry that things are so rough for you juvy 
I wish I knew the words that could make it all better, but I don't
Take the hug, and feel the cluster vibes comin your way. They really can help, just let them in.
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #2 on: Jul 31st, 2003, 7:26am » |
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aww hon.. I am so sorry to hear of yet another loss for you. It has indeed been a terrible year for you. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers..and remember..we are never given more than our shoulders can bear...this pain in your heart will ease and the good times spent with these people will overtake the heartache..
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Shari
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #3 on: Jul 31st, 2003, 7:30am » |
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Lots of wibes on its way from Norway.If you need a shoulder just grab one.
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the numb thing will last for awhile, just your brain and body coping with the losses. You'll make it through to the other side, just take it day by day. You have my sympathies...
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #5 on: Jul 31st, 2003, 7:33am » |
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My heart goes out to you. We all suffer losses throughout our lives but it looks like you've had more than your fair share this year. Shari's words are so true. Just hang on in there love, and be strong.
Love and hugs.
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #6 on: Jul 31st, 2003, 7:46am » |
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thanks guys and gals
I can't begin to explain how much this board has helped me through these last 7 months. I'd probably be a basket case without all of you.
~Juvy
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I'm gonna venture to say that everyone that reads this is a world class expert in dealing with pain....physical , mental, and emotional. Cluster Headaches do that to ones life.
Know that the number of replys to these "death in the family" posts represent only the tip of the iceberg of folks who empathize with you. There are many out there that use only the monitor. We raise you up in our hearts.
Obviously, since sittin tucked away in the woods in Texas I know about it, you both have a good handle on one aspect of "pain management"....sharing it ...is a good idea...
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One foot in front of the other. The next right thing. Find some aspect of it to "raise the level of hope" as my boss says. You'll be surprised by joy.
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #9 on: Jul 31st, 2003, 9:21am » |
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Big cyber vibe hugs goin out to ya juvy....so sorry for you loss......so sorry for how you must feel now. You know you got family here.........everyone is giveing you a group hug too ! Pam sending out a big ole hug ta ya cyber style
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #10 on: Jul 31st, 2003, 9:36am » |
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Hugs and vibes going out to you Juvy.
Hang in there,
Suzy
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #11 on: Jul 31st, 2003, 9:39am » |
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.... sorry, Babe....
... wish there was something I could say that would make things better for you...
... all I can say is "We're here for you"....
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Juvy
I am very sorry.
Hug sent from over the pond.
I am lighting a candle for someone myself today, so will light one for you and your family and friends too.
W the B
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #13 on: Aug 1st, 2003, 3:12am » |
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I thank everyone for posting and sending vibes. I'm in a much better frame of mood today and I owe it to most of you and my mom. I just wanted to let everyone know how much I appreciate your support and can't begin to tell how much it has helped me through this and the tough times i know are ahead.
so very simply.
Thank you.
~juvy
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #14 on: Aug 1st, 2003, 5:27am » |
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My heart goes out for you.
One day at a time!
Patrick
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #15 on: Aug 1st, 2003, 3:37pm » |
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Hello Juvy... I’m very sorry for your loss  ... again try to be strong... prayers go from Italy to you.
Zaira
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #16 on: Aug 1st, 2003, 4:58pm » |
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I'm not sure what to say other than I'm sorry you have had this much pain in your life. How about one thing at time for a change?
It's hard to imagine now but believe it or not, things will get better.
Tell us how you're doing.
Charlie
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #17 on: Aug 1st, 2003, 5:06pm » |
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Juvy huge hugs coming to you, im soooo sorry
Prayers and thoughts to help you through this.
Cathy & Wes
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Re: does it ever stop?
« Reply #18 on: Aug 1st, 2003, 8:41pm » |
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juvy-
Hang in there! Remember, all things in life are temporary. Things will come back around in time.
Until they do...we're here. God bless!
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