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Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« on: Apr 26th, 2003, 5:54pm » |
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I know how all the good vibes and prayers have helped others in here and I'm asking if you do pray that you will say a little prayer for my mom. If you dont pray, please send some good vibes.
My mom has been in a nursing home for a couple of years going downhill. She suffers from dementia, she is 75 yrs. old. Today she suffered a stroke and went into seizures and my brother and I had to make a decision to not to resusitate. I do not think she could ever get better but I just want her to be in peace. I cry when I think of the woman she once was and how she has to live now.
I thank you all. You are part of my family and I love you all.
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #1 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 6:01pm » |
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Suzy Im so sorry you're having to cope with this right now, my thoughts, prayers and best vibes are with you!!
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #2 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 6:03pm » |
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Suzy,
Prayers and vibes on the way!
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #3 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 6:07pm » |
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Sorry for your troubled time. Someone once said to me "there are things worse than death" I firmly believe this to be true. May your family find peace in your time of need
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #4 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 6:15pm » |
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Suz,
You know im not a prayer type of guy but for you and your Mom I will do my best.
You e-mail me if you want....Fuck that....781-985-6500 call
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #5 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 6:19pm » |
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Suzy, Prayers and vibes are heading your way for your mom, and some for you too ...............andy
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #6 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 6:23pm » |
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Will be thinking about you and sending you strong vibes... Prayers for your mother...
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #7 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 6:57pm » |
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suzy...believe me when I say that I am truly sorry for this turn of events.... my ole MOMS is almost 80...thankfully, as sharp as a tack and cranky as a Model T.... but she's confined to her chair and get's by on the vodka and cigarettes I dole out to her..... this is not to make light of the pain you are in, but to say that *some* of the old farts don't go easy.... and anyway, we, as the *kids* can make their lives easier...
...well, it'll come back to us....when we're old 'n cranky......
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #8 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 7:45pm » |
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May there be a blessing of peace upon your house.
I have experienced your pain once, and I am afraid that the second round is not far in the future. Cannot do vibes, but I -can- send waves of empathy.
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #9 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 7:48pm » |
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Oh Suzy I can relate to you in a huge way... Daves mom is the same age and is starting to show signs of dementia... You will make the right decision for your mom and know that there is freedom on the other side. God Bless you... Remember the mom she was and not the shell she is living in now... Love ya email or call if you need me... ree
Jonny you say you arent a prayer person yet you do Gods work everyday in all the little things (and big) you do for all of us here... Your life is a prayer... You are so good.
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #10 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 8:06pm » |
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Suzy,
I'm so sorry for your grief right now 
You've got all the vibes in my heart goin your way right now. Hang in there girl, you are a wonderful daughter.
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #11 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 8:15pm » |
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Suzy, this is hard time for anyone to go through, and I am so sorry you are experiencing it now. I do know the sense of helplessness and grief you are feeling. My thoughts, hopes and prayers are with you in this. Sleep easy with the decision you have made, and remember the vital woman she once was. That is how she would want you to think of her.
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« Reply #12 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 8:25pm » |
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I wish I knew what to say, but I would agree with what Ree said. I know it hurts. But you have good memories and she guided you on the road to becoming the good person you are today. We all have to leave this life at some point and it sounds like she had an enriched life.
I don't pray, but, know that love, understanding and strength is being sent your way.
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« Reply #13 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 9:05pm » |
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Good vibes going your mom's and your way!
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #14 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 9:36pm » |
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Damn. Ya never get a break. Sorry.
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #15 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 9:42pm » |
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Suzy Ted and I will be praying for you, your mother and your family. You had to make a difficult desion today. Rest asured your mother is in a place of peace. The Bible tells us that we get glorified new bodies once we pass with white robes to wear. There is no sickness no dispair. Remember your mother as she was before she got ill because that is how she is now.
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #16 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 9:48pm » |
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I just want to thank each and everyone of you. When I read your posts I became overwhelmed to think that even though I have never met any of you in person, you have became a hugh part of my life.
Thanks for being here, I know I always have a place to come to when I need a cyber hug!
You are all very special to me and as I sit here and cry thinking of what once was in my life, I can also appreciate what I have now....my family.....
Suzy
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #17 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 10:09pm » |
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Suzy,
I'll be thinking of you and your family during these troubled times.
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #18 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 11:09pm » |
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Dear Suzy,
I am very sorry to hear of the situation . My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
with sadness,
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« Reply #19 on: Apr 26th, 2003, 11:13pm » |
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #20 on: Apr 27th, 2003, 1:52am » |
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From all of my family to yours
Good vibes and prayers. I'm sorry that you have to go through this. We wish your mother peace and comfert.
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #21 on: Apr 27th, 2003, 2:31am » |
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Suzy,
Consider it done. My family and I will be praying for you and your family at this time.
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #22 on: Apr 27th, 2003, 3:56am » |
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Good vibes coming your way suzy617
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #23 on: Apr 27th, 2003, 4:24am » |
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suzy617 prayers and good vibes coming to your mom
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Re: Can You Please Say A Prayer For My Mom?
« Reply #24 on: Apr 27th, 2003, 5:18am » |
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Suzy,
Prayers and vibes on the way!
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