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StanTheMan
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A grateful sufferer
« on: Nov 5th, 2002, 9:05am » |
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Since today's my birthday -- and birthdays are always an appropriate time to reflect and count one's blessings, I have to brag a little about my supporter -- Dana, my wife of 10 years.
Like many of you who understand what a good supporter is supposed to do, Dana understands that I need to be left alone when I'm having a full blown attack--even though it pains her so much to see me suffer.
She lets me know that she's praying for me, gives me a hug (when I'm ready for one), and offers TONS of encouragement. (Thank you, sweetheart!)
During my last cycle, she carried an extra measure of "household management" duties, while I struggled with the beast: three small children, homeschooling two of those children, cooking, cleaning, shopping, and all without any grumbling or griping whatsoever!
I'll never forget my first cycle -- we were newlyweds -- she was so frightened (so was I, of course!). But she rose up to the occaision and supported me as best she knew how!
It was a learning process, and with each cycle that hit in subsequent years, she got better at it.
So, here's to you, sweetheart! Thank you, Lord for such a terrific wife and for giving me another year of living. I know that I am truly blessed
Folks, if you have a good supporter -- be sure and let them know how much she/he is appreciated!
Best wishes and prayers for PFDAN to all!
StanTheMan
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"All the days of the afflicted are bad, but the cheerful heart has a continual feast." - - - - - Proverbs 15:15
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #1 on: Nov 5th, 2002, 9:32am » |
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What a beautiful post, Stan!
Happy Birthday!!
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #2 on: Nov 5th, 2002, 9:41am » |
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I agree with Margi.....lovely post 
It sounds like you have a wonderful wife and a good supporter. It's nice to see a post like this....I'm sure she will appreciate reading it...
Wishing you a Happy Birthday...
Jacks 
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #3 on: Nov 5th, 2002, 10:39am » |
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That was soooo sweet, made me cry !!!
Happy Birthday and many many more happy years with your wonderful wife !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #4 on: Nov 5th, 2002, 10:42am » |
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Nice moment of reflection Stan... Wishing you the very best on your Birthday... Cheers man!
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #5 on: Nov 5th, 2002, 10:46am » |
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Cheers mate, wish we all had someone like that.
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #6 on: Nov 5th, 2002, 11:06am » |
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Happy Birthday Stan
You are a lucky man!
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Happy Birthday Stan!
Life IS good sometimes isn't it?
Have a great one!
Sherry
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #8 on: Nov 5th, 2002, 12:14pm » |
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Happy Birthday Stan
I too have a wonderful supporter and it does mean all the difference with each cycle. I'm glad you have someone there to help you when and how you need it.
Now even though it's your bday - take her out to a nice dinner.... ;D
Mia
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #9 on: Nov 5th, 2002, 12:34pm » |
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Mia:
One step ahead of you -- flowers for the Mrs. are already planned for today. The night out for dinner is set for Friday!! ;D
Stan
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #10 on: Nov 5th, 2002, 2:01pm » |
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You ROCK Stan!!!!!!
I hope you both have a wonderful time - as parents and adults - we all need to get away with our loved one's and spend that quality time we all need and deserve.....
Mia
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Three Cheers for Stan & Dana!!!!
Stan, don't even know which one comes first, so these go side-by-side:
A big ole HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you!!
You are quite a man- you & Dana have found "IT"- that makes you invincible together- that's rare! congratulations to you both-
and PFDAN!
Cathi
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #12 on: Nov 5th, 2002, 7:08pm » |
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Awww... Stan..that was beautiful..
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #13 on: Nov 5th, 2002, 8:15pm » |
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Quote:| One step ahead of you -- flowers for the Mrs. are already planned for today. The night out for dinner is set for Friday!! |
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Ahhhhh... So Stan really is The Man...
Looks like this birthday is for both of you - 
ENJOY!
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #15 on: Nov 6th, 2002, 12:09am » |
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Re: A grateful sufferer
« Reply #16 on: Nov 6th, 2002, 12:52am » |
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Stan,
Your post really touched my heart. What a lucky man you are to have her, and what a lucky lady she is to have someone that appreciates her this much. Dang!
I've got to go cry now.....thanks a lot!
Linda Howell
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